[Closed] Jade Goody

Bloody hell. How did it get to this again.

How is this thread of any use to anyone, imo it should be pulled for good

My Dad has terminal Cancer - how do i get him in Hello! ?

Bloody hell guys - chill out.I agree with what Junkyard said.Think of her kids,its totally vile.

My first wife had breast cancer at 24, was sterilised at 25 (too big a risk) and died from secondary liver cancer at 28. 6 Months later I was diagnosed with testicular cancer, had chemo, seven operations and radiotheraphy. I was very lucky and survived.

Anyone who thinks cancer is funny is wrong, no debate they are wrong.

If Jade Goody or anyone else has secondary liver cancer then my best wishes go out to them.

****ing Hell leftyboy!

Snigletrack and SCXC are now in the cooler.

Good call.

Cheers Dave.

What Drac said. BUT if snigl...whatever his name is, ever came onto a prison wing I was working on, he'd get **** all, lots of it plus a bit less.
Bad thread. I think he's jealous cos the general public have heard of her, but not him.

He got his 100 though.

The one person who has actually met Jade, Jedi, has said that she's a really nice person. A kind and caring Human Being.

I think she deserves respect, as such. Regardless of what people may think of her. She ain't done nothing to hurt anyone, really. I don't believe she is a Bad Person.

This is upsetting. There's young kids, gonna lose their mum. Someone who truly loves them. Please, just take a moment to think of that.

I couldn't bear to lose my mum.

Ive sort of speed read this topic, I have no intrest in Jade Goody, or what she does for a living, however the woman is obviously seriously ill, and is probably being poorly managed/represented, by people who have their own intrests at heart rather than Jades.
Do what I do- take no interst in the stories etc. around/about her, and wish her and her family well.
Having lost both of my parents to cancer, I know its a shitty time.

**** leftyboy. ****.

[i]Whatever she may be she is not dying of cancer for the publicity.[/i] No one is saying she is, but I can understand why people may think, however sick it may be, that it is some kind of publicity stunt.

As I said before was Jordon not dying of something at some point when the general public hated her?

And yes I have taken a moment to 'think of the children', I wonder if her pr machine has done the same.

I heard Lance cut off one of his balls just for a bit of publicity and to get some good drugs.
This has got to be the most depressing thread in a long time 🙁

Why is it people on here are not allowed to express an opinion? Did someone make a new rule where we are not allowed freedom of thought?

I've not heard that one about Lance.

There was nobody in the thread saying that they wished cancer on anyway (apart from a suggestion of Robert Mugabe!) but what started the aggro was one man saying he couldn't care less about Jade. I agree with him. I don't give a rat's ass what happens to her, because I don't know her, she annoys me through the media, always has done. She seems a rude, obnoxious, selfish, backstabbing person that I wouldn't want anywhere near my life. Meeting her once doesn't give anyone the right to say how 'nice' she is. I'm sure Robert Mugabe is capable of being nice to someone he only meets once.

The way she and her nothing life have cropped up in the media is ridiculous. How can someone with nothing to say for themself be allowed to earn a vast amount of money in this way? Media and celebrity culture really turn my stomach. Excusing her being all over the papers with her cancer by saying "she's trying to make more money for her kids" is no use as far as I'm concerned. She has got so used to splattering herself all over the goss mags and telling everything to minor journalists that she almost doesn't know anything else now. She has certainly not used any intelligence throughout the process, and perhaps some of the blame should be put onto those who manage her 'career'.

I do hope her kids find a good home, I'm sure they will.

PS I think it's obvious that what I say above is OPINION... don't start the amateur dramatics.

Folks.

Next time Adam does this, can we just say [i]"photocopying business a bit quiet today is it chap?"[/i] and then stroll nonchalantly away.

He is an articulate, fiercely intelligent and apparently morally chameleonic man who has a particularly good knack of pushing our collective buttons when he is bored. He is especially adept at provoking arguments that no-one comes out of looking good. Just note the habit and don't rise to it, these are just too destructive of people's mood.

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[i]Did someone make a new rule where we are not allowed freedom of thought?[/i]

No but read rules 3 and 7.

No kids deserve to lose their mum like this. Doesn't matter who she is.

[i]3. No posts which, in the Moderators opinion, are likely to cause offence to either an individual, or group, whatever their sexual inclination or ethnicity.
7. No posts which in the opinion of the moderators are solely intended to, or are likely to provoke or abuse any individual or group.[/i]

As I said before if you reread the original post I fail to see where rule 3 or 7 is broken. This has been blown completely out of proportion. OP did not say Jade deserved cancer nor any of the other Chinese whispers that are going around. If the rules had been broken in the original post then the mods would have pulled the thread. A few folks got on their high horse and accused the op of something he didn't post then all hell has broken loose.

In short the original post said, 'Does anyone else think the Jades cancer may be some sort of publicity stunt?' Fair enough question is it not?

whos jade goody ?

seriously

Gary I found the first post offensively nasty. It's wording appeared to be phrased in a way that was inevitably going to rile people up. Better to have said nothing.

People lose their mothers every day. It is always a tragedy. Road crash journalism does nothing but diminish peoples suffering into a gossip column and demeans all those involved. Jade has spent her career whoring out the minute details of her comparatively pointless life for others to gawk at and it comes as no surprise that cancer has proved to be a boost to her career.

What a way to live a life. Predictably, it is the kids I feel sorry for.

BigDummy - Member

Folks.

Next time Adam does this, can we just say "photocopying business a bit quiet today is it chap?" and then stroll nonchalantly away.

Nail hit square on the head there by BD.

Sandwich you must go through your life being offended right, left and centre. Why anyone who doesn't know Jade Goody would be offended is beyond me.

Of course she's on the front of magazines. That's her job, what she makes money out of, people pay her money to hear about her life.

It must be poo to have cancer. If I had cancer, knew I was likely to die, and had a job that could make me money out of it, to make sure my kids were looked after, hell I'd keep working, even if some people disapproved of what I was doing for some random snobbish reasons.

Joe

I fail to see where rule 3 or 7 is broken

I think the section on negative use covers it:

It is our aim that the forum should have an overall positive effect on the mountain bikers that use it. Experience has shown us that certain individuals like to contribute simply to cause trouble. Technically these people are known as Trolls but like all negative elements in society they learn the rules and are quite cunning in their ability to stay just within the letter or the law and yet still manage to cause irritation to other users. So, to try and combat these negative forum users we reserve the right to ban anyone we consider to be a predominantly negative contributor to the forum.

I think that "certain individuals like to contribute simply to cause trouble" pretty much sums up AdamG/snigletrack.

Discussion is fine where it is constructive, but to start a thread where the intention is ,apparently,to be nasty. What's the point?
Life does not have to be all struggle and strife, unless of course you have a terminal disease. Choose the battle wisely and you don't end up defending the indefensible.

BigDummy - Member

Folks.

Next time Adam does this, can we just say "photocopying business a bit quiet today is it chap?" and then stroll nonchalantly away.

Sounds like a plan.

As a quick aside, posters here seem to "get" very quickly who a new user is...a la snigletrack/adamg...how do you work it out? Is it just the style of their posts or something a little more sinister at work?

FWIW, arguing the point of the OP is nonsense...asking a question can be just as nasty as making a specific point. To put a question like the OP has done is clearly meant to wind people up. Throwing it out there and then claiming it's an innocent question is clearly bollox.

Oh, and second the "photocopying business" suggestion. Sounds like a plan indeed.

Mysterymurdoch, GaryM, etc: Jedi actually mentions that he has met Jade several times, and that he believes her to be a very nice, kind, caring person. That's real, lived experience, not a judgement based on what someone sees in the papers or on telly, like the rest of us.

Deadly; AdamG was 'Snigletrack' in a previous incarnation, as well as Cooligan, and probbly others. So, not hard to spot! Speshly when he started up with his usual hate-filled crap.

There's 'winding people up' (not that I ever would, of course), and then there's being nasty and provocative. As for 'expressing an opinion', well, fair enough, but come on, we all know AdamG's style by now. He just likes to see people get all het up; probbly gives him some sort of power-trip.

It's a shame he can't use such abilities for more positive things, really. Never has a nice thing to say about anything or one. I suspect it's all more of an act, than how he really is, but why act in a horrible, spiteful, nasty way? Points towards some deep-set frustrations and anger, I'd say.

Personally, I have no concern with Ms Goody's 'career', but, as a Human Being, I find the fact of her suffering very sad.

And I think people should be respectful to that. She's someone's daughter, someone's sister, someone's mother.

As a quick aside, posters here seem to "get" very quickly who a new user is...a la snigletrack/adamg...how do you work it out? Is it just the style of their posts or something a little more sinister at work?

Just the style of the posts. A disproportionately vehement rant against an easy target (usually something about "parasites" with no "dignity"), use of the words like "morons", "wassock", "boils my piss", etc, pointless digs at people with singlespeeds, and so on. You could probably make a computer program that could spew them out.

leftyboy - Member

My first wife had breast cancer at 24, was sterilised at 25 (too big a risk) and died from secondary liver cancer at 28. 6 Months later I was diagnosed with testicular cancer, had chemo, seven operations and radiotheraphy. I was very lucky and survived.

That's harsh mate. 😕

I take it your school is closed today snigle and they have given you the day off from the infants class.this is someone's mum you are talking about,i dont think even jade would put them through this if she was not sick.she sick you are just sick in the head.

Does AdamG/snigletrack still have that pretend printer business with the aboslutely shyte website? I wanted to show someone how to do a fake business website (we do this, but no examples, no client lists, photo of an anonymous building with no business names/logos),so he could run his "business" from his mum and dad's - but couldn't remember his name.

Hi Rich, yes it is but to be fair I'm here 14 years later typing this so for me personally it could be worse 🙂

Hardest thing is still hearing people with no first hand experience 'judging' cancer victims.

I do not think someone has to have first hand experience to 'judge' cancer victims as almost everyone has been through suffering in once way or another and can appreciate the pain, suffering and heartache it brings. Just in the same way any other death or life-threatening illness brings.

Unfortunately there is a (thankfully tiny) minority that think, somehow, that normal people might think it amusing that someone like Jade Goodey has a terminal disease.

Like her or not, she is a human being and deserves every bit as much dignity and respect as anyone else put on this earth deserves. Yes she has made mistakes in the past, but she always was put up there only to be shot down.

I don't like the way this has been played out in the media, primarily because it leads to 'some' people questioning the validity of what they hear.

It's a truly awful thing happening to Jade and her family. Absolutely no satisfaction can be drawn from it regardless of her behavior in the past. If the drug works then that's bloody excellent.

Just because someone is in the tabloids and Heat magazine, they are no less human than any of us.

Gloating over a celebrity's illness shows that, rather than being above celebrity culture as you probably like to believe yourself, you've fallen for it more than most.

What I mean is, by dehumanising Jade and saying you think her cancer is a publicity stunt you've bought into the concept that celebs are entertainment and it's all a harmless game.

Not sure why I wanted to make that point really, I think about these things deeper than I probably need to.

It is sad and all, especially for her kids.

I think everyone will be affected whether indirectly or not by Cancer at some point in their life and it is really taboo to make light of it. At the end of the day she's still a human being.

On the other hand, most people who are tragically struck down with this maintain their dignity and don't sell their story to everyone who's stupid enough to listen.

Jade and Max Clifford are the poster ****ts for every muppet in the world who wants to be "famous" for doing nowt but being in the right place at the right time.

I'm sure it'll go one of two ways - either she'll make a remarkable recovery - cue a new book/perfume/Range Rover deal.

Or she'll tragically die young, leave two kids without a mother and it'll be on every rag's front page for a week and they'll be an outpouring of greif by idiots in ugg boots

BobaFatt

On the other hand, most people who are tragically struck down with this maintain their dignity and don't sell their story to everyone who's stupid enough to listen.

....and as for your last 2 sentences - have you ever thought of setting up as a clairvoyant with such remarkable foresight 🙄

She may not be the brightest or most talented individual (I'm by no means a fan of hers) but she has done a fair amount for charity and I don't think she has done anything which remotely justifiies some of the comments on here.

What a fascinating thread!
I think this debate desperately needs a female view added to the mix.
I was almost thinking of turning lesbian when I first started reading all this male orientated mumbo jumbo, luckily for me, a few voices of reason saved me from this god fearing plight.
Looking for information of Jade's progress online, I unwittingly stumbled on this pit, full of male undesirables. I was worried for my own son's fate after reading what was still in existance of apparently 'GROWN MEN'S' brain-cell count.
I would like to clarify that from a female viewpoint Jade is in no way being undignified. I have personally been propelled into having a cervical smear test (12 years without having the test), due to the real awareness arising from the publicity given to Jade Goody's own situation.
How can it be so bad that a crusade to save your future / present ladies lives comes from no other than Jade herself, all be it unintentionally.
I, like your respective-selves, am no fan of Jade Goody's, but then again, I am a fan of nobody. I believe though that she has faced a great deal of adversity in her life, head-on.
I also believe that she has more intelligence and dignity than a select few on here have in their little toes. She is undoubtedly a very shrewd, clever business woman, with a heart to boot.
I really do believe in 'Karma', so I don't think I need to say anymore.

Well said. I stand by my comments, and it was worth the temporary ban.

Welcome back sc-xc.

As Ice Queen points out, this place can often descend into macho posturing and nastiness. Whilst I think it's right that people can feel free to express their opinions, there's ways and means. This thread has shown how 'having the right to an opinion' has been abused, just so that one or two nasty, spiteful individuals can spout their inflammatory filth.

The good thing is, that most people, who've commented on this thread, seem to be decent, ordinary caring folk. I hope people can move on from this, and that some people think very carefully about what they've said.

And maybe one or two people might want to stay away permanently, as they seem to have nothing positive to add to STW.