TJ – back in the everything is black and white mode?
Many many relationships overlap with subsequent ones. That’s the real world. Not saying it is ideal. But blokes leave women for other women, and women leave blokes for other blokes all the time.
Enough people popped up on the other thread in similar situations, and if you had read it you would know I put a lot of effort into trying to fix my marriage – that effort just hasn’t been reciprocated. I always thought – well, that’s it – but now my newer relationship has shown me other things are possible.
Now – it is perhaps a little bit easy for you to pretend to be the Pope here – and that all life’s situations have rational, moral and kind solutions. But they don’t. Sorry to disappoint you.