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Dunno about others but I like to ease off to aid overtaking for long or slow vehicles.
Of course Al, as you're always going so fast! 😕
Self-control is a sign of a mature and psychologically sound person.
So not everyone can override their natural urge to get angry when confronted or scared.
Personally I make my feelings known remotely - by waving my arms around, or just putting it down to them being an idiot and staying away. Too easy to come to harm when it's car vs bike
I frequently get angry (I see this as a flaw) but I struggle to conceive of a situation where I would be physically violent, any issues I have had have been in defence. I dont get a red face or shout.
Well that's great, but how does you explaining your less common case help this thread?
I am the same FWIW.
by waving my arms around
I did the handle-shuffle once. The lad braked hard and selected reverse (at speed).
What really works us the 'what' open arm gesture? Works in the car as well. combatitive-types lookout for and get off on aggressive hand movements IMO.
...but as you say- the best thing to do is nothing. Stressing out cancels out the benefit of cycling into work.
Bigyinn it's nothing to do with speed as the op has demonstrated.
Well that's great, but how does you explaining your less common case help this thread?
Dont know but surely even anecdotaly it makes a greater contribution than telling the aggressor that you are sorry. 🙄
You're not telling the agressor you're sorry for getting in their way.
You're opening a sentence with a common disarming turn of phrase in order that your conversation might achieve a useful end.
I think that's a useful life lesson. And it works for me often.
but as you say- the best thing to do is nothing
But surely that just reinforces bad/dangerous behaviour. We can disagree on what response is appropriate but in my opinion there should at least be one.
cynic-al - MemberDunno about others but I like to ease off to aid overtaking for long or slow vehicles.
Yup - in conjunction with owning my space in the road so they can only overtake when [i]I deem[/i] it safe. So when the road is narrow I am right out into the road stopping them squeezing past, When there is enough room for them to pass safely I tuck into the edge, stop pedalling and wave them thru
Reasonable questions along the lines of "does my safety matter to you" are pretty disarming IMO.
, When there is enough room for them to pass safely I tuck into the edge, stop pedalling and wave them thru
A good idea but too often abused, giving us a bad name.
Al - always done with my safety as the paramount concern - but it seems reasonable that if I have been forceful in making them wait behind I acknowledge their patience in doing so and make it easy to pass when I deem it safe
I don't really see how it could be abused
I like to ease off to aid overtaking for long or slow vehicles.
I like them to wait till there is enough room to overtake me safely like the highway code says they should do.
I don't really see how it could be abused
Folk do it where it's not necessary.
Me too!Junkyard - MemberI like them to wait till there is enough room to overtake me safely like the highway code says they should do.
I ride on the pavement, it's much safer.
Anyway, thought you'd like to know I made it home without incident, phew, but thought better about cycling in this morning. Silly I know.
Thanks for all the advice. Think I'll think twice before opening gob next time! 😆
Stay safe.
B
Don't let em get to you! Especially not in this perfect riding weather
If I realise I am holding up traffic and might be for a few hundred yards more, I pull over or hop onto the pavement.
Glad to hear you are safe DD.
Last time I had a lorry pull back in on me to soon I chased after him as I knew he would have to stop up ahead and when I did catch up with him and pointed out that he'd pulled back in on me he was very apologetic which completely through me. So there are some good lorry drivers who like the rest of us miss judge things and are ready to say sorry.