When I was doing the workshops back in my Youth Worker days, it was clear that many of the young lads saw White women as 'inferior' to Bangladeshi/Muslim women., So, we asked them why they thought this, and tried to work out where the attitudes were coming from.
Now, understand that Sex is not a common subject for discussion in many religious households, certainly not so with many Bangladeshi Muslim households that I have experienced. So, young people are taking clues from where? The Media, shops, the World around them and from peers from other communities. Many of these lads din't see their 'own' women as sexual objects, far from it. So virtually their entire image of female sexuality was coming from 'Western' sources. It was White women they mainly saw in 'skimpy' clothing, in clubs, being overtly sexual. Hence their pretty ignorant and distorted views and attitudes.
Who is to blame for that? Not Islam itself, as I've already explained. Maybe the attitudes of their fathers and other males in their communities din't help reinforce an sort of positive female image. And sexual segregation meant they would have little contact with women from within their own community. All this, in a society where it's deemed acceptable, even encouraged, for women to behave in a more sexual manner, and wear more sexually provocative clothing, than the culture these lads came from.
It was hard work to get these lads to change just even a bit. One of them refused to attend the workshops (we had to bribe them with trips to Wales etc as a reward for attending), calling it 'respec da bitches' class
The combination of cultural ignorance and diversity, together with the pressure to prove masculinity, makes for less than ideal attitudes, sadly.
I agree that communities need to do a lot more to become integrated into a homogenised British culture and society, and that various factors influence matters and can act as obstacles.
I don't agree however that this is an 'Asian' or 'Muslim' problem. I think it's a British one.