[Closed] Very drunk (?) wife. When to go to Dr?

Put in recovery position, keep an eye on breathing.. All I can suggest really.

History of mental health issues or significant drug use?
Likelihood of drink being spiked?
Can you trust her mates?

Make your decision to seek further attention based on what you know not a bunch of guys on a different continent who don't know you. Gut instinct FTW

She won't thank you, but sounds like a decent stomach pump is in order

Thanks Matty. She is. If regular breathing and heart rate, is there any point in going to hospital?

Trust her mates 100%.

Chance of drink being spiked - high, based on her appearance / reactions / the fact she can drink 99% of people under the table.

No mental issues and she'd have told me if she'd taken drugs knowingly.

Gut instinct says she'll be fine but having spent years working in nightclubs, my main instinct is to dump water on her from the ice bucket and cash up the tills 😉 perhaps Desensitivised.

In the UK I'd go with what mattyfez said. In Thailand I'd be inclined to call a doctor. if she's just 'tired and emotional' then you'll miss out on the 'I got called out the other day for someone who was drunk' stories. If she's been poisoned you'll feel better.

Can you contact any of her friends to see whether her level of intoxication is consistent with what she's drunk?

Put in recovery position, keep an eye on breathing..

This, but, there's an argument that if you're sufficiently worried to ask then you might want to err on the side of caution.

Expect to be in the doghouse for a fortnight regardless of your decision. (-:

We live in Thailand, in case it makes a difference t the answers.

In the UK I'd suggest calling NHS Direct or whatever they're called this week. And I expect they'd say "call an ambulance."

Chance of drink being spiked - high

Also, consider this.

If her condition does deteriorate, how quickly can you get help?

Friends said she'd had "2 shots more" than they did. They were tipsy but nothing like this.

Think it's hospital time. 2am so cashing in a few favours for coming to look after our sleeping boys!

Fingers crossed.

Hope all turns out ok, but the right call if her pulse or breathing deteriorates in the slightest.. who knows what the emergency response time will be in Thailand..

I think you're doing the right thing. Good luck.

Can drive to hospital in 15 minutes, I'd say.

Hospital definitely the right choice for reasons I'll not mention here.
Even if it's only alcohol things can get worse very quickly. If there's other stuff involved that can compound any issues.

Why are you still here?

Hard moving unconscious people by yourself.. Hopefully she's light.

[quote=Cougar ]Why are you still here?

Waiting for childminder to arrive?

Guess he's waiting for baby sitters, as he mentioned kids..
Fingers crossed.

Fingers crossed for you chap

Presume things are too far gone for a sex ambush........?

Chance of drink being spiked - high

I'm off for a sit down in quiet room.

Errrrmmmm

Any update?

😯 crikey

Hope shes ok

I hope she's ok! I'm sure I got spiked once, back in the day, me and my friends had just left a club, waiting for others to come out before going home, a drunk girl handed me a bottle, as she'd had enough and I'm not one to turn down a free drink... I had to be carried home.. I was fine up until that point, and I was merry before, certainly not can't stand up or speak drunk.

Quite worrying, but I like to think the lass who gave me the drink dodged a bullet there!

I've been leaving my drink lying around in clubs for years and never been spiked once, I must be plug ugly.

Happened to me once, it is a truly horrid experience. Especially the night before a Final. Cheers mates, whoever it was. Never forgotten, never forgiven on this one. Deliberately screwing up other people is unforgivable.

Best wishes and loads of fry-ups and paracetamol. Plus loads of orange juice.

But play it safe.

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I've been leaving my drink lying around in clubs for years and never been spiked once, I must be plug ugly.

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If someone is at risk of death, call the Doc.

I think if you can tell the difference between "drunk" and "not quite right regardless of the amount she's had to drink", knowing the person, then medical attention is in order. She may have been wrongly targetted,or unlucky, but seriously even as a male, I can tell you that a spiked drink really screws up a girl in a way being just "drunk" doesn't do.

One friend of a friend (admittedly its tenuous, I've not met her) was raped after a spiked drink, and it's really messed with her mind since.

Yep me to about 10 or 15 times horrid experienced. Every time ive had a big night or was knackered with a big night, got spiked with the fresh air!!!

Thats not me Frankenstein, I'm just a bit like him 🙂

Nah it's not fresh air! I've hit it hard many a time and although there is the fresh air factor, it's different, like mild anesthesia.. It's no joke and it does happen.

Might just be cheap shit knock off spirits too tbf.

hospitals maybe the safest safest option, but id say if she made it home, her breathing and pulse is normal, id be tempted to just leave her in recovery position and keep checking on her. youre in for a sleepless night whichever you choose, so id probably just make sure shes keeps breathing, doesnt choke on sick etc, rather than spend the night at hospital.

then make up whatever story you want in the morning about what she did whilst out of it 8)

Thanks for the concern everyone.

She's fine now. No blood or pee taken for tests so guess we'll never know if her drink was tampered with. Like I said, she wasn't taken advantage of and certainly wasn't any of our friends who did anything so nothing more to do really.

Gut feeling is it wasn't booze though.

Thank goodness she is ok. An old flat mate of mine had her drink spiked while out for a night in London. She went outside and suddenly lost all feeling in her legs before she lost conciousness. Luckily someone saw it happen and called an ambulance. She thinks it was probably the date rape drug that seemed to be used often at the time as it was only her first drink of the evening.

She's fine now.

Very glad to hear that makecoldplayhistory!

If you think the drink was spiked it probably was. Mrs Danny had a similar experience. I can't say 100% someone dumped something in her drink but whilst she had had a few certainly no more than usual and I found her passed out in the toilet.

Brought her round and she said she felt really weird and was acting it too. Never seen her like that before and I know what she's like when she's just really pissed.

Scared her badly and luckily I was with her. Don't like to think what would have happened if I wasn't.

Glad she's ok.

Pleased to hear she's fine. Now have yourself some quality respite/shed-time/ride-time. Maybe not a night on the lash though... 😉

Glad to hear she's Ok.

Alcohol however does cause all those issues others have described, yes even those who "normally are Ok and hasn't had that much". Spiking may happen but it's not as common as people think.

OP you do understand that the Thai "festival" of Songktan now on involves getting absolutely paralytic ? If your wife has been out on that she will have drunk and drunk and probably hard liquor too. A friend of mine said there has alreay been 250 road fatalities this year due to all the drink driving

Glad she seems to be fine now

It's very easy to lay on your back in your sleep and chuckup, or attempt to and die if your paralytic. The Police get called to these. Very sad when it's a bloke who lives alone/is a alcoholic 🙁

As a rule of thumb if my other half days she feels sick and actually starts being sick we are 'ok'. If she was Plastered and quiet, just wanted to sleep I'd stay awake all night. Basically what is she normally like in this situation. If it's out of character- I wouldn't hesitate to focus on and go OTT.

Don't live with regrets