[Closed] OT: Getting a life - recommendations?

timothius · 2010-11-20T17:55:09Z

Gah, talk about embarrassing, but I'm a bit stuck the moment as I find there is something missing in my life. Pretty much, I worked hard all my life, went to a good Uni, got a good degree and now have a secure job. Throughout this time I kept telling myself that all the work would be worth it. Now, I'm at a bit of a loss as to what to do, because there are no more goals. Worse, I've sacrifised my social skills and about the only thing I'm secure with is working. Constantly working is getting a bit unhealthy. I find I cannot connect to anything outside work. Also, I think I've aged mentally as I find myself hating everything that young people seem to enjoy which makes finding new people to talk to difficult. I'm in my early 20s and I've come to the point that I realise I need to sort out my non work life, otherwise I'll be a hermit until I die. Saddly, I don't seem to have the balls to stick my neck out and do things that other people can do easily, so that has to be corrected. How I turned into such a wuss is beyond me. Anyway, feel free to ridicule me as much as you want, but if anyone has any suggestions as to what steps to take to becoming more rounded that would be much appreciated. Probably the wrong place to ask, but it's worth a go. Thanks, T

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timothius

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singletrackmind: Sent you an email to your address in the case your offer still stood.

Posted : 04/12/2010 11:32 am

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