I thought of another way of expressing my bafflement/amazement. My attraction-o-meter goes something like this:
-1: Dislike person
0: Person invisible to me
1: Person tolerable
2: Person personable
3: Enjoy person’s company
4: Would go out with socially
5: Would get playful with
6: Would get frisky with
7: Would get very frisky with
8: Would date/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
9: Would continue dating
10:Would marry (in theory, not got to 10 yet!)
But it seems there are others who’s list might look more like this:
-1: Dislike person/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
0: Person invisible to me/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
1: Person tolerable/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
2: Person personable/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
3: Enjoy person’s company/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
4: Would go out with socially/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
5: Would get playful with/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
6: Would get frisky with/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
7: Would get very frisky with/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
8: Would date/bedroom (kitchen/car/park) athletics are go!
9: Would continue dating
10:Would marry