Firstly, I have no idea why Surf-Mat started the thread in the first place. It seemed bizarre to me – I suspect it was more about his eagerness to share his bereavement with us than a [ublic declaration of sympathy with Miss Allen. I’m sure she has a website or twitter or some such Mat; you could have sympathised with her directly.
Secondly, DezB, c’mon mate, you were trying to be controversial when you made the “hard living” comment. It’s classic STW behaviour. Say something that’s going to wind some people up a little then stand back, hands in the air saying “Never touched ‘im ref”. See ton for the classic example.
Thirdly, is any of us surprised this has descended into an undignified bun fight? Some of you ought to be ashamed of yourselves and the sooner this is pulled, frankly, the better. It’s a sorry sight. 🙁