I've known my friend for almost 15 years. A few years back this friend met some canadian underwear model and they've been married now for almost a year. I wasn't around much when they first met because i was at uni in a different city, but when i got back to my home town i got very ill and spent a lot of time in hospital and my mate would come and visit. What i can't understand is when i first met his wife she was nice as pie, i think she felt sorry for me because i was quite skinny when i left hospital and whenever i went round to the house she would cook me a full english etc etc. But then after this and since i've recovered she's been very off and on with me as though she feels uncomfortable being around me and anxious. she does a lot of coke, so this may have something to do with her mood swings. I don't see my friend all that often now but we keep in touch and he recently broke his neck. When i went round to see him at their house she was acting very weird and i could tell she was visibly stressed out and uncomfortable with me being there, so i didn't go to the house again. my mate recently had his metalwork removed and i met him up at his parents house and we were all sat outside having a barbecue including his wife and she was ok with me and even invited me to her birthday party which i thought was a little strange at the time. The next time i saw my friend was at a local festival. we all got wasted and had a great time and slept in our cars in the field and in the morning i ventured over to see how my friends were doing. I'm not kidding you she was a complete cow. She told me i should've stayed in Thailand, asked me why i don't just go away, told me "i'm bugging her" (imagine a canadian accent. the thought of her voice just repulses me). She just couldn't stand me being there! when i told her that wasn't a very nice thing to say her reply was simply "yeah well that's me... i'm a bitch". She then waited until i got out of the car and locked the doors so i couldn't get back in! when i knocked on the window she never even looked at me, just ignored me completely. It was cold and there was nobody to talk to so i just got in my car and drove home, feeling like a bit of a dick.
I'd met loads of people at the festival (who all thought i was the dog's bollocks)and had a great time but wasn't expecting it to end like that!
since then my friend has asked me on facebook why i disappeared in the morning and i told him his wife locked me out of the car and was rude, for which i got some serious abuse from his wife, not only on facebook but at work in the form of text messages calling me immature and un-inviting me to her birthday party. Like i want to go celebrate the day SHE was born! when i thought the abuse had stopped i get another text the next afternoon wanting me to continue the argument! Why, one minute, is she telling me i'm bugging her and to go away and the next minute can't leave me alone by text? It makes no sense whatsoever.
God knows what my friend thinks of all this. I have now been officially "facebook dumped" by his wife, and i'll probably never see him again!
my plan is to do nothing at all. Is this a good plan? what would you do in my shoes?
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