If you do what 'Whathaveisaidnow' suggested above then could combine it with a biking holiday to cheer you up.

If you do what 'Whathaveisaidnow' suggested above then could combine it with a biking holiday to cheer you up.

Great idea, . . . . plus the girls over there will love you, . . . . . . looooongtime!

skiprat I am trying my best to present a new more grown up hora on STW.

What I'd actually tell my son is what I'd do:

It'd involve manipulating a friend of hers into bed or just going straight out and pulling someone else.

I wouldn't sit at home thinking about the time we had. That comes later in the w*nkbank/back catalogue-flick through.

Base/vulgar but its the best way a man can get over a girl.

AAhhhhhhhhhh balance is restored, back to the Hora we know and love!! 😉

Thanks for the advice people. I think most of you are right. I should wait until we can speak face to face so that there is an oppotunity for her to apologise and for us to talk like adults (however hard that may be for me). But i'm certainly won't hold out for her. She did type ''I think we should call for a break'' which is my mind says that she doesn't have the courage to say it outright in fear of hurting my feelings. She is'nt a malicious person and i don't think it is a true reflection of who she is. But like you said she doesn't have the courage. I'm just a bit gutted that after all that time together in what i believed to be my favorite relationship so far, she did'nt want to speak to me face to face. Sometimes emotion can blind you against making better desicions.

Just go out there and enjoy yourself. Don't think 'its only 60days to go etc before I can see if theres anything there'.

Lifes too short and don't go giving any girls your sob-story/telling them about her- just say that to your mates.

Its a passion-killer and the girls wont think 'oh go on then, I'll give you a cheerup shag' 😉

Time for the OP to make like the Vikings and get plundering and pilleraging….
Arrrrrrrrrrrr….

yeah good advice. I'll actually be doing a 4 months course when she comes back anyhow on the 11th october. I was going to get that week off to see her but i'm not sure weather it's worth having the whole week off now. Do you think i should just get one day off so that we can chat? or just leave it, don't book the time off ans if she really wants to chat, she can come and find me in Llangollen?

Just leave it. I know you need closure/need to know but exactly what do you want to hear?

It'll be along the lines of a cliche. I think your better of speaking to her on the phone or email. An honesty email- just word it that it'll help you move on if she could lay it down and be honest.

The answer could be brutal but it'd shut the doors you need closing.

Whathaveisaidnow – Member

I see a theme starting in forum names 😀

without knowing anything about you (so i could be COMPLETELY wrong here) you ex went off to teach in Viet Nam – something exciting and quite brave – met interesting people with the same adventurous spirit and now finds you rather dull in comparison? and you're surprised? why they hell didn't you go with her?

sorry, but it sounds like the girl has moved on. you should too.

Yep. She's definitely left you for ro. 🙂

Im guessing here but its one of those outgoing US-rich college types with pearly white teeth and tussled hair.

has she got a sister? brother? give it a go 🙂

BontyBuns – Member
Thanks for the advice people. I think most of you are right. I should wait until we can speak face to face so that there is an oppotunity for her to apologise and for us to talk like adults (however hard that may be for me

She's the one who clearly can't handle adult conversations. Using Facebook is a shallow and selfish way to dump someone.

Treat yourself to a nice takeaway tonight and have browse of you favourite bike related website and buy something shiny.

She clearly has and i shall endevour too. Have you seen how good looking i am? 'Hey everybody come see how good i look!'

Cheer yourself up with a new mmmbop frame from CRC 😉

set up an competition for people who travel to other countries and teach english, then dont let her enter, the winner will be the hottest girl with the most awesomely proportioned breasts, the prize:

to fulfil every sexual fantasy your ex wouldnt 😉

This, coupled with takeaway and shiney bike bits surely has to be the best coping strategy?

I've just bought myself hope mini's. Excellent advice, i feel much better now 😀 i knew coming on here would cheer me up. All i need now is a picture that sums up what i should do.

All i need now is a picture that sums up what i should do.

LMAO. Job done. Thanks.

Go and combine two great hobbies.

What or who?
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All of the above have just made my day.

Whathaveisaidnow – Member

I see a theme starting in forum names

and to think I used to be called toomuchapplepie!

Are you planning on seeing them this winter?

Saw them In Wolvo a couple of weeks ago, . . they rocked , . . .of course!

Right, i'm off to get unlawfully drunk.

Maybe she met a ladyboy and is getting the best of both worlds!

Pi55ed yet Bonty?!

That is harsh though – I suggest hookers and coke for a week then regroup and see how you feel.

hookers and coke for a week

If I did that for a day I'd top myself for having such a shallow existence.

If you can't pull easily or be interesting without going chemical then there is something fundamentally wrong 😉

I'm just a bit gutted that after all that time together in what i believed to be my favorite relationship so far, she did'nt want to speak to me face to face.

It would make a great ad for apple face time 🙂

Hora – I have never touched either. But then I've never been dumped via FB. Just a friendly suggestion.

Maybe she met a ladyboy and is getting the best of both worlds!

Best of both worlds! Beautiful chicks with d1cks that put mine to shame!!

Vietnam?

It'll be may mate who's doing her – he's working out there; he says its 'constant' as the foreign girls ain't interested in the local men…

Ouch but logical.

It'll be may mate who's doing her – he's working out there; he says its 'constant' as the foreign girls ain't interested in the local men…

nice……

That's just plain impolite isn't it. I was dumped once by text, it turns out the only thing more brutal than dumping someone by text, is replying "Oh, OK". She's still not forgiven me apparently

BontyBuns if you went to Ibiza to work for 5 months would you go without sex and stay good?

I'd last a week.

I'd last a week.

I'd last a pint…

I'd last a pint…

Tart

Shag her mate, works for me