Two lesbians probably.
Two of my ex's were both a bit AC/DC & separately offered a bit of fun with a friend, still haven't worked out why I said no on both occasions 😯
When in god's name is someone going to invent a time machine
I thought these days we were all allowed our proper ride and a fatty.
I've a racing model and a folder...
I have 5 locked up in a shed, including a couple of younger bouncy ones and a couple of older models that are fun for old times sake.
N+1?
You have 3 bollocks?
No but I could've done with an extra one at the time just to help the other two out! 😆
Two of my ex's were both a bit AC/DC & separately offered a bit of fun with a friend, still haven't worked out why I said no on both occasions
What sort of sick pervert says no, twice.
You are all sorts of wrong.
Two of my ex's were both a bit AC/DC & separately offered a bit of fun with a friend, still haven't worked out why I said no on both occasions
Angus Young and Brian Johnson?
My current lady was wooed by a fella online a few years back - turned out he had a wife and family he kept secret from her... she's not stupid either! Honest!
I haven't probed for further details as it's a bit of a sore subject.
Sounds like bloody hard work on his part though.
I wouldn't rule it out, but I think my wife would leave me if I fell for another woman so it'd be a very temporary situation as I'm a very transparent man!
That and the fact I have a lot of time consuming hobbies and children that would make it tricky.
Sloppy seconds 🙂
I think someone already said, it depends on what your definition of love is. Combine this with, is this a logistical or moral question? Some peoples view of love is shallower than others. Does your love depend of reciprocity? If it is a one sided love based on your own needs, then I can't see it being a problem at all. Otherwise, I would ask the women involved. I am guessing they exist as self defined people?
johndoh -
Sloppy seconds
I think you want the "Is it possible to love 2 men... " thread
Floppy seconds 😉
I find it helps if the 2 women are prepared to love each other a bit as well - helps with recovery and prevents total disappointment.
That and the fact I have a lot of time consuming hobbies and children that would make it tricky.
or a perfect excuse for being out of the house.
My wife pointed out to me the other day that being in mountain rescue provides me with (potentially) the perfect cover for an affair. That was after I returned slightly sweaty at 2am having got a text message and left the house with little explanation 4 hours earlier!
Sadly, that would never work for me (even if I were inclined to have an affair) as I live in Cambridgeshire.
My wife pointed out to me the other day that being in mountain rescue provides me with (potentially) the perfect cover for an affair. That was after I returned slightly sweaty at 2am having got a text message and left the house with little explanation 4 hours earlier!
I assume you convincingly told her you'd never thought of that.
Maybe in the days before everything was on the web - nowadays a suspicious wife just needs to check the callout logs.
My wife pointed out to me the other day that being in mountain rescue provides me with (potentially) the perfect cover for an affair.
For a prearrange fee, I can take your Garmin with me for a ride and even bring back some terrain-appropriate mud to rub in your legs.
Then Strava can provide you with the perfect alibi...
Sadly, that would never work for me (even if I were inclined to have an affair) as I live in Cambridgeshire.
How wrong you are....
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I knew a girl who's family imploded when her dad died suddenly. leaving another family missing their & husband dad too. He was a travelling salesman and had a family either end of the M4. He'd been doing it completley in secret for 20 years. 😯
So for 20 years two families assumed he was stuck in traffic on the M4
[a rare DrP with sensible hat on here..]
I find it helps if the 2 women are prepared to love each other a bit as well - helps with recovery and prevents total disappointment.
Here you're simply taling about a threesome. Sex. Mindless.Fun.
That can be enjoyed on a base level, but I think the OP wants more..fulfillmment, LOVE, and a return of love etc?
DrP
Reminds me of the time I was out and was approached by an older woman, in her late forties or so but incredibly well preserved. We had a couple of drinks when she invited me back to her place.
In the taxi home, she whispered "have you ever tried that mother and daughter thing?".
Well, my interest was well and truly piqued at that point, I was quite excited to see what fate had in store.
We arrived at her house, she opened the door, put her head round to the stairs and shouted "Are you still up, mum?".
Chuckle..
DrP
Two of my ex's were both a bit AC/DC & separately offered a bit of fun with a friend, still haven't worked out why I said no on both occasions
Is it because you didn't want your meat and two veg gently cupped by Colin from the warehouse or Dave from accounts,,,?
My mate Ronnie once had a threesome with his girlfriend and her twin.
I asked him how he was able to tell them apart when they were all rolling about on the bed.
He said it was easy,
Her brother has a moustache.
[quote=DrP ]That can be enjoyed on a base level, but I think the OP wants more..fulfillmment, LOVE, and a return of love etc?
DrP
As the OP hasn't been back since dropping this thread on the forum, it's hard to tell exactly what his intentions are/were.
Hhmm I would struggle with this ...... I feel guilty about frustrating and disappointing my wife at least once a week ... why would inflict on an extra one!!!
Thanks for all your interesting replies. Wife is great, runs house, kids and everything else.Love her dearly and all is well.My other Love, also great, expects nothing but odd day out and afew hours aweek of chit chat. Its not about sex. Both are fine women but as time goes on decisions become alot more difficult, im not selfish and wish i could split myself in two. Maybe Guilt surfacing, just putting it out there!
no kids my end to further complicate things. have never seriously contemplated having two on the go at once, but have often questioned the idea that we are designed to spend all our days with just one partner. and i've plenty of female friends that i could easily spend an hour or two a week/month sat with [s]mentally undressing them [/s] talking shite.
have a read.
http://singletrackworld.com/forum/topic/monogamy
just read through the thread. it woke some long lost feelings. also realised my writing creatvity has taken a hit over the years.
We are designed to spend time after the birth of children with the other parent because humans develop out of the mother. It allows us to have big brains which wouldnt possible if we where fully cooked on arrival.
So theres a need for partners to stick around until the children are developed.
The downside of two partners ( I imagine) is demands on time, money and emotion. None of which most of us have in surplus.
He was a travelling salesman and had a family either end of the M4. He'd been doing it completley in secret for 20 years
On reading that my first thought isn't "how?" but for friths sake "why"?
lol @ perchy!
He was a travelling salesman and had a family either end of the M4. He'd been doing it completley in secret for 20 yearsOn reading that my first thought isn't "how?" but for friths sake "why"?
He was never having to spend nights away from home !
We are designed
Nope 8)
I thought these days we were all allowed our proper ride and a fatty.
I've got one for the mucky stuff and one for the road. Almost forgot, there's one in the shed I do the shopping with.
Ok we have developed..
OP, if it's not about sex, then may I venture to suggest that you have a mate who you very much love the company of who just so happens to be female. No reason why that is not compatible with marriage if you have a reasonably not jealous (...) wife.
Good luck!
Never been able to do it myself, lousy at keeping secrets.
For sure there are lots of people we [i]could[/i] get on with really well and be close to, but unless you are in an open relationship, or there are some big mitigating factors (eg sexually incompatable with wife/primary partner but in happy companionate marriage which you wish to preserve) I think it is best avoided.
I am not sure you should have such an intense secondary relationship without the go ahead of your primary partner. How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot? Or your wife on someone else?
And emotional infidelity might be as important to your wife as sexual infidelity, so "not being about sex" might not make her any happier.
Actually I'm not sure if the OP means "love".


