AFAIK a driver awareness course is only offered to a small portion of people deemed to have "only just" broken the law; I think it's 32-36mph in a 30 zone, or thereabouts, for example. It's based on the assumption that they broke they law mainly because they weren't really concentrating on driving.
Ignoring a red traffic light and driving on through 23 seconds after it's changed is not a minor infringement, it's the action of a complete fool. If he doesn't get banned this time, it sounds like he's likely to in the future…
As for the helmet thing, tell him you can pick them up for about £20 in supermarkets or Halfords. If it's got the CE mark, it will be safe. Doesn't sound like you owe him any favours.
: P