We had a baby last year, GF was a temp and maternity has now run out and she is still not back working, we have a wedding to pay for in just over 4 months on my single income and surprisingly things seem to be going well. We have even managed to fit in a holiday for the 2 of us and the littleun in 2 June.
I think the key factors have been…
Giving up smoking – this saves me taking a tenner out everyday to buy smokes and then spending it all
Planning meals – so we buy one lot of ingredients, make one meal, make too much so I can have leeftovers for lunch the next day, then use the remainder of the unused ingredients making something else for the next day's meal.
Doing a monthly big shop with a list rather than going to the shop on the way home everyday
Fixing things rather than replacing them
Walking in the countryside for free as a hobby – rather than walking round the high street spending money
Buying my beers for 25p a pint from the supermarket instead of £4 a pint from bars.