it’s hard sometimes, isn’t it.
i met up with an old colleague last night. we’ve always got on well and are on the same wavelength when it comes to our outlook on life.
she went on to say that she isn’t 100% certain about her current relationship and how she was “bored” by him.
one thing led to another and could have gone much further, but being responsible people it didn’t.
but it did make me realise how hard monogamy is.
and it’s not the first time it has happened to me. maybe i’m unlucky that i come into contact with girls that i get along with really well…
i’m really happy with my girl; we are best friends and i can see us growing old together. i’d hate to lose her.
we spent a great day together today. guilt, no, i don’t think so. maybe it made me appreciate even more so that we’ve got a good thing going.
but are we really cut out for the “life-partner” thing? our closet relative are apes and they sahg each other all the time.
or is it a case of if you can live with it (guilt, bad conscience, etc) and no-one finds out, i.e. not hurt by it, then it’s ok?
is it true that a little bit on the side can help a relationship?
i don’t think there isn’t anyone who can honestly say that they haven’t been at least tempted at some point during a relationship. i mean, we’re all apes humans afterall….