Chain stretch (the whole chain gets longer = stretches) has nothing at all to do with roller wear. Roller wear is inconsequential in the normal course of events. If you pay the £50 odd for Shimano’s top of the range chain wear checker, you’ll notice it does not even measure roller wear.
On a modern bushingless chain, the wear occurs on the bushing area of the inner sideplates, causing the pin hole to become elongated.
I’ve never encountered a rust-proof chain (which isn’t to say they don’t exist), but rust-resistance chains look pretty and do resist rust better than a non-coated chain. Largely irrelevant if you keep your chain lubricated as per chain makers guidelines.
Often (e.g. with SRAM) you find the plated chains are actually better grades anyway, even before the coating.