Posting under a pseudonym but I am a regular poster.
I am currently in a bit of a dilemma due to one of my friends who is having an affair with another one of my friends.
They got together last year while we were all holidaying together.
The friend having the affair and his wife have recently had a baby. This information has only recently come to light after I was told by some one else. I don’t have any connection to his wife to know otherwise.
Needless to say, his girlfriend is currently oblivious to his fatherhood and his wife has no idea he’s having an affair.
His job allows him to lie to both women about where he is due to being away a lot.
Based on the above information do I:
a) do nothing and let the information come out by other means
b) tell my friend whom he’s having the affair with
c) try to get him to come clean
I am erring towards option b but I wanted some moral guidance first from the hive.