It’s extremely difficult to offer advice without sounding patronising … and it can come across as that particularly when you’re female and/or haven’t been riding for years.
So basically, you’ll pay for advice, but not take it for free, yes? 😉
I’m now gonna blow my own trumpet now:
I’m good with beginners. I’ll gently coach them through stuff they never thought they could ride, I’ve done it many times. Stuff that seems very simple to everyone else can faze people. And others just expect them to ‘get on with it’ it seems. And I genuinely get a buzz out of helping someone out (That includes more than just riding – Mechanics etc too) and seeing them get it right. Just a grin is enough. I’ve taught people how to ride motorbikes, I’ve tought 5 year olds to ride. I’ve taught people how to fix bikes (Lots of that actually) I’ve taught people to bunnyhop and more….. Just little stuff
I’m no great shakes at anything myself, but I’m good at passing on what I do know, but yes, sometimes you meet a brick wall and have to give up…..
As regards flats, you were beaten to it by Juan! But yes, the fact that people were suggesting it, I did listen!
Oh come ON! 😉 My next step was to come round in the dead of night and swap all your pedals over, I’d been nagging you so much. 😀 I used to worry about you riding clipless and not clipped in, honest! 🙂
My next task is to get you to leave some of the 18 tonnes of crap you carry on every ride at home! 😉 (Serious though!)