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LMTTM Jnr started school in September.
We are lucky that we can almost see the school from our house so [s]take the SQ7 with its creature comforts[/s] walk to school.
I understand we are fortunate and other do (perhaps) need to drive.
The location of the school entrance is opposite a t junction. From 0830 until 0850 its madness.
People park up to the t junction and around it almost nose to tail on both sides of the road meaning that there is in effect room for just one car to pass - just.
There are cars blocking peoples drives, on double yellow lines, on wavy yellow lines the lot.
There isn't a crossing person (I'm fine with this) but it does often mean having to walk out between parked cars to get clear vision as to whether its safe to cross.
Carrying on from the other thread about sitting in cars with the engines running - most parents do this - even leaving their cars running whilst taking their children in!
The school cannot do anything and I'm guessing police/LA are unlikely to be that interest as it must be the same for nearly every school 😥
So does anyone have any tips/suggestions/thoughts?
I'd speak to people who have parked illegally but its just not worth the inevitable backlash/heart ache of hearing that Little Jimmy lives 1/4 mile away and is only 5 👿
Sadly a universal problem. The school can do something if it's motivated, letters to parents etc. You can write to the local authority the best angle to take is safety with parking on double yellows being an issue. I have heard of "name amd shame" campaigns where parents or residents have taken photos or cideos of bad parking and people's faces and posted them online - does the school have a facebook page ? People really really don't like being photographed like this but it will certainly get a few "backs up" it is effective.
If you are this frustrated about it after a few months just wait until you have had to put up with it for a few years – you'll be apoplectic.
(It sounds like an identical problem to the one we have at our girls' school - I just take pictures of offending cars and pass them to the head teacher).
Same everywhere unfortunately. My boys school even put up signs made by the kids saying "please don't park here you are putting us in danger" type stuff with adorable handwriting and drawings and guaranteed there's an Audi parked right in front of it on the no parking writing.
Would hate to live on that Street...
Had this at our local school. It's a whole 10 minute walk for us. Interestingly people try and park as close as possible. If they parked a few hundred yards up the road and walked a bit more it would actually be quicker for them. The highlight for me was walking from our house to the school to drop the kids off and getting there before someone who decided to drive the same distance at the same time.
Anyway the school sent letters to parents advising them to walk to school, be courteous to local residents etc etc. Didn't make much difference. They have had the police out a couple of times as people park on corners, on double yellows, on pavements, on the zig zags. This had a an effect for a short time only.
I do miss the big pram now the youngest is no longer in it. Was always good fun pushing that against wing mirrors and cars where they'd partially blocked the pavement 😈
Speak to the police, if they're breaking the law then I imagine the police will act. They do swoops around here occasionally (with parents getting very upset; tough).
Happens a bit here too, despite the garden centre 100m away allowing parent parking in their massive carpark. Every now and then the head sends a note out and the a bad parking stops for a while. Then builds up again, followed by another note etc...
I used to work in traffic management for a local authority. Believe it or not, this can be a desirable situation. It acts as natural traffic calming and reduces vehicle speeds. The likelihood of serious injury is greatly reduced.
Sometimes, locals requested one way systems. None were ever implemented as the resultant speed could have serious consequences.
The Police don't tolerate it at the schools around here, every once in awhile they clamp down on it.
Report it saying that they're blocking ambulance and fire access that you've seen an ambulance stuck trying to get through.
It's pretty universal, authorities in Cardiff do take it seriously. At least the parking on zigzag yellows. They have a camera van that does the rounds but people still do it. I hate, hate picking up people from schools at kicking out time. They're invariably standing on the zigzag and moan like drains when I drive past and they have to walk a few yards to get in my cab !!
It used to happen at my Kids school, bedlam. Drives blocked, crossings blocked, corners blocked.
I couple of times a year the council send up their crack unit of Traffic Wardens who slap fines on anyone not parking within the rules, you should see the look of indignation on the faces of the 'victims'. "How am I supposed to take my kids to school" "I was only 5 minutes" or the best one "they only come up here because they know they're get loads of tickets".
It gets much better for a few months, then it starts getting bad again. Yeah it's the big 4X4s and Galaxies that are the worst culprits, I guess massive cars are hard to park, until the next round of tickets.
They used to send up a couple of PCSOs to put on nice notes about not being so lazy that you’ll endanger someone else’s kid crossing the road to save a 5 min walk, it didn’t work as well.
I live next to a secondary and a primary school. Driving law seems to be suspended at drop off and collection times. Parking on Xing zig zags, stopping on the Xing itself to let the kids out, driving on verges etc. Never any police around to issue fixed penalty notices.
The funniest one was a bus broke down at the end of the road, it was carnage. One particularly irate woman(in a 4x4) was red with rage and anger at the inconvenience of being stuck 100m from the school, only heightened when the bus driver pointed out she could park where she was and walk! I thought she was going to explode.
Keep reporting to the police and LA and eventually they'll send someone round. That'll sort it for a day or two, and then it will start again.
There was a fire alarm at my kid's primary at opening time, so they didn't let the kids in. The fire engine couldn't get to the school because of all the badly parked cars.
[i]The school can do something if it's motivated, letters to parents etc.[/i]
The head at my daughters old school decided to stand outside the school and ask parents to move their cars when they parked on the zig-zags. In one morning she was
a) shouted at
b) threatened with being punched
c) spat at
by drivers whose sense of entitlement was greater than their moral sense.
She didn't try again.
Every few weeks wardens and PCSO's would be around but mostly the daft parking continued as before.
My favourite was the mum who stopped *on* the zebra crossing outside the school every morning and got out the car to let her kids out and say goodbye. She went ballistic if challenged.
I think probably the best thing to do is to just like..... get over it
The one I find even more inexplicable at our school is the parking outside of normal school hours (for example on parents' evenings). The roads around the school are always very quiet at these times and the church is happy for people to use their car park. However the road closest to the entrance to the school has a couple of spaces on it but if they are taken some people would still rather park on the zebra crossing than just around the corner (literally 50/100 metres away) where it is perfectly legal to park.
Schools are always short of money, seems like a good way to raise funds.
My daughter's school got the council to put up official "no stopping" signs by the zig zags, and the deputy head sometimes stands there to move people on. Now the selfish nobbers park in the disabled bays opposite instead.
The crazy thing is that it's a resident's parking area which doesn't start until 9am - so there are always plenty of legal spaces close to the school. It seems a 30 second walk is too much for some people.
In one morning she wasa) shouted at
b) threatened with being punched
c) spat at
That's pretty tough for her but all of those are [s]assault[/s] criminal offences, why didn't she call the police?
Seems like a great opportunity for a traffic warden to bump up his ticketing stats - you can't park within 15 metres of a junciton I think and also on double yellows...
[i]why didn't she call the police? [/i]
no idea really, she was telling me about it a few months later.
A couple of the parents were banned from the school grounds as a result - so they sat outside in their cars with the engines running instead...
I used to work in a Safer Routes to School team. For most parents, a stranger (i.e. police, teacher, other parent) etc. telling them that their parking/driving is inconsiderate/dangerous is interpreted as being told they are a terrible parent. There is little to be gained from this approach.
The best thing we found was to get the school to teach the kids about road safety, the benefits of walking, and let the kids pressure the parents. Set up walking buses, make it fun for the kids, get the kids to tell off parents who park badly - literally, to (politely) tell them off in the street, or write and hand out hand-written notes saying that they are not happy that their lives are being endangered. Some people are just ****s and won't listen, but many will respond in a positive way.
I get it at my daughter's school as well and fortunately we can walk to the gates. I take the passive aggresive approach rather than direct confrontation and will talk loudly to my daugthter as we pass 'YES THAT'S RIGHT IT IS VERY SILLY TO PARK OVER THE WHOLE PAVEMENT, THAT MEANS PEOPLE WITH PUSHCHAIRS WILL HAVE TO GO INTO THE ROAD, ENDANGERING THEIR LIVES WON'T THEY, THEY ARE VERY SILLY AREN'T THEY' and perhaps give them a death stare. I did confront a woman once about parking over the footpath and she replied 'but there's no spaces left in the carpark' with surrounding streets not 300-500 metres away free and available. Entitled selfish Morons!
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I think probably the best thing to do is to just like..... get over it
This is easier said than done.
Remember it could be a child's face next time or a Baby Robin thats struck by a car trying to cross the road.
Some really saddening stories above 😥
The fact that its the same everywhere isn't a reason to do nothing but is actually the sour to do something.
Time to write to the Head/LA etc.
same situation at my kids school. main road leading down to the school is used as a rat run by commuters so the council painted double yellow lines down most of the road...but this moves the problem onto the neighbouring residential streets. the school has sent letters and emails etc warning parents not to park on the main road but because there are sections that arent restricted by the yellow lines many still park there but most are considerate enough to park on the kerb but leave enough space for pedestrians and oncoming traffic.
the school kids also come out and place traffic cones near the school and stand on the kerb to stop people from parking near the school and theres always a teacher nearby who watches over them. traffic warden also makes regular visits to ticket any offenders.
i always park on a side street...but my sons nursery is at the end of that road...so after he's been dropped off i then walk his brother and sister to the school from there. takes only a couple of minutes.
it seems quite civilised as most of the parents seem to understand the issues bad parking causes...still get the occasional idiot...like the idiot who always insists on parking facing the wrong way then does a 3 point turn in his 4x4 to head back...or the ignorant woman who is always late and parks her audi wherever she likes and then sits there while her oldest daughter takes the kids into school...some people just never learn
most parents do this - even leaving their cars running whilst taking their children in!
someone should jump in the cars and drive off...maybe park the car for them...a couple of miles further down the road!!
I take my daughter to school and drive, its a few miles. I park about 500m away with no problem, we meander to school and pass all the cars in a jam waiting to get in the car park. This week i passed someone on the way in who was still there on my way out. Its like World War II (private school so its all Audis, Jags and Beemers).
The problem is that saying people can't park in certain places does not fix the problem. At the end of the day you have to encourage people to walk or cycle or provide a carpark for people to use. Fundamentally many schools are in the wrong place and don't have the facilities even such as playgrounds or sports fields that they should have.
In some ways we just have to accept that people will drive and then either convince them not to or devise other ways to make the dropping off of kids easier.
Its interesting the remark about bad parking being good as it actually slows all the traffic down and probably also makes people for hyper vigilant when crossing the road. It feel more dangerous but is actually loads safer.
We have this problem at my daughter's school. My suggestion was that at the PTA Quiz Night we should have a round consisting of "identify the illegally parked car" from photos - unfortunately I was vetoed.
woody74Its interesting the remark about bad parking being good as it actually slows all the traffic down and probably also makes people for hyper vigilant when crossing the road. It feel more dangerous but is actually loads safer.
Sometimes yes....sometimes no. Like the OP I've recently started taking offspring to school and despite the demolition derby of cars at the gate there's always one or two cars (parents I should add) who will then try to blaze through quickly so they can drop little miss no legs off at the gate. And of course on top of this you get the odd random driver who gets frustrated and launches off once they get clear line of sight through the cars.
woody74At the end of the day you have to encourage people to walk or cycle or provide a carpark for people to use.
Yep. Schools these days seem awfully on point about charity fundraisers, enforcing uniform protocols, collecting "donations" etc to the point where they make voluntary things seem awfully mandatory. They could quite easily create a stigma around not walking kids to school, driving like a **** and parking like shit.
I'm lucky in that I live relatively close to the school so I would never consider driving, and yet the couple across the road who have an older boy, drive every day. And so does the family behind them. And plenty of others around. Even if I lived double or even quadruple the distance away I would still walk, it's nothing. And yet yesterday I started to question myself walking the kids up the road (it was bitterly cold) as all my neighbours drove past me - "am I being some kind of cruel sadistic parent"? Then I remembered I used to walk 4.5 miles to my primary school until I could be trusted to cycle 😉
In some ways we just have to accept that people will drive and then either convince them not to or devise other ways to make the dropping off of kids easier.
At my daughter's school:
1. People are encouraged to walk or cycle
2. The school provides covered bike racks
3. The school is located in the neighbourhood where most of its pupils live
4. The school has plenty of legal parking nearby.
I'm afraid that reason and rationality is wasted on the selfish morons who continue to park on the zig zags.
Our local beat bobby comes once or twice a year, has a word with any offending drivers, and then it is dropped.
Enforcement is the only way to fix it, though I'm happy with name and shame, and would gladly do it. We normally walk to school but if we have an early appointment for work will drive, but always park safely and legally.
The head is currently getting getting a lot of complaints about parents parking on, and chewing up, the grass verges in front of houses. Not owned by the householders, so nothing can be done, but really making that end of the estate look shite.
Speak to the police, if they're breaking the law then I imagine the police will act.
If they're yellow zig-zags, they require signs to be enforceable, check for them. If they're there get onto the police, if not talk to the council about getting them installed.
My favourite was the mum who stopped *on* the zebra crossing outside the school every morning and got out the car to let her kids out and say goodbye. She went ballistic if challenged.
Just use the crossing anyway. Car bonnets are fairly easy to climb over. (-:
I once saw some eejit parked across a crossing. A group of half a dozen lads used the crossing by opening his rear door, scrambling through and out the other side. Quality.
Challenger 2 should do the job - few days of firing at will on badly parked cars would get the message across
I once saw some eejit parked across a crossing. A group of half a dozen lads used the crossing by opening his rear door, scrambling through and out the other side. Quality.
Reminds me of that episode of Rescue Me (Denis Leary) where the fire squad smash the windows of the car parked in front of a hydrant and passed the hose through the car 🙂
I have this most days as I live directly opposite a school. I have come home to find people parked on my drive with their bumper up to my front door. My drive is constantly blocked and the school passes the buck and the local councillor says she can't help. I think parents with kids in cars at picking up time are probably the lowest scum you can possibly meet.
[url= http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-38021839 ]It seems this school has the right idea :-)[/url]
When I'm in charge and under my Draconian Lefty Dictatorship i'll be ilegeal to drive your child to school if the live within walking/cycling/public transport distance.
Unfortunately their needs to be a sea change in attitudes to getting kids to school. I think various studies have suggested that over 20 - 40% of rush hour traffic was solely school run related.
I particularly like the scheme one school has employed to encourage kids to come to school of providing a bicycle that if they meet 100% attendance targets they get to keep. If this along with better cycle storage and cycle route infrastructure was rolled out on a wider basis it would be amazing. Probably do wonders for local bike shops business too.
It is a constant headache across the UK and (as I found out this week) Europe....
Scotland has a few bans in place, that supposedly work really well.
http://www.eastlothiancourier.com/news/13564781.Traffic_ban_outside_Haddington_schools_made_permanent/
Our own school:
- negotiated use of Indian restaurant car park for parents to use, that is less than 100m from school, on main road.
- has more warning signs out permanently, although we were stopped short of 'oi, you selfish b*st*rd, parking there may kill my child' though
- randomly the police turn up and get stroppy
- the Head has a word occasionally
- the parent council occasionally say 'oi, not there', especially our German and Dutch parents who are happy to get really antsy!
- we got the older kids to do 'surveys' at school dropping off time. This worked brilliantly as they stood in yellow vests with clipboards and a camera, taking pictures of the one parent who would not listen to police, head or parents about where he parks every single day to pick up darling son. This survey was followed up by pupil council writing to the said parent[s]s[/s] and saying 'oi, [s]*%*^ £&!^" &*" ^$&^[/s]stop it now you mean person'
We now have it down to a couple of usual suspects it seems.
It's selfishness, arrogance and laziness, but perfectly decent people seem to turn into these people when they switch to protective parent mode.
Cliché saying it, but I'm just amazed we survived in the 70s and 80s. Walking half a mile, a mile or more to school.
Used to walk half a mile on my own from about age 8 or 9. Didn't actually get driven to school until secondary, and only because it was in the next town. Even then I ended up walk to station, catch train, walk to school. So even the argument that people can't get a place at their local school because it's miles away and have to drive, doesn't wash. We had busses coming in from all kinds of rural places. Very few drove.
Doesn't help these days that because you have a child you obviously need a tank to drive them to school, along with a bazillion toys, plus scooter and/or bike so they can ride the few metres between car and school gate.
Many moons ago I used to live opposite a primary school, and have on many occasions been unable in the morning, if I was working late, to not be able to get off my drive as parents have parked on my drive blocking me in, (including a woman who was stood chatting to others mums at the gates, oblivious to her lack or consideration.
I spoke to the school and I offered to buy a clamp for cars that i caught doing it again.
My favourite was the time I came home from work to someone parked on my drive so I parked up behind them then sat in my garden with a beer I then refused to move my car as I had a beer and would hate to drink drive. I think the message kind of got across from there on.
Sadly parents with children in their cars are so concerned with themselves that they actually forget that there are other humans around them.
The school keep clear generally needs to be positioned such that it creates a clear area where the children are crossing at the school entrance (sometimes it needs to be on both sides of the road), and it needs a sign plate and traffic order so it is enforceable.
People are not allowed to stop their car in the school keep clear area during the hours of enforcement, this is different to double yellow lines where people can stop their car to drop off/pick up passengers.
There is a lot that can be done in conjunction with the school to engage with the parents and raise awareness of the issues. You can google school keep clear campain to see some stuff that has been done elsewhere. I have also known concerned parents to go out with leaflets and posters in the morning to encourage other parents not to park on the school keep-clear and to park further away from the school.
Essentially a lot of issues can be resolved if parents park a little distance away from the school and walk in for a couple of minutes rather than drive into a cul-de-sac where it presents issues turning around, blocking crossing children, congestion etc.
The biggest thing we can do is value the walk to school again!
Health and wellbeing time, it is great to walk to school and home again. Both physical and mental health, as well as local geography, managing risks, proximity to nature etc etc.
If parents got the value of this, they would choose to find the time to walk with kids, or choose to accept a minor level of risk in allowing their child to walk alone.
https://www.livingstreets.org.uk/
- we got the older kids to do 'surveys' at school dropping off time. This worked brilliantly as they stood in yellow vests with clipboards and a camera, taking pictures of the one parent who would not listen to police, head or parents about where he parks every single day to pick up darling son. This survey was followed up by pupil council writing to the said parents and saying 'oi, *%*^ £&!^" &*" ^$&^stop it now you mean person'
This is a work of genius, matt_outandabout!! I can see this being really effective.
Rachel
All these threads on parents acting like twunts makes me even happier I've chosen not to have kids, means I don't have to interact with selfish people like you all describe!
I used to walk to school every day as it was under half a mile, even rode in occasionally if I was going to a friend's house afterwards. It was normal for everyone to walk back then ('90's) as we all lived in the same town as the school or buses brought you in from the neighbouring villages and dropped you off in the school car park which was a 1/4 mile walk from the main building. Now the same school with the same layout is a carcrash of people carriers, 4x4's and SUV's fighting to get into a small car park with the buses while kids run amok everywhere! My parent's lane was being used as a drop-off point by some entitled parents as it runs to the bottom of the school playing fields. As it's an unadopted private road the residents took to closing it off at school time after a kid got knocked down a few years ago. The grief that caused with parents yelling and threatening them was so bad they stopped closing it off after a few weeks. Another kid was knocked down a year later but instead of the drivers taking action to behave sensibly they lobbied the council to improve the road safety! It was then adopted, resurfaced and had street lights installed. 6 weeks later another kid was knocked down. It's the same cars down there every school day.
The School Run should be banned.
[i]means I don't have to interact with selfish people like you all describe[/i]
You do. Just at work, in shops, socially etc.
But not outside schools, I'll give you that.
The School Run should be banned.
Hear, hear!
Huge issues with this in my village.
Thankfully I avoid the normal drop-off/pick up times as I drop the kids at Breakfast club at 7.45 and we pick them up from after school club at 5pm.
On occasions when I've dropped off/picked up at 'normal time' I've been horrified at the state of the parking/driving/behaviour.
Some parents arrive at school 30-45mins early in the afternoon, just to get a space near the gate.
The school are trying to expand from one form to two form entry at the moment.
The planning application has been rejected 3 times by the local council, with the main reason being traffic/parking.
but I'm just amazed we survived in the 70s and 80s. Walking half a mile, a mile or more to school.
But in defence of those that drive their children, the world is a different place now. Like it or not we have more cars and more people have to drive further distances to work (when I was growing up almost everyone I knew had a dad who worked a few minutes from home and most mums stayed at home). Now people commute some silly distances and often both parents work. This puts time pressure on them to get their kids to school and, added to that, the roads are infinitely busier. The estate I grew up on as a kid used to have a car parked in each drive, now there are two, three, four or more cars parked on the drives, on the streets etc.
My kids' school is just shy of 2 miles from home (our catchment school, we didn't choose to go - but didn't want to risk not getting a place at a closer but not catchment school). The road is used as a rat run (and way too narrow to allow them to ride their bikes on it) and there isn't a continuous footpath either which would mean potentially dangerous crossings of the road.
I am in no way vindicating selfish drivers, but I can see why these days people prefer to ensure they get their kids to school in the (perceived) safest way possible.
Ohh, and the school isn't on a bus route and although there is a train station, we would have to drive further to get to the next stop on the line to put them on a train) 🙂
And a final edit - I always park further up the road away from the crush just outside the school and walk the 5 or so minutes in.
johndohBut in defence of those that drive their children, the world is a different place now.This puts time pressure on them to get their kids to school and, added to that, the roads are infinitely busier.
The difference between parking 1/2 a mile away and walking or queuing to park, then queing to leave again, all the while burning petrol and getting annoyed is going to be negligible. My neighbours, the ones who live across the street and drive their kid to school, they leave 5-10 minutes before me and get home after me.
I am in no way vindicating selfish drivers, but I can see why these days people prefer to ensure they get their kids to school in the (perceived) safest way possible.
I'm not questioning you but this logic fail does go to the heart of the issue. With paedomageddon in full swing you need to deposit junior right at the door (and the fight that implies). When there's nothing stopping you parking up and walking a bit with your kids.
Jimjam, I am not disagreeing with you, just pointing out reasons why some parents may feel they have to drive their kids to school.
And who mentioned paedos? Not me. That isn't the issue, it is a simple road safety issue.
It's selfishness, arrogance and laziness, but perfectly decent people seem to turn into these people when they [s]switch to protective parent mode[/s] get into their car.
FTFY.
Actually, I think we're both right: over-protective parent in a car is probably the worst of combinations.
Fundamentally many schools are in the wrong place
this is true in the case of my kid's school. originally when my eldest started the school was on a split site...the main school being 10 minutes walk away from the early years foundation unit. the new school was still under construction and was completed the following year. the new school is a very nice school with all the facilities you'd expect a modern primary school to have but its located on the corner of a very busy rat run that joins a very busy main road...my reasoning for the choice of location is that its a very short distance from the old sites (it actually sits in the middle of the old 2 sites and was probably the only piece of spare land they could build on.
traffic management at the end of the rat run road which runs past the school is abysmal and is dangerous for parents and children to cross...there is a lollypop lady who helps with crossing duties on the main road, but i think a proper traffic light controlled crossing system is needed at this junction to help traffic flow more easily and to help people cross safely...but the council refuses to entertain this idea
the school has several walking buses from various locations and has done the naming and shaming of bad driving/parking which has been quite successful
Actually, I think we're both right: over-protective parent in a car is probably the worst of combinations.
Surrounded by more over-protective, judgemental, stressed parents in cars.
fd3:
My drive is constantly blocked and the school passes the buck and the local councillor says she can't help.
The schools have no authority over the parking other than to ask parents to park responsibly in newsletters.
My G/F's a Headteacher and she's been threatened by a parent after she asked him to remove his inconsiderably parked car.......
It's a police issue.
Fundamentally many schools are in the wrong place
I suggest most schools are in OK places - we just built roads around them and houses away from them. More car culture.
Why do they need to park anyway? Pull over and turf the little darlings out then drive off.
Primary school near me parents arrive early with kids and park up nearby. Kids go into school and the parent(s) then walk home leaving the car outside of the school for the afternoon pickup??????
Why do they need to park anyway? Pull over and turf the little darlings out then drive off.
Multiply that by a few hundred and it's gridlock. Plus doesn't work so well when picking up, presumably.
i had the unfortunate pleaseure as working as a traffic safety engineer for ESCC for a year and then working with school in BHCC during their upgrades.
everyone wants parking to be resolved but parents are too self entitled to give a monkeys. even when kids get hurt/killed. i gave up this role as its totally pointless - its a societal mindset.
schools are getting budgets cut, teachers are getting laid off but ours has had to employ private parking attendant to prevent random parking in the disabled parking area/turning head/ main school access. then people complain about the costs?? its a messed up society
It does seem that parents with children seem to think that all motoring laws and common sense dont apply to them when it comes to taking children to school.
Some parents arrive at school 30-45mins early in the afternoon, just to get a space near the gate.
That really gets my goat at our young 'uns school. They actually have a little car park and have staggered the leaving times of all the classes, the idea being that parents get in and out at different times (albeit it 5 mins difference between class). The number of parents that get there 20 mins early and sit in the cars completely defeats any logic to this.
The number of times that I see cycle lanes parked in by parents at schools makes my decision to use parent/child parking bays at supermarkets (or wherever) the correct one. The extra wide bays mean that body work is protected a bit too.
No buses these days? My lad's been going on the bus since he was 2yo - it's dear (works out about 20eur a week, 4 journeys a day as he comes home for lunch), but as a result I have absolutely no idea what the parking situation is like outside the school, and I hope I never have.
Primary school near me parents arrive early with kids and park up nearby. Kids go into school and the parent(s) then walk home leaving the car outside of the school for the afternoon pickup??????
Yep, there a few who regularly do this at our kids school.
Mental.
It does seem that parents with children seem to think that all motoring laws and common sense dont apply to them when it comes to taking children to school.
It does seem that[b] a small minority of[/b] parents with children seem to think that all motoring laws and common sense dont apply to them when it comes to taking children to school.
No buses these days?
Ours doesn't - the road is so narrow that I reckon putting buses up and down it would amplify traffic issues.
I used to live in a block of flats near a school and would often come home to the same woman parked in my spot, the spot with the big number 12 painted on the ground saying to was for flat number 12, the spot in the car park around the back of the flats on private land...
Her justification was that her darling goes to the school and her and her husband own a few flats in the block, my answer was you don't own this flat so &^£( off out of my spot.
Now I live somewhere different and have kids we walk every day, rain or shine. The kids like it, I find it far more relaxing to walk and chat to them and we meet up with their friends on the way so they all have a good chat before getting to school.
Some of the mothers I see live that close to the school that they must spend more time putting the seat belt on and reversing out the drive than actually driving.
Both my kids walk to school on their own.
9yr old walks about 200m crossing 2 roads. Both 20 mile an hour. Zig-zags outside of school usually has at least one car parked on them. I get more annoyed with those who park on the junctions, blocking the dropped kerbs. I have spoken to several parents and most don't do to again.
12yr old walks about 15 mins with 3 mates.
Imagine how busy its going to get when we close all the boarding schools down. It will be mayhem I tell you.
My Dad was assaulted by a guy because he objected to a woman parking IN his drive while she waited for her kids. She came back the next day with hubby who broke my 76 yo Dad's collar bone. Birkhill Primary in Birkhill by Dundee for the Google street view. My old man was the local Vicar so unlikely to have been too confrontational. Some people are a-holes.
We are in the fortunate position of living about a 5 minute walk from school, its then a 10 minute walk (2min cycle) from school to my work. the school is at the end of a cul de sac so we only have to cross one road on the way. opposite out house is a pub (across the only road that needs crossing) with a big car park that any parents are allowed to park in. The village is about 1.5 miles across at its widest and it takes 45 minutes to walk a circuit of (I do it evey morning with the dog) therefore the maximum walk to school would be 25 minutes. BUT there are 2 other primay schools in the village so i reckon the maximum walk for 80% of attendees is 15 minutes from their home (or 5 minutes from the pub car park)
What pisses me of is that the cul de sac to school could be car free and kids could ride bikes, scooter and run to school with no worries.....does this happen? Does it heck.
only 4 cars park in the pub car park, everyone else gets as close as possible, I see people (who live a 2 minute walk from me) driving to school at 8.30 to get a good parking place!!! its all a bit mental.
People have a perceived lack of time and think the car is faster. I walk the kids up to school with my bike and ride form school to work. Several others work in the same place but drive. I get there earlier if I'm on the bike and about 2 minutes later if walking.
its all because people are really, really, really lazy.
maybe cars should be engineered so that there is a massive cost loading for the first 1-2 miles of any journey. So if you do 1-2 miles it costs you the same as 50 miles........
It would all work so much better if we lowered the age where you're allowed a driving licence to five and built multi-storey carparks next to schools. That way the kids could drive themselves to and from school.
Or we could go mad and create an infrastructure which makes it pleasant and safe to walk or cycle. The lowering of the driving age seems more likely though.
People have a perceived lack of time and think the car is faster.its all because people are really, really, really lazy.
You see similar albeit less extreme behavior in shops/shopping centres.....giant car parks with hundreds of empty spaces but people circling around so they can cram in on top of everyone else to get as close to the door as possible.
Now I live somewhere different and have kids we walk every day, rain or shine. The kids like it, I find it far more relaxing to walk and chat to them and we meet up with their friends on the way so they all have a good chat before getting to school.
Agreed. We walk, cycle or scoot. During the week, it's the only opportunity I get to have some proper 1:1 time with my daughter.
It's a bit nuts really isn't it. Similar at my kids school, but no illegal parking, just bone headed parking in a narrow cul de sac
Can you call the traffic wardens? They're usually happy to come out and issue a few tickets. A week of that could fix it?
I don't have kids and haven't experienced any of these problems but am always amazed at how some people behave.
I can almost see why people park on yellow lines, on pavements etc but I can never understand why they would think it's ok to park on someone's driveway. Does this really happen??
think it's ok to park on someone's driveway. Does this really happen??
I haven't seen anyone park *on* a drive, but I have seen someone park across the entrance so the home owner couldn't get his car out. When I got to my car the guy was having kittens about it but I didn't hang around to see what happened when the other driver turned up.
I can almost see why people park on yellow lines, on pavements etc but I can never understand why they would think it's ok to park on someone's driveway. Does this really happen?
Used to frequently have parents park across my driveway (shared with a neighbour) until said neighbour 'nudged' a car out of the way with his landrover tow bar 8)
think it's ok to park on someone's driveway. Does this really happen??
Try living in a tourist hotspot with a private parking area in front of your house and large courtyard between you and neighbours, with clear view of garages and sheds further up the back gardens.
Usually not an issue, but our "finest" moments:
- group of motorcyclists who just revved engines louder until mrs_oab showed the screen of her phone to them showing 'Killin Police Station' as ringing
- Group of landrover owners who saw two 110's parked on the grass of our garden and thought they should also use it
- the french tourist, who left car in the morning, climbed a mountain, went to pub for tea and a pint, and started using his 'Parisian' driving attitudes and bumper to move next doors new BMW out the way...
- countless visitors who just pulled up, and then would argue that (despite plant pots, two signs saying 'Private Parking', a nice brick pattern rather than tarmac and the owner of the house informing them it was private, and he would like to park his car or work minibus there) the parking wasn't private - and anyway, they themselves were only going to be a few minutes....
So yes, people will park ANYWHERE if they have enough sense of entitlement or cannot be ars*d.
My Dad was assaulted by a guy because he objected to a woman parking IN his drive while she waited for her kids. She came back the next day with hubby who broke my 76 yo Dad's collar bone.
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