Brilliant stuff. Totally agree. Long-distance rides can make great challenges and there’s deep/big experiences to be had there, but stravaism and ‘Achievement’ is generally a load of b—–s imo, it’s nothing more than a personal motivation source and it can be over-shared at times. It’s all been done before anyway.
My late autumn tours or trips are always about stopping for coffee and sitting quietly in the woods or corners of cornfields, or waking up and appreciating the birdsong rather than thinking about getting a move on. Did one last weekend, found a load of new trails, bivied on 2 lovely hillsides I’d not been on before, drunk too much coffee and some beer and did ‘not very many’ miles.
I like a bit of perspective, so doing both gives me that. Seeing how far/fast I can go etc is motivating as it is for most of us but I do realise the real experience has nothing to do with power output or resistance to sleep deprivation : )