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Life's better now
That's me that is.
Currently working in Advertising, girlfriend of 10 years (aww) looking for our first house.
I was working as a science teacher in rural(ish) Thailand. Riding fast bikes, drinking too much and having a great time with a great bunch of friends.
Posting on stw, listening to Sex Bob-omb, drinking sleepytime tea & wondering what DVD to watch before i go to sleep.
Just left the army, letting my hair down getting drunk, getting stoned, going snow boarding and generaly enjoying life.
Hmmm, let me see. That'd have been '98 for me. So was working for the European Commission, I had just bought my first house with the woman who would become my wife (and then would soon become my ex-wife), and didn't own a bike.
50% of my lifetime ago I was 26 and Daddy to a 2 year old daughter.
26 years on sees me awaiting the birth of my overdue 2nd Granddaughter as my daughter is very grown up with a family (she is actually now 28) - - time passes very quickly - - 😛
Sleeping in the back of a Holden Kingswood, surfing everyday, reading books, being slim!, watching fantastic bands, being single and pretty much anything that got me away from building sites in England for a year or two.
Elfinsafety - Member
Ketamine.
That is something I have never tried.
Back in 1992 I visited home to see my Mum for a few days and my flatmates at the time managed to score some.
They had a fab time and needless to say when I returned they had taken it all, bah!
I turned 26 in 2003. In the same year, I started the job I'm currently doing (A level IT teacher in a 6th form college) and my eldest child was born.
26! Blimey, that was quite a while ago, errm 17 years or something. So I'd have been hanging out with potheads and bands I think in Manchester. Probably about the time I was rubbing shoulders with James and Mick Hucknall. Just about giving up kick boxing, coming out of my angry young man phase a bit late I think. Was still drinking and smoking weed quite a lot but it was the start of the end for all that stuff.
a Holden Kingswood
A Shaggin Wagon! Writen in the dirt on the side: 'Don't laugh, your daughter could be in here'.
That is something I have never tried.
Ketamine is proper mad. Gives you a real ''out of body' type experience. I remember getting up to go to the loo, first time I did it, and the ground and walls felt like deep foam. You really lose touch with physical senses.
Not good for you though.
Elfinsafety - Member
Ketamine.
An a-hole in a k-hole. figures. 😉
I finally graduated from uni with my BSc, got a shite job, wasted a shit load of money, and was properly miserable.
1991, married (first time, managed 8 years), working in IT, on my 3rd house, 309GTI, certainly no bikes (just sold my FZ600)
The world is a different place now compared to when I was 26...
working in ironbridge yha ('83 to '86) doing a litle bit of building work for extra cash and having the time of my life with loads of young ladies and riding my bike around there and up and down the Wrekin, cant do that now and doing loads of hillwalking. Finally went travelling at the age of 39 to Oz met my wife there and have 3 children now and live in the usa been married for 12 years, travelling is defo the best thing to do at least once if not twice
At 26 I had already done the uni/career/then jack it in to go travelling/then get jacked in by my fiancé two months before our wedding 'cos she was jigging with our mortgage adviser (all that stuff happened at 22/23). At 26 I was 'enjoying' a young student and spending late nights drinking weird cocktails in 'Spiders' in Hull. At 27 I met my (even younger) student girlfriend (18) and finally married when I was 39 then had kids at 42. I think I have finally started to grow up now.
An a-hole in a k-hole. figures.
At least I can blame the drugs. What's your excuse? 😉
Mainly spent writing up my PhD thesis. Started work in the real world just before my 27th birthday. Long time ago now.
for me 26 = the last of the full on party days. Before mortgage / kids / career kicked in proper. It were ace!
That might come accross as a bit depressing, but it isn't. Just a different life to the one I live now, with different things in them to enjoy / have enjoyed.
P.S. - go travelling. One of my regrets not to have done. (however I never really was in the position to anyway, and I might not be where I am now (which would be a shame))
Extended girly holiday in Australia.......and that is all you are getting ;-D
Unemployed. 😡
Crumbs. Lost in a mostly happy miasma of hard drugs, being in bands, crap jobs, week long bike trips in the Cairngorms and the odd loose woman.
It got worse before it got much better! @ the OP - just go travel - I regret not doing more of it at an appropriate age.
to the OP. Do it.
Throwing myself off cliffs in the Swiss Alps and occasionally fixing things in chalets with ducktape and hammers.
26 was my penultimate shagging age.
Had more excitement than at any other time in my life.
Had a great job, was single, my own place, good holidays.
Now how did I do that? (I really have no clue)
26 was my penultimate shagging age.
The year before you had yer first shag? Yer last? ❓
I was still languishing in Maidstone. Still living with my evil ex and working in a job I hated. Took me 2 more years to get away, but after a few years bumbling I met and married a beautiful girl and now spend summers with bikes winters with skis.
Can't recommend travelling enough!
I was working for GSL (read Group4 Securicor) directing prison vans about. Mental stress, but OK wage. I hated it. I moved to Scotland and everything's been rosy ever since.
NOTE: SCOTLAND IS SHITE AND OVER-POPULATED. IN NO WAY SHOULD YOU CONSIDER MOVING HERE IF YOU'RE A DISHEARTENED ENGLISHMAN LOOKING TO BETTER HIMSELF.
Sitting on an oil rig in the North Sea, reading this post and feeling encouraged about my plan to jack in my job in next year and go travelling with the other half.
Seems a lot of you have done the same at this age and it's worked out pretty well. I know if I don't do it now, it'll be years before I get another chance (Once kids, dog, big mortgage are on the cards).
Oh and well said Flying Ox, Scotland is now far too crowded and certainly not worth moving to...
Hehe. Where you imprisoned? I've just got off the Fulmar.
crisps.
Just in your back garden then Flying Ox. I'm on the Ensco 100 at the minute, we're not far from the Fulmar.
Gawd, yeah - do it.
26... 2002 for me. I was working as an auxiliary nurse in an insanely busy city hospital (Bristol Royal Infirmary), was generally skint and - thanks to the shift system - riding my bike in the woods pretty much every day. Good times, in retrospect. It was like one long episode of [i]Spaced[/i].
seeing my wife get into a well paying job, in the field she had studied and I had just finished supporting her through in a mundane job.
Had managed to fit in 4.5 seasons of skiing, lived in the US, moved down to Australia and just bought our first place, about 7 mins from a beautiful sandy beach.
was reading reviews of bikes looking trying to work out what I was going to get as my first "proper/nice" bike whilst commuting to work on the road in an effort to get fit for the 2 week, 900km ride I had planned for the following year.
I could/would/should've been the first of my generarion of our extended family to go to Uni etc but took a gap year, went skiing in the US for the winter and realised that I didn't actually know if the degree I was planning on doing would be the right one and it was an expensive and timely thing to not be sure about. I also realised that jumping in the deep end offered different but not lesser opportunities.
I'm now coming up 29, stay at home dad, raising our daughter and have realised that the degree I first looked at was the right field for me and so I will be completing something in that area part-time/externally.
Jack it in, go travel; if after a few months and a few attempts at things you otherwise wouldn't try, it turns out to not be for you, it's easy enough to come home with little really lost. However, it's more than likely you will find a few new things - love, life, interests, whatever - that you otherwise may not have.
I moved to Australia, doubled my wage and almost halved my working time (down from 80+ to a more reasonable 40 hour week)
Now 27 and it's still looking like a good move...
I got married to Di the day before I was 26, still married to her now, 27 years later 🙂
halfway through my phd in oxford, at a multicultural international college so i let the world come and travel me instead
Shagging. My 1st Daughter was born when I was 26.
I landed what I thought was my dream job...and hated it.
I was in the final year of my degree
I know it feels like you're running out of time, but trust me, you're not. chances are you/I will be working till we're 70+, so best go roaming while you can. houses/women/jobs/money/careers/friends will all still be here when you get back.
without being too presumptious, I'd say the majority on here would have bummed around for longer given the choice and benefit of hindsight. the ones that don't usually have met their perfect other half by that point which is also great. but if you havn't then travelling is a great idea - wish I'd done it.
Also on another note, you're far more likely to meet hot, tanned, willing women on an indonesian beach than you are driving a desk in the UK 😈
The Alps: working by night, playing by day (or sleeping, sometimes)
Living and working in the lakes, seeing a boozy local bird who I would end up with for 5 years, riding with a kiwi and a saffa after being off the bike for 3 years, enjoying the stinkingly hot summer of 1995.
Realising that I didn't want to stop travelling so off i went in September 98, best move I ever made.
I CBA telling you what I was doing as I'm not sure that was the reason for the original post and I've only read down a bit of the first page. BUT, don't worry about the career thing. Do it. Go and travel and become a more interesting person because of it. Do stuff on your travels that might add to your CV (don't know what you do now or even would like to do, but there's usually something you can do voluntarily or whatever unless you're a nuclear scientist - not too sure you'd be allowed to just dabble at that one). As an employer these days I'd be more likely to employ someone interesting and sparky with drive than some dullard with the right qualifications.
Anyway, I never did it because of the career worry thing, but knowing what I know now I wish I had. So, save up your flight and some spends and do it.