Movember/job interv...
 

MegaSack DRAW - This year's winner is user - rgwb
We will be in touch

[Closed] Movember/job interview dilemma.......

90 Posts
61 Users
0 Reactions
501 Views
Posts: 32570
Full Member
Topic starter
 

So, 6 days in, and I now look like a cross between a Mexican bandit and one of the Village People - "I don't know whether to buy you a sombrero or a peaked leather cap" was my boss's comment this morning.

I have an interview for a job on Thursday - level transfer to another agency, not sure I'd like the job, but my current role is being run down and could vanish in 2-3 years depending on legislation changes, with no chance of any pay/career progression in the meantime, so any potential port in a storm, I guess.

So, will 8 days worth of comedy moustache be a great ice-breaker at the interview, or a deal breaker? (Assuming I actually manage to fib my way through the interview itself)


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:19 pm
Posts: 9244
Full Member
 

Shave it. First rule of interview is to look smart and therefore feel smart.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:21 pm
Posts: 50252
Free Member
 

Two options.

Shave and look good.

Or...postpone the interview until you have some proper facial hair.
[img] [/img]


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:22 pm
Posts: 2765
Full Member
 

+1

no pishing about, loose it.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:22 pm
Posts: 32570
Full Member
Topic starter
 

If I shave it do I have to refund the people who have already donated?


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:23 pm
Posts: 13594
Free Member
 

So, will 8 days worth of comedy moustache be a great ice-breaker at the interview, or a deal breaker?

If you want the job, have a shave.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:23 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Mention it at the interview and ask for a donation. Might as well be up front and honest and at least they'll remember you.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:24 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Keep it but tell them why you're growing, charity brings more to the conversation and your character


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:24 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Difficult situation, I'm in the same boat- clean shaven for me , interview friday


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:28 pm
 akak
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Keep it but open with an explanation.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:34 pm
Posts: 2462
Free Member
 

Tricky. I'd say keep it then explain the dilemma you had with keeping/getting rid (in a jokey jovial sort of way of course) and they will hopefully see the overtly conciencous and considerate chap you are.

Could work in your favour if played out right. Depends on the job too of course.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:39 pm
Posts: 77703
Free Member
 

Keep it but open with an explanation.

+1. "please excuse my appearance, but..."


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:39 pm
Posts: 8660
Full Member
 

As above.

Like the idea of Movember but can't take part as QRRNs forbid 'taches, and Remembrance Sun Parade is smack in the middle of Nov.

Andy


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:39 pm
Posts: 65996
Full Member
 

Aye, I'd go with keep it and explain too.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:40 pm
Posts: 5559
Free Member
 

keep and explain if they dont understand do you want to work with them?


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:42 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Keep it and explain it. By far the best option.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:44 pm
Posts: 23145
Full Member
 

hide it with a fake beard

[img] [/img]

or

[img] [/img]


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:44 pm
Posts: 341
Free Member
 

So, 6 days in, and I now look like a cross between a Mexican bandit and one of the Village People

So if you dont get the job/promotion sue them for discrimination, for being homophobic against a dominant homosexual village people lookalikey, or for being racist against a mexican village people lookalikiey.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:46 pm
Posts: 7671
Free Member
 

Keep it and explain.

Feedback from a recent interview was they didn't feel they got to know the real me and only caught a glimpse towards the end. I was so busy being what they wanted i forgot to be me.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:47 pm
Posts: 27
Free Member
 

keep it and explain it to them.
not sure I'd want to work for a company who wouldn't give me a job because I was taking part in Movember anyway.
having said that I've been reluctant to do it because of what my bosses think clients will think if I turned up with half a nose scarf.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:48 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

i'd definitely keep it and tell them why you have it. movember is pretty well known by now so they're bound to have heard of it, and it says something about you as a person outside of the job role itself.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:56 pm
Posts: 23145
Full Member
 

Keep it. If you're the kind of person who takes part in Movember and they're not the kind of people who get that then you'd be miserable working there.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:58 pm
 mrmo
Posts: 10714
Free Member
 

customer facing or back office?

The former appearance matters far more

Back office role, well, couldn't be bothered to cut my hair* for an interview a few weeks back still got the job.

*about a foot long at the moment.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 8:58 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

What industry do you work in?

I know in mine there are plenty of facial hair combos going on and is

certainly a la mode movember or not.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:00 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Fantastic ice breaker. Just make sure it looks neat.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:00 pm
 igrf
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Hah got the same dilemma myself, got an appointment with a potentially big client tomorrow, up that North place (Coventry) doubt they'll get it, so off it's going to have to come..


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:00 pm
Posts: 1617
Free Member
 

A friend of mine at uni was growing a 'ginger afro' (am I allowed to say that?) for charity. He just explained during his job interviews that it was for charity. He does have a fantastic larger than life persona (as well as being 2m tall) so I can imagine it went down well at the interview.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:04 pm
Posts: 5902
Full Member
 

Will you feel awkward with it? If so, it's gotta go - charity is great, but good jobs don't come along that often.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:05 pm
Posts: 50252
Free Member
 

charity is great, but good jobs don't come along that often.

As above. If you get the job, bang a donation in!

For many, "Movember" is just an excuse not to shave, anyway!


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:07 pm
Posts: 227
Free Member
 

only way out is to wax it off if your growing one for charity!


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:23 pm
Posts: 341
Free Member
 

macburgers and enterprise, the car hire company not the star trek one, dont allow facial hair on their staff,


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:29 pm
Posts: 16
Free Member
 

Neat and tidy + Movember = easy solution: a toothbrush moustache a la Charlie Chaplin!

[i](don't mention the other bloke)[/i]


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:34 pm
Posts: 958
Full Member
 

Man this is a no brainier surely? Shave it off and focus the interview on why you are the person they need rather than showing them you're the office clown. There's always next year for that tache but you only have one shot at that interview ...


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:45 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Lose it or lose your chance!


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 9:53 pm
Posts: 32570
Full Member
Topic starter
 

I'm swayed by the "keep it and explain" argument, especially as the rest of me will be at my smartest. It's not a great job by any stretch - HMRC Tax Compliance - and if they don't get the whole Movember/charity thing, then I really don't think I'd want to move over there.

And, fwiw, I work in the same complex already, and there are some right weirdos stalking around. I'm always intrigued by the 50 year old guy with thinning, straggly, shoulder length green hair who is constantly outside smoking cigars - wouldn't if he'll be on the interview panel?


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 10:09 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

I'm not even sure you need to make an excuse to wear a tache. If you and your Tache are neat and tidy, what is the problem? If a firm dismisses someone for wearing "brown shoes", do you want to work for them ? Really?


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 10:19 pm
Posts: 93
Free Member
 

Keep it and be 'you' in the interview. If you are doing this for a personal reason, then let them now what that is. If you have to be someone else in an interview, then it's not the right job for you.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 10:34 pm
Posts: 91098
Free Member
 

It's government. They just tick boxes in interviews, they could be done by a computer.

If they don't have a 'no dodgy tache' box to tick, then you are fine.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 10:39 pm
Posts: 10330
Full Member
 

Fantastic ice breaker. Just make sure it looks neat.

This. It's difficult for interviewers to get people to open up and feel comfortable - this is a brilliant way. I turned up for an interview once in a suit and walking boots and we spent most of the interview talking about great places to walk

..and I got the job. Go for it


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 10:44 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

It was my dad's funeral on 11 Movember last year and I felt it inappropriate to turn up with a comedy moustache.

So I started late but had a huge mexican 'tache within a week.

I'm a hairy bugger mind.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 10:48 pm
Posts: 1875
Free Member
 

Have to say if it was me I'd be getting rid for sure.

If you have an interview for a job you want then this is priority number one. Nobody is going to mark you down for not having a mustache. But there is a fairly real possibility they will mark you down if you actually turn up to an interview with some kind of wacky charity facial hair.

So logic dictates, get rid.


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 11:40 pm
Posts: 77703
Free Member
 

If you were wearing a clown suit for a week for charity and it clashed with an interview, what would you do?

I think in honesty I'd go clown, and explain as an opening gambit why I was dressed the way I was. As an interviewer, a) I'd overlook it, and b) I'd remember you, which is a good thing. Probably also c) I'd give you credit for wanting to help a good cause.

Courage of your convictions, personal sacrifice for the benefit of others, charitable nature, these are all good qualities I'd want in an employee. Given the choice compared to a candidate who threw away a charity fundraising exercise purely for personal gain, which would you pick?


 
Posted : 06/11/2012 11:52 pm
Posts: 1875
Free Member
 

I'm gonna stick my neck out here and say in all honesty, if you went for an interview in a clown suit you wouldn't get the job.


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 12:03 am
Posts: 5902
Full Member
 

If it's an internal role, maybe give it a whirl then.

Could always go in with the "I do a bit of work for charideeeeee, but I don't like to talk about it" line


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 12:18 am
Posts: 8329
Full Member
 

Does your job and your employer define who you are? If so you might want to loose it. And don't forget to add that with the sad loss of JS there is a big hole to fill in charity fundraising world.


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 7:40 am
Posts: 31061
Free Member
 

If they have so small a sense of humour that they'd not give you the job because of Movember, then would you really want to work there anyway?


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 8:05 am
Posts: 1142
Full Member
 

Duggan - Member
I'm gonna stick my neck out here and say in all honesty, if you went for an interview in a clown suit you wouldn't get the job.

Caveat: Unless the job was at the Circus.

RM.


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 8:16 am
 ade
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

I'd keep it, but if you want to be super-cautious, drop the HR person running the recruitment process an email in advance to explain why so it's not a shock. That way the panel will be looking forward to seeing what your mo looks like, rather than recoiling in horror when you step in the room.


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 9:59 am
 ade
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

I'd keep it, but if you want to be super-cautious, drop the HR person running the recruitment process an email in advance to explain why so it's not a shock. That way the panel will be looking forward to seeing what your mo looks like, rather than recoiling in horror when you step in the room.


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 9:59 am
 hels
Posts: 971
Free Member
 

Depends on the level of the job ?? Is it corporate/exec middle management type job ?? Def get rid of it and dress smart, suit up. If it's more of a worker/drone job, or technical expert, specialist etc you should keep it, show some personality.

HR will tell you nothing and do nothing for you, they can't favor any candidates. They will meet you at the door and smile nicely and chat to cover up the cold dead heart of ice buried in their chest.


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 10:35 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you [b]mustachioed and bearded CEOs of FTSE100 companies![/b]

[url= https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTk0S_ukMbF12VX71OinmVzInPIN_IhtJn86LDGIbthKhbkqJF3 ]Ravi Jagannathan, CEO 3i[/url]
[url= ]Tom McKillop, Former CEO AstraZeneva[/url]
[url= ]Micky Arison, CEO of Carnival Corporation[/url],


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 1:03 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

[url= ]Iain Ferguson, Former CEO Tate & Lyle[/url]:
[url= ]MS Mehta, CEO Vendanta Resources:[/url]
[url= ]Mick Davis, CEO Xstrata[/url]

That's 6/100!


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 1:03 pm
 hora
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Trim the moustache back abit- i.e. to the sides of your top lip. This is presentable and will be taken as intended. IF you turned up with a 70's style moustache to an interview you wouldn't be taken seriously at all.

Hard men in the Falklands had moustache's. Should we laugh at them?

If the interviewer is the sort of person who would take offence I'd say its the wrong team to be in. You are hardly going there sporting clown shoes and a spinning bow tie.


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 1:07 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Hora has a point; be presentable. I don't mind a story but sometimes things sound like excuses and you wonder whether if someone comes for an interview with an excuse, how is their work going to be.

If it's more of a worker/drone job, or technical expert, specialist etc you should keep it, show some personality.

If the only way someone shows they have personality is by some wacky facial hair, I'm not sure they have personality 😉


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 1:12 pm
Posts: 408
Free Member
 

Keep it and explain.

Unless the interviewer has a tasche, then probably best to leave it


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 3:18 pm
 hora
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

If its a woman with a tash you could also say 'ah are you doing Movember as well'?

😆


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 3:22 pm
Posts: 32570
Full Member
Topic starter
 

I'm keeping the 'tache for the interview - was out meeting the public today and showing them my warrant card as ID and saying "This is how I normally look...." proved quite a useful introduction!


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 4:06 pm
 DezB
Posts: 54367
Free Member
 

[i]Fantastic ice breaker. Just make sure it looks neat.[/i]

Yep, trim it - a nice tidy one, Charlie Chaplin style should do the trick.

[img] [/img]


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 4:12 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

if you went for an interview in a clown suit you wouldn't get the job.

I've been to a few interviews on a unicycle, and I *always* put mountain unicycling on my CV. Being slightly different from the last person guarantees they'll remember you, and the odd hobby gives you a guaranteed question that you'll be able to talk about interestingly.

Have also worked with a few people who turned up to interviews (and came to work later) dressed as full on goths. Clearly had the skills and ability to do the job, so it appears they got the job. Sorted.

It obviously depends what it is, if you're talking corporate management or sales, they probably are a lot more about appearance than just looking at your skills or ability, but for surely for most jobs having a tash is going to make no difference.


 
Posted : 07/11/2012 4:27 pm
 hora
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

[img] [/img]

Heres mine!


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 2:17 pm
 DezB
Posts: 54367
Free Member
 

Going for the Freddy again eh?

I've been told I look like Daddy Pig

[img] [/img]

😆


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 2:19 pm
 hora
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

I look abit 'foreign' don't I? 😐


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 2:47 pm
Posts: 4
Free Member
 

How did the interview go?


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 3:11 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

[img] [/img]

[img] ?1250275819[/img]

Uncanny 😉


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 3:15 pm
 hora
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

😆


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 3:17 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

I've been to a few interviews on a unicycle, and I *always* put mountain unicycling on my CV. Being slightly different from the last person guarantees they'll remember you, and the odd hobby gives you a guaranteed question that you'll be able to talk about interestingly.

What kind of Mickey Mouse job asks you for your hobbies??


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 3:39 pm
 bigG
Posts: 137
Free Member
 

I've spent a lot of this week in client reviews and commercial negotiations. Interesting meeting a new supplier when you've got a tache going on. There's always that dilema for them, do they ask if it's for Movember, or because I think the chicks dig my mo?

[img][url= http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8479/8209079330_0299cde1f6.jp g" target="_blank">http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8479/8209079330_0299cde1f6.jp g"/> [/img][/url] [url= http://www.flickr.com/photos/46070670@N08/8209079330/ ]photo[/url] by [url= http://www.flickr.com/people/46070670@N08/ ]BigG1968[/url], on Flickr[/img]


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 4:21 pm
 mega
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

to be honest if it's for government their equality policies mean you would be more likely to get the job if you are a mexican or a member of the village people.

keep it - most people know what movember is and would realise that you are doing it for charity
good luck for the interview

edit bah - old thread. how did the interview go?


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 4:22 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

I've spent a lot of this week in client reviews and commercial negotiations

You didn't mention what car you drive and how big your wang is.


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 6:13 pm
Posts: 8469
Full Member
 

Hora - you look pretty close to a Mo/beard/sidies/eyebrow combo there!! Nice work!


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 6:40 pm
 bigG
Posts: 137
Free Member
 

Nukeproofriding, The point of my comment wasn't about wang measuring (and I don't drive an Audi or a BMW) it was more about meeting new people having challenging conversations, while looking more foolish than normal courtesy of having a tache.

Are you taking part in Movember? If not, drag yourself and your sarcastic tone elsewhere. Buffoon.


 
Posted : 22/11/2012 7:45 pm
 igrf
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Well having taken it off once this month as noted earlier in this thread I had a really important meeting yesterday and thought I'd probably better remove it again, but then when it came to it couldn't go through with it, wanting the astonishing likeness between myself and Clarke Gable to continue a tad longer.

So as luck would have it, the guy I'm negotiating with, French chap, is also mid mo, so yesterday we signed an historic deal together for a new agency on the 27th of Movember, that means it has bought me luck and now may never be removed which will inevitably bring me more problems from excess female attention.

Not sure what to do now..


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 11:27 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

A few of our staff are doing the Movember 'tache thing.

One of them looked quite dismayed on Monday when I told him he may need to shave to visit a client facility...


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 11:31 am
 igrf
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Doh, don't do it to him, that waste of space first potential client I went to see came to nothing, maybe at the client facility there will be fellow mo's, look on the positive side, it worked for me..


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 11:46 am
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Many of our clients ban facial hair on their sites...

Contractors / delivery drivers turning up with stubble are handed a disposable razor at the main gate - shave or don't come in


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 11:59 am
Posts: 39511
Free Member
 

Its quite common if you may be required to wear BA

H2S sites ive been on have had a no facial hair policy.


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 12:01 pm
Posts: 7337
Free Member
 

Many of our clients ban facial hair on their sites...

Are you in this country? Would be very interesting to see what would happen should a Muslim or Sikh gentleman turn up.


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 12:01 pm
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

Would be very interesting to see what would happen should a Muslim or Sikh gentleman turn up.

They would be asked to shave or be refused entry...

As trail rat says - depends on the H&S reqmts / emergency evac procedures. Flash risk, gas risk, need for emergency BA etc


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 12:11 pm
 igrf
Posts: 0
Free Member
 

I was going to say the same, hell there's been case law on stuff like this back as far as Sikhs on M/cycles..

What on earth are you selling to your clients?


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 12:11 pm
Posts: 3384
Free Member
 

As trail rat says - depends on the H&S reqmts / emergency evac procedures. Flash risk, gas risk, need for emergency BA etc

Huh? If the risk is that great that H&S reqmts say no stubble/beards then the PPE and engineering controls are not worth shite and no-one should be allowed on site.

Full face mask training isn't possible with a full on beard but then you have to supply a overflow system instead. Lets be honest no-one wears full face except in an absolute emergency anyways.

Just noticed - delivery drivers, now they are taking the piss.


 
Posted : 28/11/2012 12:22 pm
Page 1 / 2