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So 2 years ago (march 10th) everything went wrong. We lost our little girl who was born at 23 weeks. My wife was very ill both physically and mentally and barely spoke for 3 months. My eldest daughter was affected massively. And youngest just wanted to know what was wrong with mommy.

The messages I got from people on here was amazing. I've even been back to the thread a few times and read through.

Work were brilliant. I had a month off and flexibility to put home first. But things were very hard. I even got fat again.

So here we are now. Our son is due On the 10th of march although my wife is being kicked off early as it's a bit much to share the day. How the he'll did we manage that.

We haven't counted chickens yet but so far everything is as it should be. Everyone is excited. I'm about ready to explode with so many emotions I barely know how I actually feel.

The NHS have been amazing. They have litterally bent over backwards with almost weekly scans on things I've never heard of before. Again my work have just let me do what I've needed to do without so much as a whimper.

It sounds silly but I've noticed the birds in the morning. Riding my bikes has become a pleasure again. I have more energy and feel like my girls are getting the real me back again.

Just one slight issue!

What the hell are we going to call him!


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 8:53 pm
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Congrats!

JonBoyJnr. Obvs.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 8:55 pm
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It sounds silly but I've noticed the birds in the morning. Riding my bikes has become a pleasure again. I have more energy and feel like my girls are getting the real me back again

[b]OUTSTANDING! [/b]

Good for you, and all fingers crossed for March.

Call him Thor. Or Henry.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 8:56 pm
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Great news.. What a rollercoaster!
Jonboy Junior of course


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 8:57 pm
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It sounds silly but I've noticed the birds in the morning. Riding my bikes has become a pleasure again. I have more energy and feel like my girls are getting the real me back again.

😀


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 8:59 pm
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Oh, and another vote for John Boy Jnr


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:00 pm
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Thank God. Good for you and your family.

I hear 'James' is a good name. 😉


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:00 pm
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Not sure jb jnr will fly.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:02 pm
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We love good news, thanks.

Best of luck.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:04 pm
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I hear 'James' is a good name.

I have also heard that.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:05 pm
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That's some good news - congrats!

JonBoyJnr "Daddy, how did I get my name"
Jonboy "Well son, there is this hive mind.........."


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:07 pm
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Excellent JonBoy, all the best 🙂


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:14 pm
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Glad to hear it Jonboy. We lost twins 13 weeks ago at 23 weeks. The light at the end of the tunnel looks like an oncoming train at the moment. Our boys were named Ethan and Joel so my vote is for those names


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:15 pm
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That's great :D. Best of luck to you all.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:17 pm
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😀

Oh, and Wolfgang!


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:23 pm
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:mrgreen:

Good luck, JB. Give him a proper name like Dave or something. Not one of these new fangled names like Jaxon.....

My son is called Edward, second choice was Thomas.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:27 pm
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Love a bit of good news. Congratulations to Mr & Mrs JonBoy.

Paul is a very classic name....


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:34 pm
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Nice.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:37 pm
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congrats to you and the missus and all the very best.

Bennett / Thaddeus / Aaron

At the end of the day only you and your wife will know what inspires you to bestow your son your chosen name for him.. all the best.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:43 pm
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Nice is a weird name
And awesome 🙂


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:44 pm
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Wishing you and your family all the best wishes.

Call him Mervyn


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:45 pm
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Bob, definitely Bob.
Or Stanley.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:49 pm
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Feeling the love here, guys, just feeling the love:-)


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:54 pm
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Awesome news.

You should name him "Little Alan" after an illustrious forum member.

Or George. if you're a Star Wars fan.

Do not call him Percy.....people will only misspell it.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:54 pm
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Nice one mate *nods slowly*

Michael is a classic excellent name.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:58 pm
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Good news 🙂

I met a lad recently called Nimrod, apparently it means 'great hunter' I thought that was an ace name.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 9:58 pm
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Give him a proper name like Dave or something

Yeah, after Rodney.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 10:01 pm
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Great news. Brightened up my day. Name him after your bike. Unless you have a Trigger...


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 10:06 pm
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Great news OP. Tremendous courage from you and your wife. Wish you all the best for your new arrival.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 10:08 pm
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Good news all round!
Call him STeW


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 10:15 pm
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Good stuff!
James is an awesome name cos that's what I is named.

'Mommy' on the other hand........ 😥


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 10:19 pm
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Really chuffed for you and your family. Don't really know what else to say. All the best to all of you 🙂


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 10:24 pm
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Great news, OP.
Call him Daniel. (Not Danny Boy, just yet).


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 10:24 pm
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Nice one.

STW/mumsnet boys name crib sheet, just pick one.

Archer
Barnaby
Benedict
Crispin
Clarence
Conrad
Euripides
Felix
Fenston
Gideon
Godfrey
Harley
Harry
Horatio
Jacob
Jago
Jenson
Julian
Leopold
Lysander
Marco
Milo
Montgomery
Myles
Noah
Octavian
Oliver
Oscar
Percy
Peregrine
Quentin
Raphael
Rupert
Sebastian
Tarquin
Tristan
William


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 10:24 pm
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Great News.

How about a poll? I suggest Baby McBabyFace. Or Robert. Or Thomas. And definately not Ambrose, trust me on that one.


 
Posted : 08/02/2017 10:31 pm
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Excellent news!

Oh, and [url=

obviously.


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 12:15 am
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Congratulations, really pleased for you all.
A light at the end of the tunnel must be brilliant after all that 🙂


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 8:15 am
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Great News!!

These words really lifted me this morning!

JonBoy - Member

It sounds silly but I've noticed the birds in the morning. Riding my bikes has become a pleasure again. I have more energy and feel like my girls are getting the real me back again.

Best wishes for the foreseeable....


 
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We lost twins 13 weeks ago at 23 weeks. The light at the end of the tunnel looks like an oncoming train at the moment. Our boys were named Ethan and Joel so my vote is for those names

I noticed this within the previous posts. Very sorry to hear that big yim.....
Can't imagine how people cope with that trauma. I hope you are bearing up....


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 8:26 am
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Great news!
Congratulations to all the family.
Not sure about the name,I'm sure someone will suggest something appropriate.


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 8:30 am
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Happy days, the world needs more boys named Jon


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 9:58 am
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Excellent stuff. A nice lift for the morning.
Names, obviously you have to choose from [url= http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0068149/?ref_=nv_sr_1 ]here[/url]!
- Jim-Bob, Jason, Ben, or maybe Mary-Ellen (risk with that last of being nicknamed Hairy Melon)


 
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Great post and Max of course defiantly NOT Maxwell unless you want him to grow up having detention most days due to scuffles with "mates" taking the mick, best thing is mom wanted to call me Simon but thought I'd have the mickey taken out of me....


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 10:30 am
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Congratulations - great news.

We were having a conversation about names last week and apparently there are no enough Gary's in the world, so go with Gary and save the name from becoming extinct. 😀


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 11:12 am
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I'm sorry, but you're all wrong, either 'Pedro' or 'Clint'.

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PS: Fab news fella, at the end of the day it doesn't matter what he's called as long as he's loved (and it sounds like he will be). 🙂
PPS: As long as he's called @pedro' or 'Clint' obvs


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 11:19 am
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Great news, and congratulations.

And James is a fine name, an excellent choice that guarantees a most excellent person in the future 8)


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 11:22 am
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Many congratulations, great news!!!

There's some real beauts here:

http://www.britishbabynames.com/blog/2011/06/curiosities-of-the-eighteenth-century.html


 
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Sorry to hear about all the tough times, but superb news on the new baby! 🙂

STW/mumsnet boys name crib sheet, just pick one.

Good to see that our boys name isn't on here 🙂 though I did like Barney at the time but Mrs B vetoed it.


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 11:30 am
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Excellent news mate


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 11:31 am
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Good-oh.

Solomon
Ptolemy
Nexus
Tyrone
JR
Euripides
Plinny
Kevin
Vladimir
Tywin


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 11:33 am
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Great news.

How about Hodor?


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 11:41 am
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[quote="CaptainFlashheart"]Call him Thor. Or Henry.
An ex-colleague called his son Thor.

Henry sucks.


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 1:05 pm
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Clearly, in homage to STW, you should call your baby Robin...


 
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Congratulations on the good news 🙂

Definitely Wigbert or Albert, I hear Joseph is a good one.


 
Posted : 09/02/2017 2:14 pm