Washing Machine – most stuff end up in the dryer, some stuff that dones’t like them on a rad.
TBH whilst it looks horrific, mud / grime isn’t hard to wash off and in 10 years I’m yet to break a washer because it’s full of mud – I check the filter now and again – hairpins, baby socks sometimes, coins – never mud or grit.
Shoes are a special case, I’ll almost never hose them off unless it’s to the point when you can’t tell left from right – stuff them full of kitchen roll (haven’t bought a news paper in years, but I’m told that works too) leave them somewhere warm-ish.
Jackets I try to avoid washing unless I have too, hang them up in the cloakroom with all the other coats and stuff, obivously not touching the clean ones, wash it every 4-5th use with Nikwax – that’s a twice a year thing for me, I only wear them when it’s very cold, I don’t mind being wet, it’s cold and wet I don’t like.