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STW is basically the top-gear audience and all the style that goes with it, just that nobody has admitted to wearing a blouson rally jacket with small race team logo on the front (huge on the back) as their 'going out' outfit.

that's more pistonheads isn't it? I'd characterize STW style as looking like a bargain bin raiding freerider with a pillow up his shirt


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 11:56 am
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I think tucked in shirt and jeans is somewhat maligned. Yes, if it's an office shirt then you do look like the finance director on a day off, but with a decently colourful / patterned shirt and decent jeans (Edwin and Gustin for me plus a pair of black 501s for 'not obviously jeans') I reckon it's doable for a semi-formal occasion such as dinner at a decent place.

Otherwise, it's shorts and t-shirts for as long as I can stand the cold, and then older edwins and t-shirts for winter, with suit +/- tie for properly formal.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 11:57 am
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I think tucked in shirt and jeans is somewhat maligned.

I always thought an untucked shirt and jeans was chav dress style? It certainly used to be the case that on a Friday / Saturday night Cambridge City centre was invaded by the inbreds from the fens who all wore the uniform of untucked shirt and branded jeans and then got blind drunk by about 7.30 before kicking off....


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 12:14 pm
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Well cut jeans in dark blue, not black.
Slim cut shirt, one designed for casual wear and not a shirt that you'd wear with a suit. White is good if you can find a good shirt, blues and pinks are fine too. And tuck it in FFS, you're not a ruffian.
Jacket if needed. Not a suit jacket, likely a thicker weave, maybe tweed if you fancy it, if not navy blue is good. Pocket square optional.
Brown shoes or boots, I like brogues but others work as well. What they are not is your office shoes, they're also unlikely to be black.
Nice belt that matches your shoes.

Done. Not Top Gear style as your jeans won't be baggy, your shirt will fit and you won't be an insufferable fool.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 12:18 pm
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Just think Ed Reardon for me.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 12:22 pm
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Other than work / funerals / weddings, I don't go anywhere too posh for jeans. For gigs I wear black jeans, t-shirt, shirt, decent boots


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 12:28 pm
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Is it wrong that Morrissey is my style icon in that regard. I'm aiming for this

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As opposed to this

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Posted : 05/09/2015 12:32 pm
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Better brands bought used from EBay
e.g. Patagonia,Paul Smith,Boden,Ted Baker etc etc.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 12:49 pm
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Another 43 year old. Not sure if I'm middle aged, probably...

Zara for me for that not-quite-formal-but-not-tshirt look, as it's pretty reasonably priced in Spain, and I'm slim enough to wear their stuff. Although right now I'm sitting here in Decathlon shorts and an H&M T-shirt...


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 1:05 pm
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I always thought an untucked shirt and jeans was chav dress style? It certainly used to be the case that on a Friday / Saturday night Cambridge City centre was invaded by the inbreds from the fens who all wore the uniform of untucked shirt and branded jeans and then got blind drunk by about 7.30 before kicking off....

And tuck it in FFS, you're not a ruffian.

This is not me (not sure that's my sort of jacket, I'd have socks on and converse or a smarter shoe if I wanted to tune it up a bit more) but not far off . Not sure that untucked shirt has to say chav/ruffian. Must stress, this is not I would wear out of choice - default is still jeans, t shirt and/or hoody if I can get away with it, but it's there to fill the gap for things like gallery openings and to put off going anywhere proper smart save funerals.

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Posted : 05/09/2015 1:06 pm
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If you've got past 30, and still haven't figured out what suits you and how to dress properly, then it's too late I'm afraid. If you're trying to look 'cool', then you'll fail, as that's something that can only come naturally. You could try to dress exactly the same way as someone who does look 'cool', and fail miserable. The best thing is to just wear what makes you feel comfortable. At least you'll feel comfortable, and not as awkward as a chav in a cheap suit up before the beak.

The best way to be, is to look like you don't give a ****. Be that in a 3-piece suit, or old work gear. And not to give a shit what others think of you.

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Posted : 05/09/2015 1:12 pm
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Selvage and a nato strap 8)


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 1:12 pm
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I got a mate who works in M& S....not in the shop ..but at the HQ...he is quite high up the ladder
Anyway I was talking to him saying how shit menswear at M& S is...
And he's reply to me
Was we don't cater for people who dress up as pop stars!!....were both 43.....but you would think the age between us was 10 years....
Maybe when I was younger and trying to get into pubs ...I should have just dressed in M&S clothes to make me look older...lol


 
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And if you're over 30 anyway, why are you worried about how you look?|

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Posted : 05/09/2015 1:19 pm
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Summer casual is a plain tee, some pre wash jeans (nudie normally) and chucks. Smart (as I get) is something like an Oxford shirt, chinos and cleaner chucks.
Winter casual will be a sweater (reigning champ are good), patagonia coat, cuffed jeans and boots, smarter similar, raw lee 101s, plaid shirt and red wings with a reefer coat.
When buying clothes, timing is everything. Buy out of season. All of my redwings were half price or better.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 1:24 pm
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I try to look like this gentleman.
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Posted : 05/09/2015 1:41 pm
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I'll just leave this link here as long as you know you sizes,job done

https://www.weargustin.com


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 1:45 pm
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Cargo shorts trainers and t shirts nearly all the time .I am toying with the idea of shorts to my wedding .I hate getting ponced up .If its cold a cheap hoodie or a decent fleece top


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 1:45 pm
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How many of you think those awful boat shoes look good ? I have the urge to point and laugh everytime I see them worn.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 2:03 pm
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Dear God.

Just go along to Boss and get a decent salesman/woman to dress you. Explain you want to look normal in everyday life and trust them that they'll dress you correctly. Pay your money, stand tall and walk out looking normal. I do have one caveat and that's don't buy the large obnoxious logo garments they sometimes sell. Other than that it'll cost you£1000 to kit you out.

Suck it up and pay it.

HTHs


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 2:14 pm
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£1000

...on clothes - are you mad!? 😀


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 2:17 pm
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£1000
...on clothes - are you mad!?

'Normal' - if I read correctly?

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Posted : 05/09/2015 2:38 pm
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£1000
...on clothes - are you mad!?

That's a lot of T shirts and shorts!


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 2:55 pm
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"Middleaged" is a state of mind, one that should be avoided if you want joy in your life.

Personally, jeans, a nice thick casual shirt untucked (if it's got a tail you can't do that) and a nice pair of casual tan leather shoes is me from very casual all the way up to wedding/interview/court.

Most of the time though it's t-shirt, jeans and trainers.

I wear everything without giving too much of a shit and it suits me. A lack of confidence sticks out far more than the wrong type of shirt or shoes.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 3:27 pm
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I do have one caveat
that's CRAVAT, BB 😀


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 3:33 pm
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Can't go wrong with walking trousers.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 3:37 pm
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Can't go wrong with walking trousers.

as long as they're Hugo Boss


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 3:42 pm
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I've been wearing hoodies and skate shoes ( mostly Animal ) for years and I'm heading full pelt for 60 in November , thing is I don't give a flying you know what what other people think 🙂 There problem not mine ! Worn Animal gear for yonks for several reasons , mainly for supporting MTBing , reasonably priced and darn good quality 🙂 Recently revisited my skinhead past with a check and a two tone Ben Sherman and Levi's , what goes around etc . If new footwear is needed DMs might be on the list . Trouble is I'm old enough to remember when they were reasonably priced and made in this country 🙁 Now they are around 100 quid and made in China 🙁


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 3:53 pm
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Start at the bottom with very good shoes I reckon 200 quid is about the cheapest you'll pay for a decent pair although you can get something for less if you shop around the sales. I really like Loake as they are good value. Lots of choice for trousers but I avoid anything with prominent logos Hugo Boss are a good fit over cyclists thighs but Uniglo make some decent value trousers. Shirts again no logos I think they just look cheap and a bit silly TBH, I like Uniglo shirts for value they last and wash well. Good jackets/blazers are expensive but worth paying for or even better have one tailored or buy something expensive SH and have it altered.

Mostly I'm in combat shorts or jeans and tshirts but my job requires I dress smasual a lot of the time.
Just choose clothes that fit well, are made from good fabrics and you feel comfortable wearing, personally my main rules are no or very discrete branding and try not to be fashionable just timeless.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 3:54 pm
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Currently shorts and a T-shirt which says "Rock the Vinyl". The Ramones one is in the wash. I'll put sandals on if I go out.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 3:55 pm
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Clothes shopping?

Is that a thing?


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 3:59 pm
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Another one for not giving a stuff for what others think. I wear what I like, normally cheap stuff because clothes are a waste of money, compered to other stuff.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 4:08 pm
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FP, clean Levi's and Geox pseudo trainers or Timberland boots. Coat? Dark navy Marc O'Polo jacket or Jaeger pea coat.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 4:27 pm
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Clothes shopping?
Is that a thing?

My wife thinks it's a pastime, she buys all my clothes for me.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 5:03 pm
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quick question guys/gals .. can I still wear [url= http://store.nike.com/gb/en_gb/pd/air-max-90-essential-shoe/pid-10299038/pgid-11065439 ]Nike Air Max 90[/url] trainers? ..my kid says no 🙁 ..but we are going back to Rome next month and I think this shoes will b very comfortable with all the cobbles you have to walk there. I'm almost 38 by the way.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 5:07 pm
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Chuckling at the amount of anti M&S snobbery on here. They sell some really good suits and some less formal trousers and shirts which are right up there in style and quality. Maybe just not the label some folk feel they need.....


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 5:19 pm
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I reckon 200 quid is about the cheapest you'll pay for a decent pair although you can get something for less if you shop around the sales. I really like Loake as they are good value.

95% of Loake shoes are less than £200 even at RRP, most are nearer the £100 mark.

Chuckling at the amount of anti M&S snobbery on here. They sell some really good suits and some less formal trousers and shirts which are right up there in style

Formal stuff yes, but they're casual stuff is truly dreadful, you'd really have to have given up the will to live to buy any.


 
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Exposed full arm tats and a neat trimmed styled beard, all clothes will work with that......currently, no belly of course.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 5:22 pm
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LVC 1954 washed denim
APC raw denim
Chino Shorts
Norse Projects tee/ls tees/hoodies
Nikes - currently Flyknit Max
Red Wings

nothing with a logo/picture, apart from the small square at the front bottom of the norse stuff, did have my 4 year old tell me i had my t-shirt on the wrong way as the tags at the front, so might be time to change that 😆


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 5:23 pm
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Footflaps Loake have a few ranges

http://www.loake.co.uk/byrange/loake-1880.html

I agree they do have some cheaper shoes hence me mentioning them being good value.


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 5:35 pm
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Firetrap , diesel jeans , random t shirts ,and Adidas originals Sambas and Goodyear trainies ,various North Face fleeces and softshell jackets and when trying to impress I will chuck a shirt on YSL ,Boss and the like

I'm 40 and lucky I get to wear what I want for work and no longer interested in the whole pub / club thing comfy casual all the way


 
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quick question guys/gals .. can I still wear Nike Air Max 90 trainers?

yup, as long as you don't tighten the laces like this

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Posted : 05/09/2015 5:47 pm
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Formal stuff yes, but they're casual stuff is truly dreadful, you'd really have to have given up the will to live to buy any.

I was in M&S today buying some undercrakers, and I have to admit some of the casual shirts and shorts looked just like you'd buy in Next, TKMax etc. and some of the prices were cheaper.

When you order a sports-jacket from the Sunday supplement - THAT'S when you've lost the will to live! 😀


 
Posted : 05/09/2015 6:03 pm
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Zara for men do some nice clobber.
I'm nearly 45 and I've got to admit that I'm having difficulty finding anything I like/won't look like I'm trying to dress young in.
Generally wear Firetrap, Diesel or other brands that you don't need to sell a kidney to afford.
People still get me River Island vouchers for Christmas.
I spend them on socks.


 
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