[Closed] Is it possible to love 2 women at the same time.

And have two mother in laws??

I did once, it was awesome.

Until you get caught suppose

Yes and more.

Kylie and Louise ....

I don't see why not. I read something somewhere about how men are evolutionary biased towards polygamy, Ie, lots of sexual partners. And women hypergamy, one after the next, always trading up.

So...

Yeah but it doesn't end well ime

Depend who they are and what you mean by love, do you mean your wife, your mother, your sister....or your wife and Louise in Accounts.

CheesybeanZ - Member

Kylie and Louise ....

You and I must be a similar age CheesybeanZ

I love Taylor Swift and Scarlet Johanssen. So I guess it's true... you can love two women at once.

Do you mean love as in take her home at the weekend to meet your mother, or as in
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The first is tricky, but doable. The second is tricky, but fun.

Louise in Accounts.

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I love Taylor Swift and Scarlet Johanssen.

Me too!

Kylie and Louise

Me too!

You need to tell us more OP...this should be good...

Yup.. I love many women.. and men.

You need to differentiate between loving someone, and being in love.

Being truly in love is a two way street, and requires a conscious effort by both parties.
If you're in in love with two women then you've been behaving irresponsibly (unless everyone involved digs that groovy vibe)

The third option might be that you have some sort of a crush, which is not something that you're in control of, but should be able to accept and learn to deal with. Happens all the time.

Here endeth the sermon from the love doctor

I don't subscribe to the idea that loving one woman implies you can't love another. But the sheer effort required to love one woman and earn the reciprocity which makes it all worth while makes it humanly impossible to do it for two.

Watch Dr Foster and get a glimpse of the consequences of trying...

You'd have to get permission from both wives to go cycling after not doing two loads of housework. I say No.

It's probably easier to imagine you do.

the sheer effort required to love one woman and earn the reciprocity which makes it all worth while makes it humanly impossible to do it for two.

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Cheers Jekkyl tea + keyboard moment thanks to your reply

Mother and daughter?

'Sportsman's Double'

Two lesbians probably.

Sisters.

I'm just watching.

Watch Dr Foster and get a glimpse of the consequences of trying...

This should be on the can't act thread. Can't remember the lead actresses name - but hell, she can't act at all. One of the worst things I have ever seen.

Define love.

Curt beat me to it. Wow, what a question - without sounding like a perve there is much said to embracing alternative lifestyles.

However, 2 mother in laws, 2 x the nag factor, the lost goes on. I a, not sure I could take it.

I vote go for one partner and then make sure they accept your irresponsible lusting over bikes, without judgement.

I would say yes but you need to choose carefully to avoid this

2 x the nag factor

Yes, OP, definitely....

Have started threads about this, or specifically monogamy, in the past and got shot down for it.

There are so many people out there, and statistically half of them are women.

Have been with the GF for one and a half decades now.

In that time there have been many girls that I've found attractive and intriguing, but only two other women that I could have imagined spending lots of time with.

Although saying that there was a Russian girl I met last week who, despite having only spoke for an hour or so, has left a lasting impression on me. She left the bbq and I was tempted to ask her friend for her number, but thought I'd best leave it to fate of we meet again.

I'm not unhappy with my GF. Far far from it. She knows me better than anyone and I know I can rely on her when needed and vice versa... We laugh lots, spend lots of quality time together and enjoy each others company. She is my best friend as well as my girlfriends. However, neither of us are so naive as to think that there is no one else out there with whom either of us could get along with.

The trouble comes when you ask yourself if you would be happy for your wife/girlfriend to be in love with another man as well as yourself. How does that make you feel?
Are you happy to have another man roggering your lady? Cuckold?

I know that it is not something that I get a kick out of [s]unless I'm allowed to watch and clean up [/s] and I very much doubt my GF would be A-ok with it either (me being with another lady, not the watching and cleaning up bit).

If your daily driver is a two seater it can be challenging.

If you own a passenger friendly saloon though...

the nag factor

Eliminate the nag factor with the.......

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.....factor

I am amazed this thread hasn't been deleted !

Drac's round at his monday night girl and Cougar is, you know, Cougaring so they're kind of busy.

I love both my indoor girlfriend and my outdoor girlfriend equally.

[quote=jambalaya ]I am amazed this thread hasn't been deleted !

because it's a duplicate?

I thought these days we were all allowed our proper ride and a fatty.

Is it possible to love 2 women at the same time?

Kind of, but it WILL be fun, interesting & very very dangerous.
Just choose how much you value your bollocks.
(Just saying from experience, except it was 3 at the same time in this case)

You have 3 bollocks?

One women = less bike time, 2 women = even less bike time, I'd consider you spare time wisely

I thought these days we were all allowed our proper ride and a fatty.

I've a racing model and a folder...

This thread has so much love

Is any reckless, thrill-seeking, devil-may-care risk-taker ever prepared to go "double Louise'? 😯

Guy at work managed to spread his time between two women who were oblivious to each other. They both used to feed him so he often ended up eating two dinners. He got fat.

Digitally?

(sorry)

Is any reckless, thrill-seeking, devil-may-care risk-taker ever prepared to go "double Louise'?

Robert Downey Jr. is superb in this.

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EDIT: Sorry for posting the biggest picture ever.

Two lesbians probably.

Two of my ex's were both a bit AC/DC & separately offered a bit of fun with a friend, still haven't worked out why I said no on both occasions 😯

When in god's name is someone going to invent a time machine

I thought these days we were all allowed our proper ride and a fatty.

I've a racing model and a folder...

I have 5 locked up in a shed, including a couple of younger bouncy ones and a couple of older models that are fun for old times sake.

N+1?

Well, it does get done...

[url= https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory ]Polytunnelling...[/url]

You have 3 bollocks?

No but I could've done with an extra one at the time just to help the other two out! 😆

Two of my ex's were both a bit AC/DC & separately offered a bit of fun with a friend, still haven't worked out why I said no on both occasions

What sort of sick pervert says no, twice.

You are all sorts of wrong.

Two of my ex's were both a bit AC/DC & separately offered a bit of fun with a friend, still haven't worked out why I said no on both occasions

Angus Young and Brian Johnson?

My current lady was wooed by a fella online a few years back - turned out he had a wife and family he kept secret from her... she's not stupid either! Honest!
I haven't probed for further details as it's a bit of a sore subject.
Sounds like bloody hard work on his part though.

I wouldn't rule it out, but I think my wife would leave me if I fell for another woman so it'd be a very temporary situation as I'm a very transparent man!

That and the fact I have a lot of time consuming hobbies and children that would make it tricky.

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Sloppy seconds 🙂

I think someone already said, it depends on what your definition of love is. Combine this with, is this a logistical or moral question? Some peoples view of love is shallower than others. Does your love depend of reciprocity? If it is a one sided love based on your own needs, then I can't see it being a problem at all. Otherwise, I would ask the women involved. I am guessing they exist as self defined people?

johndoh -
Sloppy seconds

I think you want the "Is it possible to love 2 men... " thread

Floppy seconds 😉

I find it helps if the 2 women are prepared to love each other a bit as well - helps with recovery and prevents total disappointment.

That and the fact I have a lot of time consuming hobbies and children that would make it tricky.

or a perfect excuse for being out of the house.

My wife pointed out to me the other day that being in mountain rescue provides me with (potentially) the perfect cover for an affair. That was after I returned slightly sweaty at 2am having got a text message and left the house with little explanation 4 hours earlier!

Sadly, that would never work for me (even if I were inclined to have an affair) as I live in Cambridgeshire.

My wife pointed out to me the other day that being in mountain rescue provides me with (potentially) the perfect cover for an affair. That was after I returned slightly sweaty at 2am having got a text message and left the house with little explanation 4 hours earlier!

I assume you convincingly told her you'd never thought of that.

Maybe in the days before everything was on the web - nowadays a suspicious wife just needs to check the callout logs.

My wife pointed out to me the other day that being in mountain rescue provides me with (potentially) the perfect cover for an affair.

For a prearrange fee, I can take your Garmin with me for a ride and even bring back some terrain-appropriate mud to rub in your legs.

Then Strava can provide you with the perfect alibi...

Sadly, that would never work for me (even if I were inclined to have an affair) as I live in Cambridgeshire.

How wrong you are....

[url= http://www.camsar.org/ ]CamSAR[/url]

I knew a girl who's family imploded when her dad died suddenly. leaving another family missing their & husband dad too. He was a travelling salesman and had a family either end of the M4. He'd been doing it completley in secret for 20 years. 😯

So for 20 years two families assumed he was stuck in traffic on the M4

[a rare DrP with sensible hat on here..]

I find it helps if the 2 women are prepared to love each other a bit as well - helps with recovery and prevents total disappointment.

Here you're simply taling about a threesome. Sex. Mindless.Fun.

That can be enjoyed on a base level, but I think the OP wants more..fulfillmment, LOVE, and a return of love etc?

DrP

Reminds me of the time I was out and was approached by an older woman, in her late forties or so but incredibly well preserved. We had a couple of drinks when she invited me back to her place.

In the taxi home, she whispered "have you ever tried that mother and daughter thing?".

Well, my interest was well and truly piqued at that point, I was quite excited to see what fate had in store.

We arrived at her house, she opened the door, put her head round to the stairs and shouted "Are you still up, mum?".

Chuckle..

DrP

Two of my ex's were both a bit AC/DC & separately offered a bit of fun with a friend, still haven't worked out why I said no on both occasions

Is it because you didn't want your meat and two veg gently cupped by Colin from the warehouse or Dave from accounts,,,?

My mate Ronnie once had a threesome with his girlfriend and her twin.

I asked him how he was able to tell them apart when they were all rolling about on the bed.

He said it was easy,

Her brother has a moustache.

[quote=DrP ]That can be enjoyed on a base level, but I think the OP wants more..fulfillmment, LOVE, and a return of love etc?
DrP

As the OP hasn't been back since dropping this thread on the forum, it's hard to tell exactly what his intentions are/were.

Hhmm I would struggle with this ...... I feel guilty about frustrating and disappointing my wife at least once a week ... why would inflict on an extra one!!!

Thanks for all your interesting replies. Wife is great, runs house, kids and everything else.Love her dearly and all is well.My other Love, also great, expects nothing but odd day out and afew hours aweek of chit chat. Its not about sex. Both are fine women but as time goes on decisions become alot more difficult, im not selfish and wish i could split myself in two. Maybe Guilt surfacing, just putting it out there!

no kids my end to further complicate things. have never seriously contemplated having two on the go at once, but have often questioned the idea that we are designed to spend all our days with just one partner. and i've plenty of female friends that i could easily spend an hour or two a week/month sat with [s]mentally undressing them [/s] talking shite.

have a read.

http://singletrackworld.com/forum/topic/monogamy

just read through the thread. it woke some long lost feelings. also realised my writing creatvity has taken a hit over the years.

We are designed to spend time after the birth of children with the other parent because humans develop out of the mother. It allows us to have big brains which wouldnt possible if we where fully cooked on arrival.
So theres a need for partners to stick around until the children are developed.

The downside of two partners ( I imagine) is demands on time, money and emotion. None of which most of us have in surplus.

He was a travelling salesman and had a family either end of the M4. He'd been doing it completley in secret for 20 years