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thou shalt not bake homocakes

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Posted : 08/07/2014 12:27 pm
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i ve refused to work in brothels and other 'establishments' only recently.

If my boss asked me to become a prostitute I'd probably say no too.

Probably.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:27 pm
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the swastka is much more than a symbol stolen by the nazi's.

Yes, I'm aware of that.

Well, even nazi's have a right to freedom of political belief and expression: http://www.theguardian.com/law/2012/nov/06/bnp-bus-driver-wins-legal-case

Did the bus driver refuse to allow black passengers on his bus?


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:30 pm
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As a point of order my wedding cake will have NO ****ing rainbows anywhere near it, it will be much more fabulous than that, possibly with swastikas and 40mph signs and perhaps a wind farm or two ( battery operated so they go round and round and with dead seagulls on them)


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:30 pm
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Marridge WTAF Marriage even not porridge

Standards are slipping if we get to page #2 before the spelling police get involved
Maybe its a Gay intolerant cake , some people are Lactose intolerant, some people are gluten intolerant , some people are gay intolerant.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:31 pm
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So when they successfully gain the moral high ground will they insist that the bakers then bake their cake? I'm sure that'll end well.

Remove the moral outrage about persecuting homosexuals and it becomes a complete non-story IMO. Doesn't any shop keeper have the right to refuse service?

Also, a cake with popular childrens characters next to the logo of a (presumably) gay rights campaign group, as a parent should I feel outraged at this? Surely this was intended to provoke somebody if not the baker.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:33 pm
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Remove the moral outrage about persecuting homosexuals and it becomes a complete non-story IMO. Doesn't any shop keeper have the right to refuse service?

Well yes, discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is the story. And no, a shopkeeper doesn't have the right to treat someone differently because they are gay.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:36 pm
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As a point of order my wedding cake will have NO **** rainbows anywhere near it

Point of order two: this wasn't a weddindge or marridge cake - it was just cake featuring a pro-gay marriage slogan (and campaign logo) requested by a gay rights activist specifically to get this reaction (and good on him too).

possibly with swastikas and 40mph signs

You'll have to make the 40mph signs really big or no one will see them.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:37 pm
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Also, a cake with popular childrens characters next to the logo of a (presumably) gay rights campaign group, as a parent should I feel outraged at this?

Only if you think that the 2 characters who live together and share a bedroom as adults are not actually gay. Anyway why is it wrong for children to see gay characters? Is there something morally outrageous about gay couples?


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:39 pm
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Remove the moral outrage about persecuting homosexuals and it becomes a complete non-story IMO.

Same as apartheid really eh?

Also, a cake with popular childrens characters next to the logo of a (presumably) gay rights campaign group, as a parent should I feel outraged at this?

No. But you are free to do so.

This might help:

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Posted : 08/07/2014 12:40 pm
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Graham good point, while a rumble with the bridesmaid in the loos is absolutely what every weddinge needs, no ones going to be pleased if they don't know what speed the cake should be doing.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:41 pm
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Is there something morally outrageous about gay couples

so long as they are two attractive females "acting" in a movie it's ok lol


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:42 pm
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while a rumble with the bridesmaid in the loos is absolutely what every weddinge needs

By "rumble", do you mean "fight" or ...?


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:45 pm
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[i]Hovers over the report button[/i]


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:45 pm
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Put the hoover down emsz.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:47 pm
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Graham....no, not fighting. If you haven't had a bridesmaid at the end of the weddingde/marrridgde then either she's not drunk enough or your pulling powers aren't up to much


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:48 pm
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so long as they are two attractive [s]females[/s] males "acting" in a movie it's ok lol

FTFY


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:49 pm
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so long as they are two attractive females males "acting" in a movie it's ok lol

FTFY

like brad pitt and george clooney in oceans 11?


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:50 pm
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Graham....no, not fighting.

You kids and your slang. In my day "rumble" meant fight.

Still that puts a very different slant on

If you haven't had a bridesmaid at the end of the weddingde/marrridgde then either she's not drunk enough or your pulling powers aren't up to much

My bridesmaid was my sister. She didn't get [i]that[/i] drunk!


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:51 pm
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Put the hoover down emsz.

and pick up a dish cloth?


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:51 pm
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[i]If you haven't had a bridesmaid at the end of the weddingde/marrridgde then either she's not drunk enough or your pulling powers aren't up to much[/i]

Or they're your nieces?


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:51 pm
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Anyway why is it wrong for children to see gay characters?
It's not, but why is it so important to point out to a five year old that they're gay? It never occurred to me that they might be gay, when did they come out? Morcambe and Wise appeared on TV sharing a bed, were they gay too?
Same as apartheid really eh?
Well, no not really. A baker doesn't want to bake a cake for someone, he's not inciting anything as far as I can tell, he just doesn't want to bake a cake for someone.

Some people don't like homosexuals, flouncing and trying to force them to like homosexuals is likely to be counter productive don't you think?


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:52 pm
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It's pretty obvious the order was placed there to get a reaction.

The company reacted.

There is only one winner - the lawyers.


 
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like brad pitt and george clooney in oceans 11?

I don't recall Pitt/Clooney having adult fun in the men's room, I'll have to check that out again to see what I've missed...!

and pick up a dish cloth?

Err, that can be considered out of order. Can you clarify? Don't dis the Emsz!


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:55 pm
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It's not, but why is it so important to point out to a five year old that they're gay?

You don't "point out" anything - [i]that's[/i] the point. It's normal.

> Same as apartheid really eh?

Well, no not really. A baker doesn't want to bake a cake for someone, he's not inciting anything as far as I can tell

Apartheid isn't "inciting" anything either - everything would be fine if those black people would stop making such a fuss and stick to their own drinking fountains etc.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 12:56 pm
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Quite ridiculous this, As its a bespoke piece it should be in the bakers remit to take or not take the commision the same way an artist decides what to paint.
What about the bakers rights, should they be forced to do something against there beliefs to conform to society.
I don't think so, its in the shop owners rights to refuse service, they should however have been far cleverer about how they did this.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:06 pm
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These cases are quite difficult in my view because whilst gays have a right not to be discriminated against, the religious also have protection under the Equality Act 2010, so whose rights trump whose when they conflict or should a middle ground be found? Whilst I am not sure of the answer, I am pretty sure that activists purposely, to use forum terminology, trolling over a relatively frivolous item is not the best way to either develop the law or gain greater sympathy for their cause. (This is equally the case for the Christian groups that do the equivalent). I am sure that there are more important cases that could be pursued with the public money that will be spent if it goes to court.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:08 pm
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Ok so no shagging the relleys, fair point. I'm just bragging that I'm 2 for 2 this summer.

[boom Chica waah waah]

[i]Some people don't like homosexuals,[/i] you mean the thought of homosexuality? Right? I mean how would you tell otherwise? What if they came into your shop and wanted a nazi themed rainbow marridged cake. Then you'd be all conflicted and shit.

Didn't think of that!!!

Busted


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:08 pm
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I'm just bragging that I'm 2 for 2 this summer.

Pics or it didn't happen... ๐Ÿ˜‰

Seriously though, will you be trying for 3 for 3 at your own wedding ... ?


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:11 pm
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Quite ridiculous this, As its a bespoke piece it should be in the bakers remit to take or not take the commision the same way an artist decides what to paint.

There was in fact a very well argued case in the US Supreme Court recently about whether a wedding photographer was entitled to decline commissions for gay marriages because she didn't like gays. The outcome was the court said - it's business, not art, and you should do what you're in business to do according to the law. (I might have remembered everything backwards).
Can't believe it's made the BBC news, to be honest.
Wouldn't you just go to a different cake shop?

"Sorry, pal, we won't write "happy communion", maybe youse should try a Tim cake shop, eh?"


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:13 pm
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Whilst I am not sure of the answer, I am pretty sure that activists purposely, to use forum terminology, trolling over a relatively frivolous item is not the best way to either develop the law or gain greater sympathy for their cause.

Maybe, but it made headlines and got all of us talking about it - so I'd say job done really.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:13 pm
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Nashwaymule, they make cakes...for weddings...they can't just pick and chose what laws they feel like.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:14 pm
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I agree the shop owner should be free to refuse service to anyone he wants. It's discrimination, yes, and religion IMO is a fool, and a divisive fool at that. As a graphic designer and vegetarian (in past years) I've refused (as an individual) to do jobs for butchers, yet Iknew that someone else in the company would do the job. When a company refuses to make something they obviously have a policy and should make that clear in their adverts/point of sale to save confusion.

We have a right to be free, and a right to be offended, but where do we stop taking people's rights away to manufacture or not manufacture based upon idealogy/discrimination? i'd love a good concise answer to this, but haven't seen one yet.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:14 pm
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What about the bakers rights, should they be forced to do something against there beliefs to conform to society.

Yes.

They run a business, offering a service to the public.
They should not be allowed to refuse that service based on someone's sexuality, religion or ethnicity.

Do you think it would be okay for a golf club to refuse to accept black people as members?

I don't think so, its in the shop owners rights to refuse service, they should however have been far cleverer about how they did this.

Nah. At least they had the balls to publicly stand by their beliefs, even if I think they are misguided.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:19 pm
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The baker said the bible is clearly against homosexuality, but they sell sausage rolls.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:19 pm
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They should not be allowed to refuse that service based on someone's sexuality, religion or ethnicity.

Do you think it would be okay for a golf club to refuse to accept black people as members?

they refuse females as members


 
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Religion. Still poisoning everything. ๐Ÿ™„


 
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Posted : 08/07/2014 1:21 pm
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As far as I can see he's not refused to serve the person he's refused to make a design that he disagrees with. It'd be discrimination if he refused to bake the person a cake full stop or would make the design for a straight customer.
It looks like in this case you've of the whole bell as there's 2 bell ends though.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:21 pm
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They should not be allowed to refuse that service based on someone's sexuality, religion or ethnicity.

They didn't. The refused to make a cake for a cause they don't believe in. A straight person could of asked for the same cake and they would of had the same result.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:22 pm
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they refuse females as members

And if someone challenged that then I'd support them too.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:27 pm
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Some people don't like homosexuals, you mean the thought of homosexuality? Right? I mean how would you tell otherwise?
No, I mean some people don't like homosexuals. I've no idea why they don't like them, nor do I care. What they think is up to them and I'm too indifferent in this particular topic to try to persuade them either way. What I don't understand is why a lot of people seem to think it's OK to tell them what they should and shouldn't like.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:31 pm
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[i]What about the bakers rights, should they be forced to do something against there beliefs to conform to society.

Yes.[/i]

How boring would that've been? Cake made. No news. No thread. Nothing. ๐Ÿ™


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:32 pm
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some people don't like homosexuals... What I don't understand is why a lot of people seem to think it's OK to tell them what they should and shouldn't like.

What homophobes choose to do in the privacy of their own homes is their business, but I don't want my kids seeing it.


 
Posted : 08/07/2014 1:33 pm
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They should not be allowed to refuse that service based on someone's sexuality, religion or ethnicity.
So the Halal butcher should sell me bacon if I asked him, or should I go to another butcher?


 
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