Really sorry to hear that, nonk. I spotted this post via a google alert and I'm a bit disappointed in this statement "i dont blame my gp for missing it as it is rare thing."
It isn't really rare, it's just constantly missed:-( If you're honest, do you think your GP would recognise it in anyone else, or just think you were a one-off. I suspect the latter!
There is a lot of stuff being done to raise awareness, including in Parliament, but for some reason it's always played down.
I have Lyme (from 2004) unable to get rid, but I'm one of the lucky ones who isn't debilitated by it (yet anyway). My partner (regular mountain biker) wasn't so lucky, was ill for several years before diagnosis and had 2 full years of antibiotics before any difference was noted. Thankfully he is now active.
I am helping on the BADA-UK http://www.bada-uk.org stand this weekend at the Outdoor Leisure Show NEC (stand 102) 25th - 27th Feb. If anyone is going, please make sure to visit, pick up some leaflets, buy some extra tick tweezers, etc. Help spread the word (I'm sounding like an evangelist too, that's how it gets you!:-))
Take care, you are in good hands now, but be prepared for it to take quite a while and don't give up.
Jan