@Bazookajoe… That’s funny, we have one of those, seems to help us. We NEVER talk about money. Our earnings go into a pot and we spend what we want, no rancour, no discussion.
When we met, she earned more than me and had a car. We chopped her car in and bought a joint motah and bought a house together within a year. Up to then, we opened a joint savings account and paid the same in each month to furnish the place.
FFW to today. I earn 3-4 times that of my wife but it doesn’t matter. Our ‘contribution’ is equal and any benefits of our ‘endevours’ would be split equally if we parted. Hopefully unlikely after ~25 years.