Melancholia isn’t really about the end of the world though, well it is sort of, but it’s mainly about depression.
I loved it – but watching from the front row with the shaky hand held camera made me sea sick
Yes, it can certainly be watched as a metaphor. The view from that side of the mood that all those attempts at jollity were just hysterical defences against the awful truth of it, and so on. I especially liked the idea that, at the end, the one with the downbeat attitude proved truest and most able to cope.
On the literal side, I liked the idea of an “end of the world” catastrophe movie focusing down on a very small group of people and their experience, rather than the usual Hollywood masses of people running about and screaming whilst the city gets blown up, or whatever. Made it much more intense, and quite profound.