Cut a long story short - guy buys a frame I had up on eBay. Sends money but says he's from Latvia and can I deliver to a UK address instead. Then I get another email saying his buddy won't be in the UK for a while, can I post to Latvia.
He's already paid by Paypal. I've still got the frame but smelling a bit of a rat here.
If I just refund his money and tell him politely to get lost will magically in a months time Mr Paypal come sniffing saying the payment has gone bang and they want the money back even though I've already refunded his dodgy money back so it should balance out?
Basically am I already shafted when he paid regardless? I send the frame and it magically disappears, or I refund and his money bounces, but my refund doesn't?

