I once filled up my diesel Land Rover with petrol, despite having had it for years. It was at a run-down garage, and they had a few pumps in the same row. I’d spotted a diesel pump on the way in, and then filled up from the pump with the black nozzle. Unbeknown to me, it was a petrol pump in disguise! That was one example of where a colour-coded car wouldn’t have worked!
I discovered after filling its tank to the brim, but thankfully didn’t try to start it. I pushed it across the forecourt to a nearby workshop, had the tank drained, and then pushed it back to fill it up with diesel. It was a waste of time and money, but it could have been a lot worse.
I hope you get yours sorted without any additional worries or expense!