TJ, I think my previous post might have been a bit harsh, let me try to explain. I think you are probably right in everything you’ve done, your employer has stuffed up and not handled the situation well. You’ve personally come out of it OK despite being dragged through something for six months that could of and should have been sorted quite quickly, as you’ve accepted you were in part to blame for that but probably less than your employer.
I think the the bit that has probably brought out the worst in the rest of us is that you’ve come across a bit entitled, which is ironic as you probably are entitled under your contract and NHS procedures.
Private sector don’t always get it right either
Let me correct that for you, the private sector very rarely gets it right and usually drives a bulldozer through employees rights. The law isn’t much help either, I was in a very difficult position 18 months ago where work had made me ill and then effectively dismissed me. Everything they did was technically and morally wrong. I took good legal advice which effectively made me realise that fighting it in a tribunal was risky even though I had a strong case and payouts were limited. Punitive damages weren’t an option and a payout was definitely capped. Anyway my lawyer gave my old employer a taste of their own medicine and covered his fee many times over in extra payout.
I suppose the point is many of us feel a little aggrieved at your attitude knowing how we’ve been treated in the past and how little we could realistically do about it despite trying. That however doesn’t make it right to wade in and abuse you. Despite the shambles your employer has been they’ve actually looked after you and treated you with more thought than most, it might not feel like it but it’s true.
There’s lots of bad employers and bad employees out there who game the system, there’s probably even more good employees and employers who the system fails.
Well done for persevering, in reality probably your only fault was posting it up all on here without realising you would be judged by criteria you weren’t aware of, but we all do that everyday posting on here.