People, I am overwhelmed by your support. Also glad some of you have taken the piss – Rohipnochino nearly made me cry with laughter, and the popcorn bucket with the hole in the bottom. Like the Toy Story 3 idea too.
Perhaps I should qualify the situation though.
I did try chatting her up (ineptly) 3 years ago which was when she told me she had a boyfriend at that time.
Her daughter and mine are friends at school (actually I think my daughter is friends with everyone she knows).
Since september '09 I have seen her after the 'Rainbows' club our daughters' attend on a wednesday evening, but have felt like a bit of a stalker trying to initiate conversation.
My daughter has shouted out 'My Dad loves your Mum' in her hearing once or twice, the most recent occasion resulted in a smile between us.
She gets on well with my dear old mum, who helps with my childcare and drops my daughter off at rainbows, as well as seeing the young lady at school.
Also the chats about the Exes is what seems to have broken the ice; I walked into a conversation 2 weeks ago where she was telling my mum that another mother was convinced my ex was drunk a few weeks earlier when she picked my daughter up from school on a friday for her weekend visit.