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It will still be there tomorrow and I value my mental health.
I think it's worth restating this.
I've been there. Worked in a place that was an hour's commute on a good day and normally considerably longer. Contracted hours were 8:30 till 5 but due to the volume of work and insanity of the roads at that time I was routinely there until 6 or 7pm. Coming in the next morning, I'd get in at 8:35 due to traffic and get a kicking for being five minutes late. The only way I could guarantee to be in for 8:30 - and even then there might be exceptions, it once took me over 3 hours due to a big smash on the M6 - is to aim to get in for 7:30. Effectively working an 11-hour day.
Whilst at work I was doing the job of, well, basically "IT department" as I was the only one left. I was slammed constantly from the moment I walked through the door, and if I had 20 jobs to do that day and managed 19 I'd get a massive bollocking for the one I hadn't done.
It ended up making me ill. I wasn't sleeping, getting regular migraines, and driving home on Friday night thinking "Christ, only two days and I've got to go back again." I didn't even get peace at weekends; staff would think nothing of ringing me at home on a Sunday morning because their home computer wasn't working.
Ultimately, for all my efforts, I was fired over a bunch of trumped-up 'charges' that management had made up because they wanted to replace me with someone who'd do what I was doing only for considerably less money. He'd spent weeks compiling a dossier of broadly fictitious 'misdemeanours;' it was a witch hunt, and when I had answers for 99% of them they offered me a few grand to just go away quietly. In hindsight I probably should have sued them but at the time I was just eternally grateful to be out of there.
It was at least six months before I worked again, maybe longer. My head was up my arse, I was in bits.
After that I vowed, never again. I now carry a work mobile which I can switch off when I'm not in work, I work sensible hours, I force myself to actually take a proper lunch break rather than grabbing a sandwich and eating at my desk whilst carrying on working, I'll work back if needed now but it's on my terms rather than because it's expected.
Life's too short to be miserable at work, and it's certainly too short to be ill because of it. Quoth the raven.
I've not had an hourly paid job since I was a teenager so perhaps not directly relevant to the original question. But FWIW I have generally worked 10-12 hours a day out of choice plus 1.25 hours each way commute. It simple terms that's the norm and "what it takes". Has this made me sick, no. Would I have had a better quality of life if I had a less intense job, yes. I made a choice though so it's my responsibility.
Life's too short to be miserable at work, and it's certainly too short to be ill because of it.
totally agree. I'm on my second round of anti-biotics in the last few weeks. Partly because I'm soo run down with work. I've already stopped checking work emails outside of office hours- as there is always something thats pings up then you spend the WHOLE weekend thinking about it (not what you've done wrong, just another thing that hasn't gone right and needs a refocus etc on Monday am). So the outside work/phone has STOPPED.
Work now starts when I get in and leaves sharp when I leave. Long after a montly payment has gone your health needs to still be there and there will always be work in the future...IF your health is there.
I've already stopped mrsH from continually checking her work emails 24/7 as she'd get angry about what some idiot in China had done.
In our place come 5:15 the daily stay laters seem to just chat so I see no valid reason for them staying late. Mind you they are generally they same people who spend the day chatting.
If I need to stay to work on something I stay, but generally take the time back. Worked on a project recently and I was working 7am to 9pm. If I'm not on something like that I'm out the door for 5pm.
I'll echo what Cougar wrote about the expectation to be a at work and the focus on the negatives from management.
I ran a R&D facility for a plastics manufacturer for about 5 years. It was a building full of machinery that was used by various project managers for process and material trials, producing samples, commissioning new tolling, etc. There was no give and take, stupid hours, never any overtime payments even though I was hourly paid. I made myself ill.
When they sold the business the new owners closed the R&D department and I went back to production. That was shift work so there was never any need to do overtime, only extra shifts when someone was on holiday.
My current job is again production 24/7, so the same situation. But when I started it was a new factory build and start up. So there were long hours, emails and phone calls outside of the contracted hours. But it only lasted 9 months until things settled down. I then turned off notifications so I'll deal with it when I'm next on shift, there's always someone else to take over. But I see the middle management guys and girls "working" when they should have finished for the day. I get paid overtime hours, but I've got an arrangement with my boss to take the time off when I've accrued enough hours to take a whole shift.
All of the guys on shift are expected to work a little flexiblly, be in 10 minutes early to hand over between shifts, but on the back of that if there's little information to handover, other than "make more of those and those", then they'll be out of the door early. Especially on the last shift, 2 days / 2 nights, because everyone on my shift team rides, so they'll be in the Forrest of Dean by 7am for a blast before bed!
It depends on if you are doing it because you have a stake in the outcome (either personal or financial) or you're doing it because you're being manipulated somehow.
work for free?
current place does overtime - fine with this
previous place tended to reward late stayers (providing you were visibly fixing something visible) with better bonuses - fine with that
in both these jobs I'd happily do extra hours if projects needed it
several previous places did neither bonus scheme nor overtime = on the clock and no extra hours
so glad i’m self employed and not working extra hours and really resenting it like some of the posts above, thats a mugs game. obviously paperwork/research/meetings/test shoots are all unpaid but the paid jobs more than make up for that and if i dont want to do anything on a particular day no manager is going to grizzle.
i do work for free though but it’s on my terms and i’ll only do it if i feel it benefits me (or others like the odd charity job)
anyone who comes to me telling me “it will be good exposure for you” is usually ignored as they just want exclusive high quality imagery for nothing.
just about everything i have done for free has usually led to other things that have paid off handsomely.
have a freebie on sunday as B-camera shooting part 2 of a horror movie trailer. not sure how thats going to benefit me but it’s good fun and better than building twig bridges and crossing streams on a ‘motivational team building weekend’ with people you hate.
i do work for free though but it’s on my terms
I think that's the crux of it, isn't it.
I'm happy to do a bit extra out of hours as a favour to someone who asks nicely, because [i]I'm choosing to do so.[/i] If it's a five minute job, like dialling in to a server to check that an upgrade has been successful or something, I'll probably not bother claiming it back as it'll take longer to write down than it took to do the job. Instead I'll just take a POETS day on Friday, or quite often not even that as it'll come out in the wash if I need to nip out to the shop later or some such.
It's when it's [i]expected [/i]that I'm going to work for free that we have a problem. I work for one reason and that's to get paid, if you're not paying me then why am I working? That's the behaviour of a mentalist and I'm not doing it.
AS it is me at the top, and my only boss is located 200km at another site, if it isn't done by me, it doesn't get done.
That is a considerable number of people effected, although I do get paid for the long hours just not an hourly rate, I would hate to calculate the actual rate though
i do work for free though but it’s on my termsI think that's the crux of it, isn't it.
I'm happy to do a bit extra out of hours as a favour to someone who asks nicely, because I'm choosing to do so. If it's a five minute job, like dialling in to a server to check that an upgrade has been successful or something, I'll probably not bother claiming it back as it'll take longer to write down than it took to do the job. Instead I'll just take a POETS day on Friday, or quite often not even that as it'll come out in the wash if I need to nip out to the shop later or some such.
It's when it's expected that I'm going to work for free that we have a problem. I work for one reason and that's to get paid, if you're not paying me then why am I working? That's the behaviour of a mentalist and I'm not doing it.
This. I have objected quite vocally to people planning in work that required extended working when there was no good reason. Occasionally things go wrong and in those cases I'll stay and help. More often than not the reason people here work long hours is because they've planned 6 months of work into 5.
AS it is me at the top, and my only boss is located 200km at another site, if it isn't done by me, it doesn't get done.That is a considerable number of people effected, although I do get paid for the long hours just not an hourly rate, I would hate to calculate the actual rate though
You need to work on your understaffing policy.
I once worked freelance at a mahoosive American company. Most of the staff were freelance. We were all out of there bang on 5. As we were bang payed by the hour, this suited the company just fine. The management (the only full time salaried staff) would all stop late for hours every evening. They did * all in that extra time (they mainly did * all during the day, to be honest). But over the years a culture had developed where it was seen as bad form to leave on time, so they all just hung around pretending to be busy.
Absolutely bonkers!
Work free, are you mental? I work when required and keep the place ticking over, but otherwise, in at 9.30 out the door at 5.
if I was in charge, i'd implement a job and finish policy.
My current place is really reasonable, there's the right amount of give and take, if either party took the piss there'd be trouble but it all works very well because none of us are failures as human beings. This attitude would not work in the bank.
Agreed, although not sure what bank you worked at but at mine its a case of 'as long as you get the work done we don't care when you start or leave'. Noone abuses the flexibility from either side.
lots of posting during the day on work time in this thread, so i guess you better stay late and make up your time 🙄
It depends. If it some minutes late then it is ok. Not hours, though. And I like taking my breaks, I think it is benefixial to take some time for yourself. I think I am more productive than I would be if I stayed in the office sitting in front of my computer
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It depends. If it some minutes late then it is ok. Not hours, though. And I like taking my breaks, I think it is benefixial to take some time for yourself. I think I am more productive than I would be if I stayed in the office sitting in front of my computer
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