My GF described me as ‘the only person who sent me a message who didn’t seem to be a complete weirdo’

I’m such a catch.

To paraphrase one of my friends, she’d have met anyone for a date that wasn’t posing with a sedated tiger, married

A good friend of ours met a few players (aka married men). She went down the emotional path with a couple before she realised they were married/longterm. A few others broke off because they were commitment-phobes ‘werent ready’ (which can also cynical mean – I dont like you but dont want to hurt your feelings or….. ‘I’m a player/I got what I wanted now I’m bored/want a new bird’….)

Just as some people can complain girls can be odd-balls I do think alot of blokes (in general) need an ego-boost, need to feel they are virile etc so play the field to please their fragile ego.

My GF described me as ‘the only person who sent me a message who didn’t seem to be a complete weirdo’

I’m such a catch.

Same here, although seeing as our pretence was that she was a 5’5 Janet Jackson lookalike (she’s 5’3 and is a bit more Lauryn Hill but I’m not complaining) and I was a 14st Kent league muscular rugby player (I’d just retired and was busy making use of the sofa, and beer fridge with my new found spare time) I’m prepared to forgive her judgement.

we’ve been together for 16 years, married for 8 and have two kids. Go for it op, it may be a couple of nights of fun or a whole new start to life, but you’ll never know if you don’t go.

Edit – congrats Hora, you manage to be patient for 3 more posts that predicted.

My GF described me as ‘the only person who sent me a message who didn’t seem to be a complete weirdo’

Bit of a running theme it seems. I have of course now thoroughly disabused her of this foolish notion and confirmed that I am in fact a bit of weirdo, but in a good way.

and I was a 14st Kent league muscular rugby player

How tall are you? I’m 6ft1 and almost 16 stone and Im not fat or muscular. 😐 More sturdy built.

My profile would read “sturdily built, keen stalker seeks kooky-queen to share my passion for Dulux colour swatches”.

Hora:

pretence

Although in reality I wasn’t carrying much fat, am of standard build but I was just under 14st and appeared more muscled than I am now. A lot of that has vanished to middle age and cycling as I’m now 11st 12. 5’11 and 3/4 btw.

My profile would read “sturdily built, keen stalker seeks kooky-queen to share my passion for Dulux colour swatches until its time for a new one, about 2 weeks fwiw”.

ftfy 😉

How tall are you? I’m 6ft1 and almost 16 stone and Im not fat or muscular. More sturdy built.
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Do you like cosy nights in with a DVD?

Definitely, without a doubt, go on the date.

So what she was having a good time, she may even be out playing the field. She may even think you could just be a ‘good time bit of fun Mr Right Now’….but….she may turn up on the date expecting nothing, and fall right head over heels for you and find you are Mr Right (and she may be Ms Right).

Life’s short. You just never know what’s going to happen. She may be nothing like you expect, in a good way.

DezB yes, also lounging in coffee shops, short country dog walks, pub lunches and beach holidays abroad. 8)

Can we all agree to give OP the silent treatment until we get a photo?

Well as long as shes not a nightworker OP.

This other blokes was a work colleague and not a customer… right? 😀

@sandwicheater trust me, you don’t want any photos of me… and I’d definitely be batting above my average with this particular lady

@hora she does work in “drilling” but I’m led to believe it’s to do with oil and gas wells, rather than what you’re talking about. 😯

we’ll need an update in the morning please Op, preferably with a pillow picture of said date fast asleep next to you winking.

Please tell me you spelt that correctly..
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Love dating threads. I can’t call any females slags etc as I was prolific when I was single 😀 – a sort of he’whore.

OP just go for it … report back later.

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Yes, that does help, but a picture would fill in the gaps.

+1!

Otherwise, go for it. Sounds like it could be some short-term fun. Keep options open – if nothing happens, that’s what happens; if you get a few fun dates then that’s all good; if she’s the love of your life, delete your profile and get married.

Whatever happens, a report back here tomorrow is expected. 😉

I can’t call any females slags etc as I was prolific when I was single – a sort of he’whore.

Browsing multiple porn sites simultaneously doesn’t actually make you prolific in that sense Hora 🙂

Browsing multiple porn sites simultaneously doesn’t actually make you prolific in that sense Hora

Possibly ambidextrous and nimble-fingered though. 🙂

he’whore.

I love it when they make donkey noises

Hora helps to power the national grid

Love dating threads. I can’t call any females slags etc as I was prolific when I was single – a sort of he’whore.

Possibly ambidextrous and nimble-fingered though.

Or just plain old knackered if you’re off work sick 😯

OP- get her slammed otherwise someone else will tonight (and tomorrow).

Can you block-book her? 😀

Can you block-book her?

ffs, is this another escort girl?!

Have you got something better to do tonight? If you have great, if not then it’s just a date and might be a fun evening, treat it as no more than that.

lolz @ he’whore/donkey gag

/high fives DezB

Yes go for it. If she’s single and dating, its perfectly okay for her to be drunk with another guy all over her imo. Not the end of the world, just sounds like she’s out to have some fun. Its just a date, what can go wrong.

Whatever happens, a report back here tomorrow is expected.

Indeed! 😉

Or just plain old knackered if you’re off work sick

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Haven;t you been with your (current) missus since you were 14 or somehting?

Internet dating is a funny thing to be fair.

I’ve had a few dates with a lass and been messaging for a couple of weeks now. All seems to be going well I think.

She came round for dinner last night and gave her a lift to work this morning (boomchicawowow!).

Queue a few hours later a txt commenting on all the questions from her colleagues about the flowers just been delivered to her at work…

“Erm, what flowers…?” Says I

Awkward.

Heh.

“Erm, what flowers…?” Says I

FAIL.

“drunk”. No.

Haven;t you been with your (current) missus since you were 14 or somehting?

Next you will be saying dont trust him on bike frame sizes.

“Since” he was 14? How old is Hora?

I would give it a go and go on the date and see how it goes.
No point second guessing so go in with open mind and see what happens.

Glad I don’t have to play that game any more, good luck.

There are idiots, weirdos, sex pest and psychos on both side and the work is sorting through the crap and finding the genuine ones

Not up yet then?

Must have been a good night! Up to one’s nuts in guts.. ; )