TJ – 'I KNOW!!!!!' 😡
Have you read the previous posts about gut reactions?? Particularly the example I gave of the financial advisor.
It is a well proven and accepted psychological response. EVERYBODY and I mean EVERYBODY is pre-programmed through thousands of years of evolution to make instant gut reactions to things.
The brain can then take over and make more rational and reasonable interpretations of what it sees and hears.
The point I'm making, which most people seem to be missing, and would rather boo hoo about someone saying someone else was 'short and tubby', is that it is an unconcious human instinct to make generalisations and snap judgements about things.
The OP was not being mean, he just called it the way his gut instinct told him to.
Jeeeesus!