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Vincent. variously known as Vince or Vinny depending on the decade.

I like it a lot now, but when a school kid you just want the commonest low profile name.

When I first immigrated to this part of the world at the start of the 90's I lived in N. Ireland- my (fellow Kiwi) girlfriend's father was originally from there, and deeply suspicious of, and at times ill behaved to me because I had a Catholic name. We had quite a few comments from the locals, with us living in the Protestant end of town in the old family home, me with my Catholic forename, her with a well known Protestant surname,.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:07 pm
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Im terry

At work im young tel ( we already had an old tel)

Never met another in my home town ever

Old tel employed me at my work as my name was tel - that was the distinguising feature haha


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:09 pm
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Thanks CG Dolcered, 😳 It's weird, now people comment how nice it is, when I'm used to just being laughed at by other kids.

Don, I'm pretty certain I'd have remembered!!

LOL


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:12 pm
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Give you one guess what my name is 😀

I like it.

Emsz - Amelia is a lovely name <makes mental note that Amelia is a nice name for potential future female sprogs>


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:13 pm
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Johanna... quite like it now, its just a bit different, but as a kid I was for ever saying 'with an 'h' in the middle'...

Have been Jo to my friends for as long as I can remember (and hence often Josephine when I'm in trouble - but I can live with that 🙂 )


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:20 pm
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I value the anonymity of the Internet my first name is sufficiently original to identify me. i have only once met someone who shares it .

while i love the name it does mean people remember it and you can never get away with anything at school.

mind you my mum was also one of the teachers and in a bid to avoid favoritism if any one did anything wrong i was always punished as well .

while it used to cause comment i've never had a negative experience probably as it does not stand out as a posh name (being posh was the ultimate sin at Ossett comp)


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:24 pm
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Grant. Never liked it really until later in life
Was a bit weird every man on our council estate was a Gary, David, Stuart etc

Eventually I started to like it but 5 years back become a little common.
Must ask where my parents found the name.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:27 pm
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I value the anonymity of the Internet my first name is sufficiently original to identify me. i have only once met someone who shares it .

Hmm very mysterious, are you a spy?


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:29 pm
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Neill. Two L's (thanks to my paw). Was almost Keith or Euan
Used to get called Nelly, Feal Neill, Neilly Peely, Squeally, etc., ad nauseum at school and that. Kids will twist anything I guess.
It's my name. Like my face, why change it? it's who I am.
I have no issues with it.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:36 pm
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I shortened my full name to just the name everyone called me by, and me surname, by Deed Poll a few years ago. I just don't see the point in having more than one name; no-one ever uses the others so what's the point? Caused a lot of confusion when doing official forms and stuff, just unnecessary.

Plus my original first name, being an Islamic one, was a bit of a mouthful for ignorant Western Infidels, so weren't even worth trying to get them to use it.

Coon't be happier with my name tbh. Love it. Probbly one of the only good choices my old man ever made about my life...

[So Is this give us a clue time ?]


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:38 pm
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Don, I'm pretty certain I'd have remembered!!

LOL


That's a relief, well not a relief like that, but a relief that I don't have to carry the blame for anything.

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Posted : 19/12/2011 6:40 pm
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Mines Edric and I really like having an unusual name.although there is a Wild Edric Sportif in Shropshire.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 6:47 pm
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My mother wanted to call me Julian as I was due in early July. Can you imagine growing up in the scabby end of Paisley with a name like that? Needless to say I arrived a week early towards the end of June (I must have heard her discussing it). I was given a more normal name and spared a lifetime of ridicule and bullying.


 
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A bloke called June in Paisley.
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Posted : 19/12/2011 6:56 pm
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We decided to keep it simple & opted not to give our son a middle name after friends christened their kids Misty Sula Warhol & Sebastian Winston Berlin 8O. My son now gets the piss ripped out of him because his mates think he must have such a horrendous middle name that he doesn't let on what it is!

Oh yes & very few people call me Richard...


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 7:00 pm
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Mine is Tim, although I was christened Timothy! my parents even when angry with me (hard to believe I know) never me by the full name. they told me it was because they were intimidated by the official who filled out the birth certificate into having the full version. Happy with Tim though!

Earlier mention of pretentious names reminds me of what my daughter said when she saw the names of a couple of brothers I know. One is called Marc, yes spelt with a c, and the other is Tarquin. They have a double barrelled surname and she commented that they were never going to be poor with names like that. How right she is.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 7:18 pm
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Mine is Andrew. Which is a good solid name, the only downside is that in the year I was born about 90% of all the boys in Scotland were named Andrew, and also about 10% of the girls.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 7:18 pm
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My middle names are Luke Christian, playground hell, but close fiends get to call me MC.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 7:20 pm
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One is called Marc, yes spelt with a c,

Nothing wrong with that IMO, apart from looking a little French. Wouldn't call it pretentious.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 7:25 pm
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Julian - Never really caused any problems but most people call me Jools.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 7:27 pm
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Try being called Shameer to make you feel odd from an early age. Took a little while to get that giftshops didn't stock pens and pencil with my name on 🙁

I have to re-iterate my name a few times and spell it frequently. The common misinterpretations are: Samir, Shamir, Shameel, Shamar, Shareem & Shammer FFS! I also have my name changed to lots of things by mates; Shamalam, Shambo, Sham 69, Shamrock, Shabba, Shabbadelic, Shabbs, Shammy K etc.

I feel like I'm a bit odd anyway, having a name from Guyana doesn't help. Then there's where are you from...(1/2 Guyanese, 1/4 Irish, 1/4 Indian) so it's a whole schpiele.

I'm frustrated by the delay it causes when meeting people. The handshake often lasts too long. As a name it's ok, it's just the cultural context which is a pain 😕


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 8:42 pm
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If it's any consolation, Dylan gets spelt Dillon, Dylon, Dillian, Delan, Delam, Dilam, Donald(!), etc...


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 8:48 pm
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Perhaps everyone spells Allen correctly due to the key?


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 9:11 pm
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i have changed my whole name, to a girls one.. 🙂


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 9:21 pm
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McLovin, I like it.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 9:27 pm
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McLovin. 😉

I know someone called Allen...


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 9:38 pm
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I have a tool called Allen!


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 9:41 pm
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Rachel

Yes, I like it but then I would - I chose it!! (and yes, it's the one on my passport, etc)


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 9:42 pm
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Posted : 19/12/2011 9:51 pm
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err.... 😯


 
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Sorry, hoping no offense... Will edit if so


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 9:54 pm
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real name is Wesley, although everyone calls me Wes. I don't even register Wesley as my name if someone does say it to be honest.
I like it a lot, made better by having a surname that is shared only by my family (that I can find, world wide).


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 9:56 pm
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Carl.
Like it and wouldn't change it.

Everyone at school shortened their names - Dave, Ben, Daz, Nick etc.... couldn't do that with mine so got called Carlos along with a lot of other names

+1 Always got Carlos - you cant do much with Carl - especially when your middle name is Roland FFS - yes that bloody rat was the bain of my life.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 9:59 pm
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none taken Clubber - I'm just wondering if we know each other!!


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 10:01 pm
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Phew! 'my' Rachel is definitely not an mtber 🙂

Mind I can't claim to know her very well but I've seen your pic and you're not her. If that makes sense..


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 10:03 pm
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Andrew is my name. Bet you couldn't guess from the username. Extra points if you can guess my surname too!

Most people, except my wife and family call me Andy and I gave up correcting people. To the point where I introduce myself most of the time as Andy. Even when I introduce myself as Andrew people shorten it anyway. When I lived in Liverpool it was shortened even further to And. I hate Drew though.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 10:14 pm
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Mine is actually Ciarán.

Which most of you won't be able to pronounce.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 10:19 pm
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Geoffrey, never liked it, although nobody has called me Geoffrey since I was about 10, Geoff, catfish or catfood, usually, still have ago at my mum for calling me it.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 10:21 pm
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Robert .
Only Mum calls me Robert . Its Rob or Robbo to most , one friend calls me Bobby -Joe . No idea why .
Not Bob , Im not a bob type person although that may change with age.
Dont mind it , rather indifferent to it .


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 10:42 pm
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Oliver. Personally think 3 syllables makes it a bit of a mouthful, so go by Ollie. Can be a bit of a pain as I still use Oliver on the form filling side of things, people fail to find me on the work internal directory etc. Also got the usual 'Oliver! Oliver!' ribbing at school.

My three brothers were all given longish names which can be shortened as well, think it was intentional. Personally, I would just go with the shortened version in the first place 🙂

When I was younger Ollie seemed to be quite a rare name, but apparently in the last few years its jumped to the top of the name charts. So I suppose that means I'll have a 'young' name in years to come.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 11:08 pm
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James. I like it, other people rarely use it. Family call me Jimbo, friends call me Jam but I always introduce myself as James.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 11:22 pm
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Louis, but nearly always known as Kev.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 11:26 pm
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I'm Iestyn with and I, not an L, which kind of shortens to Iest. I don't mind it but it does get excessively mispronounced.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 11:38 pm
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Dave. I used to work in a garage with 4 other daves.
I was named after my dad whose name was Mick. My grandparents christened him David but his whole life he was called Mick. Apparently there were a lot of daves around.
To all the gear Rachel, how long did it take to choose your name? It took 2 years for us to think of a new name for our shop.
If I had to have another name William or James would be ok as they are good names for posh jobs but can be shortened nicely for a job on the tools.


 
Posted : 19/12/2011 11:52 pm
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1962
19 to my friends 🙂
Coincidentally I just bought a wheel off a guy on Pink bike(and a cracker it was too).He signed himself as Stan but I think his full name was Tristan.Strange how much difference that shortening can make.


 
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