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On the upside, these threads are always useful for outing the Neanderthals and halfwits.
... they do tend to go downhill fast if the OP leaves them unattended for more than 5 seconds 😕
Cougar - Moderator
On the upside, these threads are always useful for outing the Neanderthals and halfwits.
Ya, plenty of them about innit!
I call them ZM! 😛
Didn't know they were your initials Chewkw.
So you find them attractive and engaging etc - is there not a tiny part of you that wonders if you are not getting some kind of attention/pleasure from them that is not just purely about being friends?
I certainly find them engaging otherwise i wouldn't want to spend time with them at all, I find my male friends engaging too, without that you're just two bored people sharing the same space. I added the comment about them being attractive in my post to preemptively counter the seemingly accepted belief that you can't be friends with someone you think is attractive.
Whether i gain any satisfaction purely from the idea that they want to by in my company as some kind of personal flattery or a 'power up' for my ego is an interesting idea. It's not something that i'd really thought about until you posed the question and It's probably not something i could answer off the cuff as it would need a fair bit of thought to reach any sort of honest conclusion, but I guess it's is possible on some level even if it's not a conscious one.
hammyuk - Member
Didn't know they were your initials Chewkw.
That's me trademark! 😆
It's copyright! 
I've missed this thread earlier.
I was out the other evening at the theatre with my best friends wife.
Had a great evening, nothing going whatsoever.
PePPeR - Member
I was out the other evening at the theatre with my best friends wife.Had a great evening, nothing going whatsoever.
Oh dear ... 😯
(must monitor ... coz "I told you so" ...)
Cougar behave ! Once the OP has had the answer (numerous posters agreeing) a topic can then turn to fun.
Cougar - Moderator
You do know that is Arnold Rimmer don't you?
You do know what the crew members think of Rimmer don't you? 😆
hora - Member
Cougar behave ! Once the OP has had the answer (numerous posters agreeing) a topic can then turn to fun.
S/he does not get it ... 😆
S/he does not know when it is serious and when it is fun time.
Speaking in "1011011011011100000111 ..." can be confusing ... 😆
Cougar behave ! Once the OP has had the answer (numerous posters agreeing) a topic can then turn to fun.
I'm having fun already, dunno what you and your 1970s attitude to women are doing.
(-:
You do know what the crew members think of Rimmer don't you?
He's a total SMMEEEEEEEE....
70's? It's 60's maaaan 8)
Cougar - Moderator
Cougar behave ! Once the OP has had the answer (numerous posters agreeing) a topic can then turn to fun.
I'm having fun already, dunno what you and your 1970s attitude to women are doing.(-:
I thought 60s has more fun? No? 😯
S/he does not get it ...
"He," FYI.
Cougar - Moderator
S/he does not get it ...
"He," FYI.
D'oh! 😛
Someones having fun
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We've been had!
I only look at these threads to see what hora and chewkw's views are........... entertaining that's what they are 🙂
Hi,
This is a serious post.
Update: She told me that she banned me from having female friends as she didn't want to lose me and that she would not want to ruin our relationship by going to the movies and dinner if she knew it would come to this.
Also blamed me for telling her to make friends and she is not interested in him.
Ball is in my court now. Maybe I need to cool down and arrange a relationship councillor if I want to save it. Thing is I am sure I want to go through all this again.
Thanks for the serious advice.
And no thanks for the stalkers.
I'm really confused.
Hi,This is a serious post.
Care to explain the posting history you have of breakup's and multi-dates a day?
Ah, we've been had 😳
Although this quote on the OP does sum things up nicely for me courtesy of iDave...
are you 12?
Mary Shelley would be proud...
Whether i gain any satisfaction purely from the idea that they want to by in my company as some kind of personal flattery or a 'power up' for my ego is an interesting idea. It's not something that i'd really thought about until you posed the question and It's probably not something i could answer off the cuff as it would need a fair bit of thought to reach any sort of honest conclusion, but I guess it's is possible on some level even if it's not a conscious one.
I said I like to overanalyse things! Not sure what the answer is either.
Door ... back ... 😆
Smash his own back doors in?
Are you rehearsing the plot of your novel?
And no thanks for the stalkers.
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Nice one OP..
Forget that Santa Cruz choice, buy a kids trike instead..
The go play in the naughty corner. 🙄
Oh dear 😐
The previous break up was with her but we managed to patch things up.
The dates were with women friends who I grew up or caught up. Nothing other platonic.
I told my other half everything before and after.
I just don't like the idea of a guy hitting on her and she is claiming blindness.
I can't trust her and maybe it is my fault. I told her to be happy and I'm moving on without her.
Not buying a bike. Looking at new cars now.
[quote=Frankenstein ]The dates were with women friends who I grew up or caught up. Nothing other platonic.
I told my other half everything before and after.
I'm not seeing a huge difference here if that really is true...
I'm really confused.
Having had a quick scan of the other threads, I'm more concerned. All does not seem quite right with Frankenstein. 😐
OP are you trolling?
Cougar - Moderator
On the upside, these threads are always useful for outing the Neanderthal[s]s and[/s] halfwits.
FTFY 🙂
On the upside, these threads are always useful for outing the Neanderthals
What do you have against Dutch people anyway?
it wasn't a chocolate cock made from a mold of his own gentleman parts was it? I once got the wrong idea about a yound lady in my office and sent her one of these for valentines....didn't go down well...
[quote=tpbiker ]didn't go down well...
did s<connection terminated>
t wasn't a chocolate cock made from a mold of his own gentleman parts was it? I once got the wrong idea about a yound lady in my office and sent her one of these for valentines....didn't go down well..
Is that because it was less than a mouthful?
You fashioned a cock from the mold you found on your own gentleman parts?
hora - Member
OP are you trolling
Actually no. I do appreciate everyone's advice.
I've told her we will see a therapist if she can't agree equal boundaries. E.g. both of us can have any gender friendships and be trusted.
We both said if we wanted to find someone else we would tell each other way ahead.
I don't trust these other guy friends and she doesn't trust these other women friends.
At the moment we are taking a time out for a few days. Maybe I'm too angry and jealous to talk to her right now.
I also told him if he tries anything on he'll need an ambulance. He did apologise so he was trying it on.
I still think your previous posts about multiple dates signals something about your approach to life, even when in a relationship.