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Who is buying all these £3-5k bikes?

not me that's for sure
mine started out as a £500 Trigger's broom 6 or 7 years ago and has morphed over the years into a road sweeper 🙂

never had the funds for more than a few hundred at a time


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:02 pm
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tj "Its still irrelevant - £42000 earnings put you in the richest 10% of the population therefore very well off"

no it doesn't put you in the richest 10% - i earn close to that but am nowhere near the richest 10% in the country.

I live in a 3 bed semi in cannock, married, Mrs Gixer due a nipper in June, mortgage, credit card, loans to pay off. I am not poor, but i have worked damned hard to get where i am today - used to work on concrete gangs, construction labouring, kitchen porter, farm labourer etc.
I pay a lot in tax and national insurance every month, with very little benefits coming back to us. Pay for dental, prescriptions etc, Occassional long weekend away with Mrs.
Neighbours across the road and to our left went on 4 overseas holidays last year, drink every night, taxis to the pub and back every Friday and Saturday, smoke like effin chimneys - do they work - do the bollocks - makes me wonder why i don't get a wee tax break every now and again - maybe like when Gixer Jnr is born....... but oh no i'm effin rich according to some eejits.


 
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I like the idea of a univeral benefit regardless of income - a state recognition if you will for bringing up the next generation who will look after TJ in his old age. 😉


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:15 pm
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When you look to claim statutory redundancy you have to declare savings, friend end
ed up getting nowt as he had money stashed. They means test some benfits and not others. Needs standardisation to make it fair for all. If that costs money to implement, hey we have plenty of unemployed who need jobs, I,d rather they did that than claim the dole.

And i,ll say it again good income does not mean you are wealthy. I have a colleague who's house was paid for outright by inheritance, they have £1k per month less outgoings than me, live in a bigger house and have nice cars. I earn slightly more, they qualify for benefits, we don't. Yes it is tough sh!t but it sucks.

Off to polish my Rolex in my merc and get jeeves to bring me some cavier


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:18 pm
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It would seem £42000 is a good wage as long as you make "lifestyle" choices commensurate with your location.

Some on the forum bemoan the jobless having extra children and expecting the state to pick up the tab, this argument is just at the other end of the earning scale.

Gixer.John illustrates this perfectly (I make no judgement on his choices they are his and do not affect my lifestyle).


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:18 pm
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i earn close to that but am nowhere near the richest 10% in the country.

You don't really understand how this works, do you? 😛


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:20 pm
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TJ your argument falls down though because you're only considering a single income position. Of course its hard raising a family on 25k but a lot easier on 2 x25k especially if you work opposing shifts so save on childcare. Even if you don't 2 x 25k means two sets of childcare vouchers and a more tax efficient overall income. So who's better off financially the sole earner 40% payer or the split income. Of course if you have a higher rate earner and a second earner the balance can change again. In short its not black and white.


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:28 pm
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My point simply stands.

If you pay higher rate tax you are amongst the highest earning 10% in the country and thus are well off in comparison to the 90% who earn less than you.

simple facts.

Some of you need a reality check so badly


 
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Aarrgh!


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:48 pm
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If you pay higher rate tax you are amongst the highest earning 10% in the country and thus are well off in comparison to the 90% who earn less than you.

simple facts.

Except several people have pointed out that this "simple fact" IS NOT TRUE!

And you're completely ignoring my (and several others) point that a household with two incomes of £25k (below the national average) is [u]several grand better off[/u] than a household with one 50k earner - yet somehow they are not in your theoretical top 10% and are still entitled to child benefit.

That is [i]reality[/i].


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:51 pm
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Aren't those figures TJ is listing for employees? Do they include sole traders, businessmen, investments etc?

I bet there is a big difference between being in the top 10% wage earners and the top 10% for annual income.


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:54 pm
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🙄

How can you be in the top 10% of earners and not be well off - its ridiculous to suggest otherwise


 
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If a household has a single earner, earning [i]just[/i] enough to sneak into the 40% tax bracket, what % does that put them at if we look at household income?


 
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It must be the reverse of the Chinese Water Torture!!! But at least TJ is now moving the argument [b]to relatively better off[/b] ("in comparison with") rather than the[b] absolute protestations[/b] of earlier.

{damn, x-post, I take it back! Its absolute again - aaarrrggh!]


 
Posted : 06/03/2012 11:57 pm
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You mean all these protestations that you are living in poverty with an income over £42000 a year yes they are absurd aren't they

some of you guys just live in a parallel universe It really is laughable how out of touch with reality you are.

completely ridiculous


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 12:02 am
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Give up. Either dumb or trolling now. I,m out.


 
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How can you be in the top 10% of earners and not be well off

A Higher Rate taxpayer IS NOT IN THE TOP 10% of earners. We established that some time ago. With tables and everything. You need to be clearing ~£40k [u]AFTER TAX[/u] to be in the top 10%.

Furthermore, as repeated many times, what matters is Household Income (and outgoings), NOT individual earnings.


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 12:04 am
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Just laughing at all the folk who think £42000 a year is not well off.

Hello - this is reality calling


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 12:05 am
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If a household has a single earner, earning just enough to sneak into the 40% tax bracket, what % does that put them at if we look at household income?

Yeah I'd like to know this too.

I wouldn't be surprised if something like the top 40% or so of Household Incomes are houses with two or more incomes coming in, since that is considerably more tax efficient.


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 12:07 am
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Just laughing at all the folk who think £42000 a year is not well off.

Forget it. You're clearly not in the mood for a coherent argument based on actual numbers, rather than misdirected political propaganda.

G'night.


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 12:11 am
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Tj i think you need to separate the idea of anything more than poverty being well off.

You can play with the words but there is, i would suggest, a scale of wealthiness in my words

destitute - poverty - poor - coping - comfy - doing ok - well off - wealthy - stinking rich

With housing costs, rising food and fuel costs, childcare costs i think you'd be surprised how many really fall into the coping bracket at the lower end of the 40% bracket especially in London and the South. Since I also work with those with financial problems I see first hand just how tight things can be for people.


 
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You need significant assets as well as income to be well off but that's obvious right TJ?


 
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If you are only "coping" on £42000+ pa you really need to have a darn good look at your outgoings.

I am sorry - It is completely ridiculous to believe that people earning so much more than the average and amongst wealthiest earners in our country are not well off.

Graham - its nothing to do with misdirected political propaganda - its all about actually having some understanding of the reality of the situation. Some of you really have no idea of reality at all on this


 
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Posted : 07/03/2012 12:23 am
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What is the minimum lifestyle should one lead to be considered well off?

Live in a 3 bed semi?
Drive a medium size car less than 3 years old?
Eat once a week at a slow food restaurant?
Holiday in a nearby European location?
Buy new clothes for their family?
Eat properly cooked meals?

How much income needed for that?


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 12:26 am
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Sometimes I wish there were webcams on STW just to see people's face when the they read and write things!


 
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If you are only "coping" on £42000+ pa you really need to have a darn good look at your outgoings.

Well your man up there ^ seems to me to have the 'same' if not lesser lifestyle than his neighbours (which I assume live in the same area being neighbours) who do not work and claim benefits.

Therefore something is wrong.

Ultimately irrespective of what is classed as the 'top 10%' the simple fact is the 'normal' people in 'normal' jobs earning 'normal' money struggle the same as people who do not earn. Maybe they value the earned money more. Insinuating that you should live in a bin to have a better lifestyle on your 42K is insulting.


 
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NZ col - that was utter bulshine tho - it simply is impossible to afford 4 foreign holidays a year living on benefits without massive embezzlement.

Insuniation that £42 000 pa is barely enough to live on is grossly offensive to the vast majority of folk who live on far far less


 
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Insuniation that £42 000 pa is barely enough to live on is grossly offensive to the vast majority of folk who live on far far less

I'm loving the fact that above 42k is well off and anything below is poverty, my current income is somewhat less than 42k and I'm not in the least offended.
Keep up the good work TJ, this is hilarious.
You are aware, of course, TJ that a salary of 42k is likely come with a different set of costs that your average poverty stricken employee. No turning up to work on your bicycle and Oxfam clothes, having a Pot Noodle for lunch. 🙄


 
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NZ col - that was utter bulshine tho - it simply is impossible to afford 4 foreign holidays a year living on benefits without massive embezzlement.

Insuniation that £42 000 pa is barely enough to live on is grossly offensive to the vast majority of folk who live on far far less

But that is what they are doing so either he is a liar or they are.
I take my hat off to everybody that gets out their bed and does an honest days wor, raises a family and contributes to the fabric of society. to the dossing bastards that don't or won't I own you with bombers. And in the former category i also include all those that would LIKE to but due to market conditions can't.


 
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I'm with TJ, some of you need a serious reality check. You have no idea how financially hard life can be for some people. You might not have a lot of disposable income but that is not the same as having no money. If I earned anywhere near £40k a year it would be like winning the lottery.


 
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Stupidly checked back in while having a poo (webcams would be a bad idea!) so I'll leave you with this FACT from the very [url= http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Income_in_the_United_Kingdom ]Wiki article that you linked to earlier[/url] TJ:

[b]"[In 2011] average net household income (after tax) stood at £38,547"[/b]

So your supposedly "well off" "top 10%" "amongst wealthiest earners in our country" individual on £42k, actually has an after-tax household income that is well below the national average.

Reality enough for you?


 
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you are comparing individuals to a households do I really need to point out why that is a poor measure.
what % of those households have a higher rate tax payer?

Those on the higher rate are still individually the top 10% irrespective of what others in their household earn


 
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+1 GrahamS again!

Child benefit is as the name so clearly states for the benefit of the child and is one of the cornerstones of the welfare state. Children are part of households and so it is self evident (but clearly not to some -TJ!)that the total household income is of greater relevance than the personal income of one individual within that household. And £42k gross,£36k net amongst a household of 5 is far less FOR THE CHILDREN than a couple both earning £40k each with one child.But who will still get the CHB?


 
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nick - irrelevant - both housholds have plenty of money

Graham - dunno where you pulled that from Edit spotted it - also has median at £26 000 which is rather more realistic as the higher figure is distorted by the really very very rich

Annual Net Household income Percentile point
£5,000 3%
£10,000 10%
£15,000 31%
£20,000 50%
£25,000 66%
£30,000 77%
£35,000 85%
£40,000 90%
£45,000 93%
£50,000 95%
£60,000 97%
£75,000 99%


 
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i work in a number of homes where the families are benifit dependent and some do have multiple overseas holidays I recently had to wait 3 months for acess to one council home as the tenant was in australia. another of the homes we work in has a mid fifties guy on benifits and he has a holiday home in bulgaria. many many tenants have static caravans at or near the coast.
child benefit is not needed by many recipients nor is the winter fuel allowance. does my aunt need it for logs in her colarado cabin or to keep the pool warm in majorca or for her centrally heating her modest 6 bed home in Harrogate

and tonite i watch newsnight and see some tory toady bleating on behalf of widows in homes valued 2.5m who cant afford to eat.. its Brazil for me Ronnie Biggs was nt wrong 50 years ago.


 
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also has median at £26 000 which is rather more realistic as the higher figure is distorted by the really very very rich

Okay. So our [url= http://www.incometaxcalculator.org.uk/index.php?yr=2012&age=0&time=1&ingr=42000&calculate=Calculate ]42k income is taking home 31k after tax. [/url]

So they have £416 per month more than the median.
(not really my idea of super wealthy).

Throw in a few hefty outgoings (children, nursery fees, mortgage, car, professional expenses) and you can see how they might not have much disposable left each month, despite their apparently outrageous income.

Annual Net Household income Percentile point...

Got anything more recent? Those figures are from six years ago, pre-recession and don't reflect the median you are talking about.


 
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Assuming that money does not buy happiness ( indeed true wealth is having the things that money can't buy), and that it is perfectly possible to have a fulfilled and comfortable lifestyle according to TJ on salaries below the threshold under discussion, why all the angst about it? It should be irrelevant if people think the opposite, as they obviously don't get it.


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 8:43 am
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Twohundred!


 
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Get you and your two hundred in your Edinburgh splendour. 😉


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 10:17 am
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Interesting snippet from PMQs today is that Cameron claimed Disability Living Allowance. He's a multimillionaire. He also thinks people earning more than £40k shouldn't get child benefit.


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 2:18 pm
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Was he not entitled to it?

Strikes me as the same issue as that thread recently on Ken Livingston's tax arrangements.


 
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Yes he could have claimed it but did he need it? Did he ****

Just like those on higher rate tax 😀


 
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[i]Cameron claimed Disability Living Allowance[/i]

Maybe he had to claim it, otherwise his child wouldn't be eligible (and not just in a cash way) for other things - don't know, but could imagine?


 
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br - bogus argument - Cameron is so rich that he does not need stte entitlement to anything.

He does make the folk "struggling on £42000" look poor


 
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Throw in a few hefty outgoings (children, nursery fees, mortgage, car, professional expenses) and you can see how they might not have much disposable left each month, despite their apparently outrageous income.

Why should the outgoings be 'hefty' just because they earn more? Should budget better!


 
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Maybe he had to claim it, otherwise his child wouldn't be eligible (and not just in a cash way) for other things - don't know, but could imagine?

Don't know the ins and outs of this, but I could certainly imagine that Disability Living Allowance [i]might[/i] be a gateway to things like special schooling, physiotherapy, mobility aids etc


 
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Why should the outgoings be 'hefty' just because they earn more? Should budget better!

Because the earning opportunities are limited and the employee has to either live in a high demand area or commute and good suits aren't cheap. Factories are put in the ar5e end of nowhere for a reason.


 
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Interesting snippet from PMQs today is that Cameron claimed Disability Living Allowance. He's a multimillionaire. He also thinks people earning more than £40k shouldn't get child benefit.

and yet hes fine with proposed cuts to DLA in the welfare reform bill

wow! just when i didnt think i could like the man any less.......


 
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Why should the outgoings be 'hefty' just because they earn more? Should budget better!

Because the earning opportunities are limited and the employee has to either live in a high demand area or commute and good suits aren't cheap. Factories are put in the ar5e end of nowhere for a reason.

Rubbish. My bro commutes to London Bridge and is a lowly intern. He has to budget around this.


 
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Rubbish.

Fair enough, you win. I bet the dinner parties around his place are just AWESOME too.


 
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Why should the outgoings be 'hefty' just because they earn more? Should budget better!

Well... someone in a 42k job may well have to fork out for things like membership of professional bodies, training and industry exams for instance.

They may need to spend more on suits etc as they could be meeting important clients. They may need a decent car for the same reason.

But importantly I'm [u]not[/u] saying that EVERYONE on 42k has these expenses or that they all struggle financially. I'm just saying that I can quite easily imagine how someone on that amount [i]might[/i] still struggle.

e.g. let's say Mrs 42k brings home £2,587 a month, but she needs to pay out say £1400 to send her 3 kids to nursery, £800 on her (pretty modest) mortgage, £100 on car/fuel, £100 on food, £100 on household bills...

Try telling her she is one of the wealthiest people in the country!

Removing benefits from a household based on an individual income and tax bracket, while other households with far greater incomes will still receive them, is grossly unfair, no matter how "laughable" TJ finds it.


 
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well i certainly dont earn 42K

i do know that our nursery fees are over a grand a month and we only have kimbers jr in for 4 days a week

if we have a 2nd kid its no longer worth us both working, how does that help the economy?

ah the joys of london, infact brentford which is some way out - I commute by bike 20 miles a day fwiw


 
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£1400pcm for nursery - thats precisely the sort of thing that shows the complete fallacy of your argument. thats more than many people earn

I agree with you to some extent about the benefits. However its been done that way as it cheap and simple to do.


 
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115GBP per child per week doesn't seem too bad after we've taken into consideration the cost of rent, utilities, insurances, professional qualification and union fees to prevent underpaying. 😀


 
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A couple of us in my office will loose out on CB.

Yes, as a family, we can afford to loose the benefit, but it wil have an impact. Colleague has 3 kids and will take a bigger hit.

Both of us would be better off by dropping our hours to 4 days per week (1), reducing our tax liability (2), and retaining the child benefit for the family (3).

1. In a time of recesssion, where is the sense in people choosing to be less economically productive - utter idiocy, but that is what the "system" provides as the most cost-effective solution... 😯 but hey, let's grow the economy FFS

2. Yep, could easily drop below the threshold by reducing hours and / or by increasing pension payments. BUT, how would this benefit anyone (except my family). The state gets less tax contribution, even though they have precipitated the action (and I'm sure many will be contemplating this)

3. So we retain our CB - increased burden on the state

Don't know about a Labour tax double whammy - reads like a Tory tax tripple whammy


 
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but I could certainly imagine that Disability Living Allowance might be a gateway to things like special schooling, physiotherapy, mobility aids etc

Nope it is ONLY a gateway to allow the parents to claim carers allowance though ....that would be an intersting question dio they claim that too?

The other things are irrelevant as you get them anyway based on Dr reports. I have just checked with Benefits agency contacts I have


 
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£1400pcm for nursery - thats precisely the sort of thing that shows the complete fallacy of your argument.

Says the childless man. 🙄

Now who needs a reality check? Nursery care is very expensive.
Our nursery, for 1 child, 3 days a week, is £540 a month.

If you've got three kids to pay for then even the cheapest nursery is going to be a significant part of your monthly outlay.

thats more than many people earn

Yes I know, hence why [url= http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-17156383 ]Childcare cost rises 'may make parents quit their jobs' (BBC News)[/url]

From that article:

This year's survey finds the average cost of a part-time nursery place for a child under two is more than £100 a week or £5,000 a year, with significant regional variations.

Nurseries in London and south-east England were most expensive, with a top price of £300 a week for a part-time place.

Incidentally: Interesting item on Radio 4 last night about how cheap state-subsidised universal childcare in Denmark leads to huge take up (93%), more people in work and more gender equality in the workplace.


 
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Just spotted this bit:

I agree with you to some extent about the benefits.

I think I need to go for a little lie down now.


 
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I think I need to go for a little lie down now.

he's run out of steam on the pensions thread so he's trying to trick you on this one - beware


 
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So then - how do people manage when their income is less than you consider is essential to spend on childcare? Childminders, informal arrangements, granny and neighbours, working opposite shifts etc. I know many families wehre the parents work opposite shifts to manage childcare

This is the bit you don't understand - things you consider essential are just not available to many folk because they do not earn enough

Come on - get real here


 
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too right tj. my kids swimming lessons cost us 135 per half term guitar lessons 38 a half term running club £7 a month brownies £2 a week ( plus £5 a week for the pack holiday) ive got gym sessions at 3 pw, ballet at 3pw and horse riding at £15 ph.
now the eldest has a laptop she stumps up for moshi monsters membership and a idont know how much that is..
childcares only twwice a week picked up from school i think its 160 a month for the pair.. school dinners arent 7/6 like when i had them anymore.

kids? anybody want a couple..


 
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Incidentally: Interesting item on Radio 4 last night about how cheap state-subsidised universal childcare in Denmark leads to huge take up (93%), more people in work and more gender equality in the workplace.

Exactly as I said early on in this thread:
[i]Miss CD is from Denmark, a country often put forward as having one of the best standards of living and social care in the World. Their child benefits (and may other) are universal and most women are only out of work for a year when they have a child where as in the UK women often have to take a career break for 5 years as childcare costs are so high. Consequently they have far more women in you positions that we do. It could be argued that in the UK by achieving 'fairness' based on salary we could help create (continue) gender inequality. [/i]


 
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Come on - get real here

Clearly, a number of parallel realities being described on here...


 
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how do people manage when their income is less than you consider is essential to spend on childcare

As per the article TJ: They quit their jobs because it is no longer economically viable to work.

Childminders, informal arrangements, granny and neighbours,

Registered childminders are just as expensive as nurseries. Informal arrangements are great for every now and again but I doubt you'd get many grannies or neighbours prepared to look after 3 kids for 9 hours a day, 5 days a week, every week.

I know many families wehre the parents work opposite shifts to manage childcare

Which is fine if you have two parents, they both have jobs where they can choose their shifts, nightshifts are available and they don't mind never seeing each other.

Come on - get real here

I am as real as you like.

You seem to think that someone on 42k is automatically a member of some rich elite class with no money worries - while studiously ignoring that this is actually a pretty average household income (below average, bit more than median) and that a household with two of your honest, but terribly poorly paid, Public Sector workers may well have a far greater total income.

AND still get Child Benefit.

AND a lovely gold-plated pension each.


 
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Clearly.

Its people confusing lifestyle choices with need and want with need - and also justifying expensive choices as need


 
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Paid nursery education makes little sense for us, my wife would struggle to earn enough. We have a family member living with us so she can work part time at the moment. Our child benefit goes straight into savings, and probably will even if my wife does not work.


 
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So then - how do people manage when their income is less than you consider is essential to spend on childcare? Childminders, informal arrangements, granny and neighbours, working opposite shifts etc. I know many families wehre the parents work opposite shifts to manage childcare

This is the bit you don't understand - things you consider essential are just not available to many folk because they do not earn enough

Work and childcare arrangements you consider possible are just on available for many folk because of their circumstances.


 
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As per the article TJ: They quit their jobs because it is no longer economically viable to work.

Bullshine. They make do and find creative ways

Graham - seriously you need to question your whole attitude and try to understand reality for the vast majority of people who earn far less than the amounts you seem to think are essential to live on.


 
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My heart bleeds for all you poverty stricken higher rate taxpayers. How you would manage on the sorts of sums most people do I cannot imagine. you might have to compromise your cosy middle-class lifestyles a bit - you know - live in a rented flat in Essex or something so appalling as that, work unsocail hours so you can manage childcare. You know - compromise, make do, be creative - live the lifestyle that most of the country has to.

I ave seen some ridiculous people with no idea of reality on here before but his one takes the biscuit - choco hobnobs of course!


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 4:20 pm
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Its people confusing lifestyle choices with need and want with need

Really? I suppose a disabled wife and seriously ageing MiL to support could be described as a life choice

My brother BTW - not me


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 4:22 pm
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Non means tested benefits available for both of them and / or the MIL must have income of her own


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 4:27 pm
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BTW TJ - you seem to want to defend your life choice of a high pension provision and supposed low waged job to the death.

maybe it's you that needs the reality check?


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 4:27 pm
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My heart bleeds for all you poverty stricken higher rate taxpayers.

Monochromatic as usual. You know not everything has to be an absolute TJ.
People are not Filthy Rich or Poverty Stricken.

you might have to compromise your cosy middle-class lifestyles a bit - you know - live in a rented flat in Essex or something so appalling as that, work unsocail hours so you can manage childcare.

So that's your definition of [i]"well off"[/i] is it??

Give up on home ownership, quit your job and take up one that lets you work unsociable hours, then stop sleeping so you can spend the daytime looking after your kids.

Yep, sounds like the lap of luxury to me.


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 4:28 pm
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Non means tested benefits available for both of them and / or the MIL must have income of her own

I've no idea TJ - I was making the point that you seem to think everything is a life choice


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 4:29 pm
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I thought child benefit for such high earners basically paid for iPads/bikes/skiing holidays etc ?

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Posted : 07/03/2012 4:34 pm
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I thought child benefit for such high earners basically paid for iPads/bikes/skiing holidays etc ?

what a bastard! - mine all turned 16 before the iPad came out 🙁


 
Posted : 07/03/2012 4:36 pm
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A small, cheap, childless Edinburgh flat earlier

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Posted : 07/03/2012 4:38 pm
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my kids swimming lessons cost us 135 per half term guitar lessons 38 a half term running club £7 a month brownies £2 a week ( plus £5 a week for the pack holiday) ive got gym sessions at 3 pw, ballet at 3pw and horse riding at £15 ph.

This is the very definition of poverty iirc I mean you cannot afford the annual ski holiday

+THIS is why folk think you are well off


 
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