[Closed] does anyone else on here despise christmas?

Yup, AND I'm having to spend it at the mother in laws 🙁

It's cool to hate.
And it's even cooler to have a hate thread on STW, even though they're quite common these days.

I like the songs. You're a miserable bunch on this forum ffs.

Maybe you need to change what you do at Christmas.

I quite like the sense of optimism in the air leading up to it, but then it's shit, yes.

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I never understand the hatred of christmas, it is at least at the very basic level some time off work, and unless you absolutely love your job more than freetime what is there to hate?

I find it rather easy to ignore all the worst of the crass commercialism and just take what I want from it, a bit of time off and a chance to unwind in the middle of winter between the holidays I really love when the weather is better.

I never understand the hatred of christmas, it is at least at the very basic level some time of work, and unless you absolutely love your job more than feetime what is there to hate?

I find it rather easy to ignore all the worst of the crass commercialism and just take what I want from it, a bit of time off and a chance to unwind in the middle of winter between the holidays I really love when the weather is better.

Agreed.
Merry Christmas

does anyone else on here despise christmas?

Nope. I like it coz I get to spend me money like buying stuff, eat, sleep and eat more, watch telly etc ...

I never understand the hatred of christmas, it is at least at the very basic level some time of work, and unless you absolutely love your job more than feetime what is there to hate?

Shhh! The OP wants some attention. Let's just give it to them....after all, it is Christmas.

Not even any good films on...

Nope, I'm accused of it all the time, I had a few very few tough ones as a kid and I hated it as a single adult, few found memories but as a Dad I love it.

Not in November though, nor Oct and certainly not in Sept - not after the 27th either. There's so much pressure to make it 'perfect' when I always prefer chaos.

I'd like everyone to take a gigantic chill pill over it - tell the retailers to piss off and take it down a notch or 15.

Yes, we have no money but I'm not allowed to say that because it's Christmas. Instead I have to smile and continue to rack up debt.

I hate Christmas, I hate the songs, I hate the commercialism. I particularly hate the way brands like Coke try to hijack the whole thing.

But I love presents and booze so I'm gonna shut my mouth.

I'm working a 25 hour shift, in a children's home full of children who have to spend the day having their noses rubbed in it that their families either can't or won't spend time with them. It never ends well.

To me, it's just another day. Celebrate if you like, I don't care, I just wish everyone would stop giving me shit because I neither like nor wish to celebrate Christmas.

So no, I don't despise Christmas, but I do resent being constantly brow beaten for not wanting to take part in it.

I dont despise it but I've got good reason not to feel particularly jolly at this time of year and don't feel that faking merriment for appearance sake would be a good idea.

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Oh look, another attention seeker!

Irony overload!

As for Xmas, I enjoyed listening to do they know it's Xmas in Sainsbury's this morning as people were stuffing their trollies with Xmas excess. Thank god it's them instead of you - quite. Of course, I was doing the same, it's Xmas isn't it?

dont hate it hate it, but i do dislike it. id prefer not to have it and just crack on with normal life, but theres too many family members that love it for me to just 'not do christmas'.

I can kind of understand the pressure that parents feel to "create" something special for their kids at Christmas, but really I can barely remember anything specific about any christmas from my childhood, they were all much of a muchness, my parents couldn't afford the best toys I wanted, and now that couldn't matter any less. But they were off work, I got a bit of attention and we ate together and laughed and played, FFs just enjoy it you miserable ****!

it is at least at the very basic level some time off work, and unless you absolutely love your job more than freetime what is there to hate?

Now that we're leaving Europe maybe we can go our own way on this.

#Brexmas

To me, it's just another day. Celebrate if you like, I don't care, I just wish everyone would stop giving me shit because I neither like nor wish to celebrate Christmas.

Surely that is all the more reason for it not to be like any other day.

I enjoy the festivities despite being a massive hypocrite because I'm atheist 🙂 I have 3yo and 6yo kids which makes it ace.

But yes, secret Santa, elf on the shelf, wrapping paper in the supermarket in September can all sod off. Buying stuff for kids of xyz that are no relation is also something that I'd rather we all didn't do but that's just me

I enjoy Christmas Eve and Christmas Day but get fed up with Christmas songs and adverts playing constantly for 5 weeks. i also get pissed off listening to people at work morning about having to work over Christmas. The same people moan every year despite the fact they can book it off but never do

I think I'm christmas dyslexic.I know it's there but it really doesn't register with me in any form.

Crassmass is for christians and their sheep.

I love it - December would be crap without it!

I dislike it on many levels

Op.
I think you may be doing it wrong.
Time off work to relax, ride your bike, drink beer and generally enjoy yourself. How can you not like that.

Quite like new year's though. The only day of the year it's socially acceptable to be as drunk as I like to get on a regular basis.

Depends how much pressure is put on you to conform by kids, family, work, society or yourself. Rabid atheist but I pick and choose what bits I do and opt out of the rest. A winter break in which family and friends are mostly free to see a bit of and a few traditions to add a splash of color to an otherwise grey time of year. Works for me.

I have a friend whose partner died this year and his step daughter who he was devoted to has been whisked away to live with the with natural father's family many miles away and he has no visitation rights. His mother also died and he never knew his own father. He struggled to cope and lost his job. This was not the Christmas he was hoping for. Now he has the right to hate Christmas this year. Now man up OP and make the most of it!

Time off work to relax, ride your bike, drink beer and generally enjoy yourself. How can you not like that.

I think that's called a normal day.. FA to do with baby cheesearse or Crassmass

I don't really hate it, but it's a bit of a pain in the arse. I think it happens too often, maybe every other year would be better, then it would feel more exciting! Got a child of my own though now so I'll start thinking differently once she knows what's going on!

I think that's called a normal day..

Aside from genuine tragedy, my experience of people who hate Christmas is just that they are tight-fisted, and like to add other reasons on to hide the main reason.

I think its what you make it, nobody makes you buy stuff you don't need and you don't have to eat and drink too much. You also don't have to listen to the music or watch Christmas movies.

Enjoy the time off work and do what makes you happy.

Merry Christmas

I'd enjoy the time off if I had any.

Sorry hooli and angeldust, but people do make you buy stuff you don't need. It's the basis of a whole industry called advertising. If you don't believe me, check out the non Christmas related pushback from the drinks industry on a sugar tax.

I haven't even bought any gifts this year, the wife and daughters faces in the morning, priceless.

No loving it this year. Fantastic school Christmas show on Wednesday followed by a torch light walk to a secret Christmas tree in Macc forest. A great afternoon in my local with kids watching Arthur Christmas yesgerday. Today Up to Buxton to see Santa in Poole's Cavern (cost less than standard entry) and then a kids Carol concert in the main church in town. Polar express after tea and then Die Hard when the kids have gone to bed.

Two weeks off work including a week in the north Yorkshire moors after New Year whats not love.

I don't despise it as such, but because we don't have kids it doesn't really mean anything to us so we choose to let it pass us by and because we're grown-ups if we want something 'big' we'll just buy it if we can afford it rather than 'ask'* for it for christmas. Charities (and people in general, unless you're a massive arsehole) get my best side regardless of the time of year as well. Don't be tw*t is for life, not just for christmas.

What I do hate is the pressure it puts on people (like my mam when we were younger and my sister now) to produce the 'perfect' day, which can never happen. The commercialism and other shite can FRO and FRO some more when it gets there.

* FFS 🙄

edit- oh, and we're not religious in the slightest either. I did choose to mark the winter solstice this year with a nice burger and chips though.

We have a set budget for presents/food etc and don't go above it, so we don't rack up debt! I am not fussed about the day but with two young children I love to see their excitement and getting to create our own family traditions!

Nothing of the sort angeldust
I hate everything about it, what it stands for, what it's become, the expectations and pressures it generates

Tight fisted ?
No
However will I spend money for no other reason than it's expected of me?
Will I f*ck

Xmas and everything surrounding it can pull its bottom lip over the top of its head and swallow

The advertising industry may put pressure on you but they don't force you. Unless somebody pops round with a gun and holds it to your head.

I have done more than one Christmas where the gf and I decided to not buy each other gifts, we also didn't have a big fancy meal but had a long walk in the countryside followed by a curry.

Buy shit you don't need with money you don't have to impress people you don't know- yaaaaaaay.... christmas!

I love my wife. We have a fabulous relationship. But I could happily divorce her every November and get married again in January.

It's not that I hate Xmas but there's a limit to how much excess I can put up with. Too much food. Too many presents. New decorations every year (but we'll never need any the following year). And on it goes. Having said that, she's working 24-27th this year so I'm trying to do what I can to make it special around her shifts

I should also add that nobody ever admits to their tight-fistedness being the reason they hate Christmas.

Happy Christmas everyone!

Not even any good films on...

Muppet Xmas Carol on channel 4 right now! 🙂

Buy shit you don't need with money you don't have to impress people you don't know- yaaaaaaay.... christmas!

😆 If that's your thing, potter on. Not my thing though, so aaaaaaaah'm oot.

Consumermas!
Much despising from me.
And a happy new year.

The new forum shortens the title a little unfortunately on my phone.

Hate the early build up and play up to the scrooge role with the kids, but... with three kids getting giddy as we speak, first bottle of black sheep on its way down, just knowing the kids are going to be so excited in the morning and will love their presents makes me one happy person come Christmas day.

Even making a special effort with the Mother-in-Law this year - wife lost her dad in October so extra effort to make new traditions with the smaller family. Looking forward to a few beers with my old man tomorrow whilst doing dinner.

Merry Christmas all! Hope everyone has a good one!

S

If that's your thing, potter on

You can take time off work whenever you want- what's your point, caller?

You can take time off work whenever you want

well if they'd rather die then let them, and decrease the surplus population.

Yup- hated it for a few years, & feeling very lonely this year.

its a randommly chosen day of the year,...... , the inevitably rubbish weather..

I'm not religious so personally don't bother with it but feel I have to go along with it all.
I hate all the commercialisation, annoying adverts that even I struggle to avoid. The amount of presents seem ridiculous especially as people know what they are getting. Not even all that keen on traditional Xmas food. Rode past the local curry house tonight wishing for that. 🙂
I do enjoy seeing family and friends more and the excuse for more bike riding/walks though.

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I do rather enjoy it. I get some time off, spend it with friends and family, do my own thing.

I'm not into the over commercialisation of it and I don't like it rammed down down my throat from November, but I ignore all that and like I say, I quite enjoy it.

I'll say it again, not all of us get time off.

I had a few very few tough ones as a kid and I hated it as a single adult, few found memories but as a Dad I love it.

This...
I dislike it when I have to venture into town shopping and I dislike the constant ads for boxing day sales as if shopping was some sort of hobby but getting to see my son open his presents and spending time with the family ( not the inlaws though) is great

This will be the 4th/5th Christmas as a single feller, I find it pretty grim tbh, I never look forward to it.

All my mates are doing the kids thing or with their families so I'm pretty much left to myself for the day, I'll catch a few of them on Boxing day and see them for a ride during next week.

I'll get up, have a bacon sandwich, go for a long ride, get back and drink a nice bottle of red I picked up in France while watching the tour in the Summer, sit around and think about some of the cool stuff I did through the year, listen to some records I've not got around to yet, phone my mum and step dad, see how there getting on.

It goes by but get's a bit grim and lonely if you stop and think to much, always feels like I'm under a microscope or something, and a bit of a wasted opportunity, I miss someone being around to spoil a bit, but that's how it is for now...

It's the forced fun I don't like.

I don't hate Christmas - there's some parts of it I quite like. But it goes on too long and I really don't like all the excess, the social pressure to have excess, and the expectation that you'll be incapable of doing anything after dinner as you've eaten too much. "nobody diets at Christmas" - well given for a change I'm in the right mental state I don't see why I can't go out and work up a sweat on Christmas day, and then not overeat.

What I dislike most is things stopping for the holidays - I quite like just having a normal week where I get out of the house and do fun activities with other people a few times, but it's all stopped next week and instead I have to make polite conversation whilst sitting in the house not doing anything.

Love hate here. Not that bothered by it but with a 4 year old the sheer excitement is infectious ! Don't go nuts on presents, loads of little things probably 40 quids worth. She likes the boxes !
Nice dinner but nothing crazy.
I lived overseas for 16 years and it was the only time I really missed family, we will see them all tomorrow and share a glass of bubbles but it's what you make it. Had a few lonely ones as well, anyone alone in edinburgh feel free to pm me and come round, I have beer !

yep............it comes round too often. perhaps I would enjoy it if it were like the Olympics... .every 4 years !

No kids of our own so it has usually been a drive to visit the aged parents, but this year the last one passed away.......hopefully get some sort of ride or walk in then settle down for a dirty great Lasagne and garlic bread followed by some guitar practice.

Family, good food, excuse to drink too much and a hilarious 14 month old niece who already has a sense of humour and likes to join in with the toast and say "cheers". Spent most of our money on nice food and booze for everyone to enjoy, instead of presents - because it's about the experience not presents isn't it?

So it's good fun this year, the only good thing about winter, things will be a little bit meh again up until April or May.

I'll get up, have a bacon sandwich, go for a long ride, get back and drink a nice bottle of red I picked up in France while watching the tour in the Summer, sit around and think about some of the cool stuff I did through the year, listen to some records I've not got around to yet, phone my mum and step dad, see how there getting on.

It goes by but get's a bit grim and lonely if you stop and think to much, always feels like I'm under a microscope or something, and a bit of a wasted opportunity, I miss someone being around to spoil a bit, but that's how it is for now...

Sorry to here that, any way to get to your mums at the last minute and perhaps surprise her?

I only despise Xmas when I end up working it, or some of it. This is the 1st time in 13 years of prison service that I've been of for Xmas AND NY.

So I'm loving it. 😆

I was enjoying the carols from kings then they started the god awful ****ing reading from genesis about adam and eve being cast from the garden of eden so i turned it off.

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Well I love Christmas, atheist but so what it's a festival, I've been skint so I've only spent what I had, I've had to work Christmas day, great shift. My father died a couple of days before Christmas a few years ago, but I still celebrated because he loved Christmas and that's what he would have wanted. In fact I'm looking at a bottle of his favourite whisky right now so I think I'll pour a treble and raise a toast to him 😀

Merry Christmas everyone 😀

Thanks Tom, it's a 5 hour drive, I do think about popping back some years but usually I'll be OK on the day, I always give them a long skype call in the afternoon and spend the time I'd be sat in the car each way with my mates on the bike.

I'll get up, have a bacon sandwich, go for a long ride, get back and drink a nice bottle of red

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Fantastic time of year. So much fun.

Must be shit to be a try hard misanthrope...

Some aspects of it irritate me, mostly the commercial.

Folk treating the various TV adverts like they are some form of culture FFS.

But I get to see family and buying presents is fun. I think I'd struggle on my own.