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So I've not been the easiest person to live with for the past six months or so and feel I've given my girlfriend a tough time.

Where can I take her for a nice weekend away?


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 9:56 am
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York, Bath, Durham. Or centerparcs.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 9:57 am
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Check she like Centreparcs first, it's not for everyone 😉


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:00 am
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Barcelona. Bruges. Milan?

Or Blackpool if that's too flash. You can always take her up the Golden Mile.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:00 am
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Birmingham.

Or more sensibly, Rome or Barcelona.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:00 am
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I've heard a trip up the OXO Tower can be a pleasant experience.

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Posted : 02/03/2016 10:01 am
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Doesn't this depend on what she likes in a weekend away? We need more info!


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:01 am
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Rome! if you're flash with cash or Paris if not.
Seriously Rome is great fun.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:06 am
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Rome is great fun, so is Berlin and Copenhagen


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:07 am
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Tallin.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:08 am
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Edinburgh is great for touristy stuff.


 
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We need more info!

Precisely this. Is she a 'city break' type person? Or would she prefer a weekend at the seaside? There's a fairly big difference. 😉


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:09 am
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Luton


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:17 am
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[i]Does she like Pina Coladas and getting caught in the rain?
If she's not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain
If she likes making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape
Then she's the love that you've looked for,pack a bag and escape[/i][i]


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:22 am
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What does she enjoy?

Brussels has a lot of nice restaurants if you want to take her somewhere Michelin starred. Paris is nice for doing romantic stuff. Berlin is good for nightlife.

Maybe consider Scandinavia oo. I've heard nice (but expensive) things about Stockholm.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:24 am
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If it's not your usual thing could I perhaps recommend a smallish music festival.. something at the decadent and exotic end of the spectrum rather than the teenaged lager louts and chart music type scenario

Take plenty of rum


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:27 am
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Just look on the Ryanair website and see what they've got on offer.

Gdansk is lovely at this time of year!


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:28 am
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Take her to Warrington, she'll realise that you have actually treated her like a princess recently....


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:33 am
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[i]Gdansk is lovely at this time of year! [/i]

Unless its changed significantly in the last 10 years, imagine Sunderland...


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:36 am
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Afan?


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:37 am
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Gdansk is lovely at this time of year!

Unless its changed significantly in the last 10 years, imagine Sunderland...

Really? It actually looks quite beautiful in the photos... a medieval centre with that crane-scale thing.

Or is that all there is, and it's all industrial beyond that?


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:38 am
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If you are not too far from Hull (stick with me...) get yourself booked on a weekend ferry trip to Bruges or Ghent.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:39 am
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I've heard a trip up the OXO Tower can be a pleasant experience.

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Good Man..

Standards are not slipping 😀


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:41 am
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Really? It actually looks quite beautiful in the photos... a medieval centre with that crane-scale thing.

Actually, it does look rather good. I thought it was just a shipyard!


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:43 am
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Really? It actually looks quite beautiful in the photos... a medieval centre with that crane-scale thing.

Tallin is a more or less complete mediaeval walled city. Outside the walls it's a lot of Stalinist tower blocks, but you don't need to go there!


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:46 am
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Vienna is pretty nice if you've already done Paris, Barca, Rome etc.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:47 am
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Florence is very nice.


 
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Rome! if you're flash with cash or Paris if not.
Seriously Rome is great fun.

Jesus, Rome must be very expensive if Paris is the cheap option!

Has anyone said Center Parcs yet?


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:50 am
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Florence at this time of year is a great shout, nice low end of winter sun gives the place a lovely atmosphere, early morning haze over the Duomo - fantastic - and no queues like there are in summer.

We went in February last time, hotel we wanted to stay in told us they were closed for spring decorating, but had an apartment we could have. It was an old converted bell tower, shuttered windows on all 4 sides and stunning views across the terracotta topped city. Was a s cheap as chips as well.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 11:03 am
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Personally avoid Paris - expensive and dull Love Rome but can be expensive

Lisbon - slightly insane, cheap, vibrant and lots of free things to do.

London - can be as cheap or as expensive as you make and generally good these days

Edinburgh - great atmosphere and again as cheap or as expensive as you want.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 11:07 am
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I think a demonstration that you're going to be nicer to live with is a bit more important than being a long way from home (and maybe finding that you're still a bit of a handful).


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 11:22 am
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I think a demonstration that you're going to be nicer to live with is a bit more important that being a long way from home (and maybe finding that you're still a bit of a handful).

Best. Advice. Yet. 😀


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 11:23 am
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New York


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 11:30 am
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Turin is underrated, and an hour by train from Milan.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 11:30 am
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up the arris


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 11:32 am
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So, you've been horrible to her and now have set the standard for poor behaviour your're expecting her to delight in your company for an extended period?

Send her away by herself for an all expenses paid for treat weekend in a hotel containing masseurs and nail polishers, and spend the weekend re-inventing the experience she'll return home to.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:10 pm
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Bruge?


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:15 pm
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Sandy balls or centre parcs..


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:21 pm
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Thanks, some food for thought.

Florence or Afan are the front runners.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:22 pm
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Another vote for Florence, especially out of season, take a bus up to Fiesole for the views of the city and a nice meal (very good restaurant on the the steep path up to the monestary) if you have the time a day trip to Sienna.
Less queuing, it would be my version of hell in peak season but with less tourists it's a lovely place to spend a weekend.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:31 pm
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Valencia - city & beach. It's a lot more relaxed than Barca.

Girona - beautiful small city, loads of good restaurants, Only an hour or so on the train from Barca.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:33 pm
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Good call on Girona,

also, for variety, if you are near Stansted, try Rzeszow, in Poland, stay at the Grand Hotel

http://www.grand-hotel.pl/en/

A real alt. city break and really very plush hotel for a great price

Alternatively, have you tried booting her out?


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:44 pm
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I'm not trying to be a dick, but if I were treating someone I'd try to avoid subjecting them to the Ryanair experience.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:52 pm
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Florence is stunning. Go off the beaten track for food. Research.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:53 pm
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I'd second Tallinn, the right sized place for a weekend. Good food in the restaurants and good beer that's a good bit cheaper than elsewhere in Scandinavia. Bath is a beautiful city and benefits from the spa centre (highly recommended) plus lots of pubs that have live music on plus some interesting shops eg the Yellow Shop.
Italian cities are great but I always feel like I'm being fleeced and I'm afraid on every trip I've made to Portugal since 1975 I've directly or indirectly been affected by pickpockets and thieves (I had less hassle in Salvador and Guatemala!).


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 12:57 pm
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The Northern Riviera, obviously...

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I'm not trying to be a dick, but if I were treating someone I'd try to avoid subjecting them to the Ryanair experience.

some things are just effortless

😛


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 1:04 pm
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If your not skint then Zermatt is lovely.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 1:12 pm
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Great Yarmouth.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 1:15 pm
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don't give in now,....she was just getting used to it!! 😀


 
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Barcelona if she's into city breaks or maybe Nice or Annecy in France. In the UK Careys Manor and Spa has always been a good experience or The Haven at Sandbanks which is nice for a quiet weekend too.
Annecy would be my call TBH it's a lovely place, all romantic and ting.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 1:22 pm
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how are you getting on at the moment ? If badly then weekend some where exciting and distracting i'd say Paris Rome or Barcelona. If you just need time together then an English country Pub with good food i was recommended the Rose and Crown at Romaldkirk which was faultless for a romantic weekend.


 
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Dogging Saturday, Car boot Sunday.

What girl could resist such a weekend.


 
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Rome definitely.

Worked out cheaper than Paris or Venice. Also has the STW approval of having superb coffee every 50yds


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 2:34 pm
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i agree Rome is ace, didnt like Florence tho, stinks.

one of the nicest cities ive been to thats a bit less touristy was Salzburg!


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 2:44 pm
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take a bus up Fiesole
popular girl in her day then?


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 3:03 pm
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Took the other half to Barcelona for her birthday in December after recommendations from here earned lots of browine points
Stayed at this place
http://www.petitpalace.co.uk/hotel-museum-from-barcelona/
Few blocks from main square where the aero bus shuttle stops so really easy transfer from airport


 
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I'd ask one of her friends for suggestions rather than a bunch of people you dont know on the internet...looks a lot more thoughtful, if you're genuinely trying to show her you care about her.....(could even save you some cash for a new bike if you find out she wants to go to Skegness cos her dog was buried there)


 
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Off the wall but how about a Dinner bed and breakfast at Raymond Blancs Maison au Quatre Saisons.
Depends if she likes posh nosh or not. Easy to get to , wont cost you a weeks pay , home in time for countryfile Sunday, and not knackered for the next 48hrs , unless you live in Fort William, as thats a good 7hr drive.


 
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+1 Luton

You might not need to fly there either.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 8:56 pm
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Weekend skiing in the Alps. Fly into Geneva, in resort in less than 1.5hrs


 
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Off the wall but how about a Dinner bed and breakfast at Raymond Blancs Maison au Quatre Saisons.
Depends if she likes posh nosh or not. Easy to get to , wont cost you a weeks pay , home in time for countryfile Sunday, and not knackered for the next 48hrs , unless you live in Fort William, as thats a good 7hr drive.

Cheaper to go to Paris for the weekend. Bit stuffy too I thought


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 9:13 pm
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One of the less populated canary islands? Camp in some hut next to the beach, no phones, wireless or watches etc?


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 9:35 pm
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Timing is critical too, as a recent poster found out.


 
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I hated Rome, found it to be the most hateful place I've been since London. Prague, Budapest, Valencia, Stockholm, Bergen, Oslo, Vienna, Berlin are all very nice. Bath Spa is pretty great with a lady friend.


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 10:49 pm
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Budapest and stay at the Kempinski Corvinus hotel - 5* luxury for £75 per night


 
Posted : 02/03/2016 11:29 pm
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Harris.
Switch off your phone. Potter around.


 
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