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[Closed] Today's frustration - doing IT support for the inlaws

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My Danish in laws have brought themselves an IP CCTV camera, it's not user friendly so I offered to help. The combination of crap instructions, the locked down internet providers router, their blindly optimistic expectations that things should just work out of the box (they've got a point), and the language barrier makes me want to scream, but I cant so I've written it on here.
It's not a rant BTW so no reason to score it, just want to catharticly state the situation. Schnapps and ole time cant com soon enough.


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 5:00 pm
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It's not a rant BTW
Damn right, 1/10 at best 😀


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 5:06 pm
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Just learn to say no - or at least let them know you tried but it's beyond your capabilities. The shame is better than the ongoing hassle.


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 5:28 pm
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My father in law tried to get me to install some software on his PC yesterday. Luckily, although he had the disks he didn't have the DVD drive with him.


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 5:33 pm
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I have this very often when at my parents. Usually everyone is having a nice time whilst I'm in the study for a few hours sorting out the latest catastrophe 🙁


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 5:42 pm
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Send it back, buy a netgear arlo or similar, they *do* just work.


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 5:45 pm
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'ole' time? Is that northern for sex?


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 6:15 pm
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After 25 years of fixing friends and the in laws computers, taking desperate phone calls when something's gone wrong and so on I really wish I'd never opened my mouth to help originally.

I don't know how IT support don't throw themselves under a bus when their job is remote support with the IT illiterate. It might be the single most frustrating experience, helping family with IT.


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 6:58 pm
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Getting my dad to press the off button on his iPad took 10 minutes, he was convinced there wasn't one 🙄


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 7:16 pm
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my mother in law had an ipad for one whole year before discovering what the 'safari' button did and thus could access the internet.


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 7:23 pm
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My FiL used to do IT support for me. He even built my last PC.

Happy to say I generally muddle through by myself now though.


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 7:38 pm
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Just learn to say no

This. It took some time, but it's a much happier life now.

Someone asked me Wednesday night if I was any good with tax - he doesn't know I used to work in practice accountancy.
My response was: Yes, but I'm not doing your tax return for you. I'm not fixing your computer and I'm not fixing your bike either :mrgreen:


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 8:06 pm
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Rob, you only have yourself to blame here! 😀

Never offer to help with IT!


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 9:57 pm
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Many years ago my sister in law came for christmas dinner with a massive CRT monitor and desktop and asked me to rebuild it for them. Had they bought any of the original software? No.


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 10:08 pm
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Rob, you only have yourself to blame here!

I omitted to say that it's my second attempt, as I tried for the 1st time in August, after 2 days I got it half working but then they changed their router.
Tonight I spent an hour trying to get screen casting working on their TV via Danish menus before giving up. I'm a one eyed king amongst blind people.


 
Posted : 30/12/2016 10:17 pm