It’s just physics – well, moments. With your hands on the hoods or drop (and a longer stem) your hands and therefore your input is a lot further away from the fulcrum of the moving part of the stem.
Certainly is. I used to have a Flexstem BITD. When I was on the front of the L-bend bar ends you felt a lot more movement. TBH I wouldn’t want that movement in a bike with drops but 5mm, maybe 10mm of cush on an MTB in that area could do a fair bit for comfort w/o making the bike feel disconnected.
It wouldn’t be good with Jones bars and a 55mm stem, but Jones bars and a 55mm stem is an odd combo to start with : ) With an MTB riser your hands will be close to the steering axis so not a lot of leverage, but the forces between the grips and the tyre have to act somewhere so with a suitable elastomer it should work to some extent. More of a buzzkill than suspension movement.
Interested to try one but not rushing to spend that kind of money to find out.