MegaSack DRAW - This year's winner is user - rgwb
We will be in touch
For what Rachel?
And can you show proof of the effects? 😉
I think I'll decline to prove that one, thanks!!! 😛
And quite rightly so you should to.
Posting pics up on the internet like that is never a good idea.
Thanks though for mailing me the pics.
They clearly show the true effectiveness of the tablets. I shall be making my order once this swelling has gone down.
lololol
err - no...
and they say romance is dead..... Rachel an sharki up a tree..... lalalala 😯
Is your mate and his gf in an equally committed relationship? Or is it one-sided?
It's all very well people saying yah or nay but life is simply not black or white.
I'm not convinced about 5Elefant's cod-psychology.
Would it matter if the male cheater were the active partner in a gay adultery, as that would (could) imply he was dominant?
And who's to say that penetration is necessarily a concomitant of dominance? It's certainly not in many species.
I do think 5thElefant has a valid point. For all we might want to apply some "higher" moral standard to it, most of us (males) would likely react the same.
Oh - and this...
cinnamon_girl - Member
It's all very well people saying yah or nay but life is simply not black or white.
I've always liked the cod psychology idea.
I once theorised the reason why some men fall asleep straight after ejaculation.
The sole purpose is to mate and cause impregnation.
Once the male has ejaculated the body shuts down because it's primary role has served.
that explains everything...... 😉
😆
Of course in the case of cyclists, it's to save themselves some energy for the next ride.
Nah - it's to avoid all the fake emotional lovey-dovey baggage afterwards.....
so i guess the guys that get tired after round one are the ones that have no energy and should be avoided?
i must have been very good with my selection process then!
druidh..Ssshhh!
They never should actually say that though.
A perfectly executed bit of BS is always the better way try and justify it.
i must have been very good with my selection process then!
Is he 16?
... or you[Content removed to retain the new family friendly forum facade]
"Is your mate and his gf in an equally committed relationship? Or is it one-sided?"
Now youre asking.
Aparently she's was all work work work atm with a weekly blowout down town with her female workmates. AFAIK the relationship was as ok as one could be when one does 60 hr weeks and they hardly see each other.
My missus has fantasies about going with another woman, but not in the slightest with another man. She's been the only girl/woman I've ever trusted.
She once had a chance, but didn't - this when a very close friend admitted she fancied her and showed her the lot whilst on our sunbed.
I'd have been totally cool with this had it happened, although she knows I'd prefer to be there. If I came home and she told me she'd slept with another woman, then no probs - a bloke would be completely another matter.
[i]but basically implied that if she wasn't getting "satisfaction" (as she put it) she'd have no hesitation in going elsewhere for it.[/i]
So did you have sex with her? Because that sort of discussion is surely only leading in one direction.
This is better than Trisha.
16....not at all, late twenties/early thirties kinda age range for me 😀
aleigh - Member
16....not at all, late twenties/early thirties kinda age range for me
🙁
Counts me out..
Anyone wanna damaged 39 year old.
Pictures available, but not recommended.
oh right - it was okay to ask for pictures of me!!! 😛
sorry sharki, i go for the younger man these days
but not in the slightest with another man
Yeah, course not 🙄
Can i say, Learning loads about blokes on this thread.
allthegear.
I said they're not recommended but available.
aleigh. It's just a phase, you'll grow out of it.
emsz me too
pulls up a chair... what else would you like to know emsz?
Yeti (aged 31 1/2) 8)
I've learnt the older ones just want to muck around so am going for the younger type who take us women a bit more seriously 😀
I must be missing something here, I would have thought that sleeping with someone else other than your partner without their knowledge would be cheating and therefore a bad thing. I just posed the 'would you be mad at me for having sex with another woman' to my boyfriend and he just said 'depends if I was there/invited to split you up..{remainder of comment unrepeatable]. Like Emsz I'm learning lots on this thread 😯
Oh you know. I sort of figured most blokes were about as emontionally sophisticated as a bucket of sick But if any of these posts are truthful then you're worse than I thought! Other stuff too that I'm not sharing! 😳
i don't think anyone knows how they would deal with cheating until it happens. i know i was willing to forgive and forget but it made no difference so i held my head up high and moved on
I always thought that, in theory, I should understand them but I soooooo don't....
Rachel
As cool as it sounds I would say bag her! Its going to be twice as bad when she goes out on the town not knowing if she's going to cheat with a woman/man or even both! She'l have no respect for him if he forgives her and no doubt will do it again. Some people are just selfish and you'l never change them.
See if you can get her to pull a decent looking bird next time and demand a 3some - if not, dump her I rekon 😉
And if anyone is taking any of these posts with less than a generous pinch of salt - well.....
Did you not read my lovely love thread??
We're very emotionally sophistacted!
*Goes off to watch the Apprentice in a huff... At least the fit one's back in it*
Oh yeah, there's the threesome idea. I hadn't thought of that at all.
Yay.
Threesome.
FFS.
I don't think there are many men who would claim to understand women though.... men are from mars, women are from venus isn't it? Life would be boring if we all knew what was going on in everyone elses mind anyway.
[i]I always thought that, in theory, I should understand them but I soooooo don't....[/i]
Your first mistake is trying to understand men!
I gave up trying to understand women a while ago... 😉
good point, well made.
The thought of ones wife/girlfriend sleeping with another woman, plays out a fantasy that some men have.
Some men like the idea of a 3some, but have insecurities about being able to satisfy both ladies.
By giving permission to their partner to engage in same sex sex or accepting the situation if it has occurred. This may allow the partner to explain what happened in more detail, thus he gets to play out the scenario in his head and therefore be apart of it.
That's how i thought of it when i first gave my ex the go ahead to sleep with another woman. I knew she'd never go for a 3 some, so to let her do it and to hear about what happened was for me the next best thing.
giving up on understanding each other is a recipe for disaster!
You're right, Aleigh. 'Tis hard though!!
i hate to say it but that venus mars book thingy is pretty good - i find it very amusing!
[i]giving up on understanding each other is a recipe for disaster! [/i]
Hence why I put the 😉
[i]The thought of ones wife/girlfriend sleeping with another woman, plays out a fantasy that some men have. [/i]
A (female) friend of mine told me about a 3some she once had in her "experimental" days, she said it was rubbish! She kind of suggested that it would have been OK if the bloke hadn't been there! LOL.
I thought it made quite good comedy reading. Perfect for the insecure 90's 20 somethings.
I got the same impression from the 3some i had.
It was going great up to the point when i fell out of the cupboard i was watching from. the girls told me they wished i wasn't there..
I think it's the camera they really objected too.
This is all made up as the only 3some i've had was on stage.
PMSL @ Sharki!
It's just a porno fantasy though. The whole threesome thing. It's a bit skanky
Emsz.
It's mostly for the voyeurism factor.
You're either watching or being watched by one of the three.
Yep - its better with 4
Sharki sorry gives me the creeps. Two player game for me
someone else that says skanky *high five*
round in these ere parts no one says it and i get looked at rather strangly when i blurt it out 😯
[i]Sharki sorry gives me the creeps[/i]
Me too but what he wrote was still bloody funny!
I hope it's not me personally that gives you ladies the creeps.
For the record i'm not a serial groupie.
It was a one off just or the baying audience.
I've not used the word skanky in years, i think it must of become uncommon.
Sharki I'm sure they'd have found it creepier if you just showed them the video afterwards...
No not you Sharki, you sound nice!
Skanky is a great word. Just the right level of abuse, not too bad but at the same time, to the point
I sound nice? Aww thanks.
Now where do we stand with that word?
NICE
When i was married and i used 'nice' to express my opinion on what her hair, dress, shoes, GF, lover, etc, looked like i'd get slated for it.
It would either have to be it looks lovely or erm it looks fantastic/gorgeous. Well anything but nice.
I couldn't even say it looked horrible.
Nice was deemed as meaning, plain, ordinary, boring..
Is this the usual response from girls when nice is used?
(as my speech therapist kept telling me...) women do tend to use a wider range of adjectives in normal speech. Men tend not to. Can't quite remember why.
Your wife of the time was just probably trying to get you to widen your range - but unfortunately doing it in a negative way, picking on what not to do rather then on what to do. Women eh??
🙂
Rachel
there's loads of other things, too - men emphasise words using volume, women use pitch etc etc
"on paper" the whole lesbian affair thing sounds fun, but I think in reality I'd probably not be so thrilled after the initial excitement wore off and you realise that it's still cheating.
It think it may of stemmed from our primal beginnings.
Women would sit and socialise with each other whilst doing domestic duties. Whilst men would go out and hunt forage whilst just grunting to each other.
Women created a further range of words to use, so it's inbuilt in them to use them.
Men use the bare minimum and grunt the rest of the time.
'Nice' is only one step away from being okay.
'Really nice' has a bit more impact but clearly is not as good as 'lovely' or 'great' or 'fantastic'.
TBH if I tell a girl I had a nice date... I'm probably not going to call her again.
Men use the bare minimum and grunt the rest of the time.
lol - I know a few that still do!!!
"nice" can be used but, to me at least, it means something very specific - something like warm, comforting, safe.
edit - oo - just looked it up...
nice |n??s|
adjective
1 pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory : we had a nice time | that wasn't very nice of him | Jeremy had been very nice to her.
• (of a person) pleasant in manner; good-natured; kind : he's a really nice guy.
2 fine or subtle : a nice distinction.
• requiring careful thought or attention : a nice point.
3 archaic fastidious; scrupulous.
TSY. I understand that. 🙂
If i tried to use lovely, great, fantastic, she'd tell me i was saying it just to please her.
Therefore i developed a compromise between saying it looked great and her thinking i meant it looked skanky, by using the word nice.
I was never going to win.. Basically i lost 9 years of my life to a bitch who i wasn't meant to be with.
Moi bitter? NO!
I so wanna ask a question. But the mods will kill me LOL.
No go on, it'll be worth it. 🙂
go on....... do it!!
****ing hell Sharki I can understand why you just went off and rode bikes in the woods!!
She sounds like a right ball breaker... a bit skanky.
emsz - 15 min edit rule!! 😀
does that mean i have to keep refreshing my browser now????
I've not hit buttons like this since Daley Thompsons Olympics on the C64..
Do it.
Blimmey. DTO on the c64..i remember breaking countless keys and then joysticks playing that.
I'm trying to pre-guess the question...
Ok,
Blokes on here saying the gay girl thing is a fantasy. Why?
How long do I have to wait? 😉
Edit: I see emsz has put her question to the font of all knowledge STW'ers. 🙂
yeah - i wanna hear the answer to this, too
emsz - It's not so much a fantasy (IMO) but men respond better to visual stimulus. Women to verbal. If I'm being completely blunt I would rather see two women, than a man and a women. I blame Ron Jermey. 😯
I'm trying to pre-guess the question...
The question is obviously "what tyres for...?"
So, 1x Continental Rubber Queen + 2 x Schwalbe Nobby Nics?
Or 2x Continental Rubber Queens + 1x Schwalbe Nobby Nic?
Edit: I'm too fuggin' slow. 🙄