Had similar indication problems for DPF on a 58 plate Octavia VRS. Local garage reset after apparently running a regeneration following the engine going into limp mode. I thought the problem had been solved but after about 300 miles of motorway and A road driving, the warning lights came on and engine management went straight to limp mode.
Scared myself silly by looking at DPF prices online (similar to OP’s quotes) but was recommended an auto electrical specialist by local garage in Urmston.
The problem was resolved the following day at cost of about £170.00. It was purely indication error caused by a faulty pressure sensor.
Get to a good electrical specialist.
Hope this helps.