We've been looking to buy a house, been at it about 6 months, have lost 2 sales because the sellers:
1) Forgot to mention to her husband that she'd put the house on the market... (and he understandably was a bit miffed when he found out)
2) "Changed their minds" (there are several 4 letter words I use to describe this particular couple who had plenty of opportunity to do so and waited until we had invested a lot of time and effort in pushing the purchase forwards to suit them only to be told they didn't want to move anymore at 10 days notice)
Now we're looking again, have solicitors and mortgage in place from last 2 attempts and are ready to go...
The estate agents we've just started dealing with have said that unless we use their conveyance and mortgage service they won't take the property off the market until effectively the day we exchange contracts... I know there is no protection for us and the agreed sale until that point anyway... But they are doing this to try and force us into spending more money with them otherwise they won't recommend us to the sellers... The house we're trying to buy will be advertised as still for sale during the whole process of us shelling out for solicitors, searches and surveys which makes it all the more likely that we could lose it to someone else coming in with a different offer
Am I being unreasonable thinking they are nuts? Do they actually want to sell any houses? We're honestly considering not buying a house because we don't like the estate agents representing the vendor... Mental...

