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so what shall i get her?nothing wont go down well,and shes well into me so im not after cresting a massive statement or gesture.
just havent got a clue what to get her...?
tickets to something, show concert etc.
You clearly like her. Why mess around?.....
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tickets to something, show concert etc.
the gun show?
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price limit?
vouchers for massage or something girly and indulgent
A gun rack?
ODB,
What carbon337 said. if you're still in the dating zone, make it a "mega" date!?
DB
Something not high value but with some thought behind it.
Sweet merciful Zeus, she's expecting you to get her a present after only 10 days? Not getting her one "Won't go down well"?
RUN! RUUUUNNNN!
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How about tickets for this?
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Mrs Toast speaks sense.
odannyboy, I thought I was a pretty swift mover but to go from cohabiting with the mother of your children under a cloud of despair to dating in a matter of weeks is quite the remarkable turnaround.
Get her some flowers. 10 days is too soon to be [i]demanding[/i] gifts. What has she got you?
shes well into me
Why would she not be ? You seem to know her so well she is indeed a lucky bird 😕
I'm with MrsToast. If she expects a present already she is a grabbing harpy so you should save the money and buy yourself some running shoes.
However, if she has not indicated the requirement for gratification in the form of gifts, then she might be a nice person.
Tricky area because yes, you will be judged. Thoughtfulness and knowing what she likes (which will mean you have listened to at least two words rather than staring at her chest) will score big points.
Spending loads of money is out, as if she is a nice person she will think "what kind of slapper does he think I am that he can buy my affections". If she likes expensive present, well then it's back to the start.
If you don't know what she likes you are in trouble, however help is at hand. Champagne. Not too expensive, £20-30 should buy you a bottle actually made in France.
If she doesn't drink, you are screwed. Or not, as is more likely.
No need to thank me.
Sweet merciful Zeus
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What about a nice little gift that has some thought behind it, not the usual cliched rubbish. Something that appeals to her as an individual.
What is the reason behind the gift? Birthday, or something else? You say you've only known her for 10 days, is that in the biblical sense, or in the frienship/dating sense? Or have you known her in the dating/frienship sense for longer?
No suggestions from me at the moment!
It wouldn't occur to me to get a present for someone I'd known for 10 days. Different if they were moving into a new flat, starting a new job etc, but otherwise definitely not. Otherwise you start getting into that dreadful "and then Dave got me this for out 3-month anniversary" situation.
And anyone who expected one would get the elbow; if , on the other hand, I was "well into" (urgh, horrible phrase) someone, and [i]wanted[/i] to get them a present...well, that's a completely different scenario.
Doesn't sound to me as though you want to buy her a present, ergo you should refrain from doing so.
what about some shiney bike bits.... (make sure they fit your bike)
Singletrackworld subscription??
If she is 'well into you' and happy being referred to as a 'bird', could I respectfully suggest a nice kebab and a bag of chips as a suitable gift to mark the occasion?
anal lube?
been seeing someone for not too long and she suggested a weekend away. sounded good, she suggested york and asked me to organise it.
brilliant, we went to the steam train gala at pickering and spent a couple of nights at the brewery in cropton
she might organise the next one, if there is one....
Give her an angry pirate.
Get her a bible. Should scare her off.
Pearl necklace?
GlitterGary - Member
A gun rack?
but does she own a gun let alone many guns that would necessitate an entire rack. What is she going to do with a gun rack?
What about a nice Cleaveland Steamer?
I'd just take her for dinner.
rabbit?
butt plug?
Arabian goggles?
Something that shows you've been listening.
(Don't get a card if you can't remember what her name is)
jumbo box of condoms and 12 cans of monster energy?
a goat for africa?
just print the page from the oxfam brochure.
don't actually pay oxfam, the bird will never find out and then go and spend the money you've saved on yourself at LBS
happy dayz
Is this bird special?
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(Christmas is a rubbish time cos you can't hang your washing out)
An iron?
bake her a cake (providing you can bake and its her birthday).
Lass I'd been seeing for a short while before my birthday made me a cake. I thought it was an ace present.
@ famer giles
coffee meet screen, coffee meet keyboard! 😆
family heirloom.. something with tonnes of sentiment.. your great grannies eternity ring or something.. make a HUGE ceromony about it too.. she'll LOVE it
How about a garage door repair kit?
thekingisdead +1, although I'd go for biscuits and stick them in a gift box.
edit: though unless it's her birthday I don't know why you're buying her anything anyhow.
Take her out for a meal.
Buy her something that she's mentioned she likes.. like a cd of a band she's mentioned liking. Just a little token gift, but something that clearly shows you've been listening to her this last 10 days.
Your VD clinic test results?
Get her a card and take her out to dinner. Simples!
The first couple of posts on this thread has restored my faith in STW.