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Im only half joking as Im writing this but now that Im a sad old git Ive suddenly realised that I dress like one too, which is fine but I have a few social functions coming up were Levis coupled with a selection of Decathlon tops just wont cut it - and Im serious
The jeans and T shirt look is fine so far, Im in pretty good shape being a cyclist, and I can also scrub up and get into the only suit I own which looks OK too, its just the bits in between where I struggle - too posh for jeans but not stuffy enough for a suit
Whenever I try stuff on in M&S or Next I just look like Alan Partridge
Places like Hugo Boss look interesting but Id rather spend that sort of cash on bike stuff
So STW old farts - where do you do your clothes shopping?
Im fairly sure for most like me it will be Decathlon and CRC/Endura 🙂
Cheers
I used Massimo Dutti quite a bit, good styling without the Armani prices.
Today I will be mostly wearing...
Merrell trainers (North Face shop)
Yellow Levis (cheap from Sports Direct)
Black T shirt with the silhouette of a Storm Trooper's helmet printed on it(T'internet)
Black lightweight fleece (M&S)
Shirts, trousers, suit, undies, sock all from M&S, shoes from Clarks. Always. Mostly because I can't be arsed looking anywhere else.
I am 46.
And extremely cool 😉
And extremely cool
And incapable of reading.... 😉
its just the bits in between where I struggle - too posh for jeans but not stuffy enough for a suit
Dark coloured "combat" trousers mostly fill that gap for me. Not too many pockets though and steer away from those with baggy, laced legs.
Universal Works for casual and reasonably smart t-shirts, trousers, suits, waistcoats
Agnés b for t-shirts, shirts, suits, jackets, trousers and jeans
Cos for shirts
Nicole Farhi for tailored trousers
I went through a period of the Kooples, but have come to the opinion that it's too expensive for what it is
There is no bit between jeans and posh. Just better jeans worn with ankle boots. From Clarks.And incapable of reading....
[NOT MIDDLE AGED YET]
but you know where it's at just give in and throw that M&S jumper over your shoulders
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Whenever I try stuff on in M&S or Next I just look like Alan Partridge
One of the reasons that Partridge was such a brilliant comic creation. You can't escape it. Embrace it.
I'm starting to wonder if tattoos are the only way to subvert it, but I suspect that's not what you're after...
Just better jeans worn with ankle boots.
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Having spent a working life in suits I am now generally found in
Carhartt carpenter's jeans
French or German chore coat
Shirts from Tyrwhitt, Duchamp, Paul Costelloe, Hawes and Curtice
Timberland walking boots or shoes from Northamptonshire
Fifty nine and fully functional
Blimey this thread is funny.
M&S...really? Style suicide.
Easy to get some nice shirts and trousers from TK, gap, H&M.
Crocs
But not outside the house 😉
Uniqlo seem to have kit for every occasion.
And their Selvedge jeans are great, granted, that won't interest you, but worth having a look..
There is no bit between jeans and posh. Just better jeans worn with ankle boots. From Clarks.
To be fair I sort of see your point. There is the whole world of chinoesque but it's somewhere I try to avoid. I do find myself doing the v posh jeans (Ted Baker or similar that are cut a bit more like a trouser than a jean) and plain untucked shirt (actual shirt not polo or T )and a jacket. The shirt and jacket bit making up for the less sartorial below the waistline bit. But then I look in the mirror, see a scaled up balding version of the little one from Top Gear and want to punch myself in the face.
These days jeans are the thread joining between casual and smart(er).
Some decent jeans*, leather shoes, shirt (tucked in Convert!) will go pretty far. Add a jacket, and you're good for a range of scenarios.
*the difference between this and top gear is in the quality and cut of the jeans. In fact, with all of the above the cut is the most important differential between looking good for one's age and Norwich's finest unemployable radio DJ....
I'm 6' 5" and 80kg so very few brands make any clothes that actually fit me - none of those brands Andrew lists..... Proper fit makes more difference than anything in my opinion. Try and find some brands that fit your build.
Nothing wrong with M&S if you buy simple good quality classics rather than trying to buy fashion. Their suits and jackets can be good and some of the knitwear. Uniqlo knitwear is a steal as well
Jeans and trousers again worry less about the brand and more about the cut and fit. Saggy arsed jeans will look a mess even if the say Armani on the label. Eg Levi's look shit on me - skinny stuff won't clear my cyclists thighs, 501s don't fit waist/arse but G-Star work (but have to search of stuff that isn't over designed)
These chinos look good http://spoke-london.com/collections/original-spokes
Shirts - again fit is 90% of it (and untucked is always going to look Top Gear). M&S made to measure is excellent and you can strip down the design and lose all the plackets to get a smart modern slim fit shirt.
http://www.marksandspencer.com/s/men/made-to-measure-shirts
tucked in Convert!
No - can't do that! Tucked in shirt and no tie and I think the look says 'accountant removing tie trying to fit in'. And that's worse than looking like a hamster. Finding a shirt that looks good untucked is hard though - it must be slim fitting and the tails of the shirt rounded and be only a 2 or 3 inches longer than the top of the jean. Your average shirt designed to wear with a tie worn without and untucked but with a jacket won't cut it. In my opinion of course 😉
I'm 52 and rarely accused of being a fashion victim 😳 The wife does her best to try and smarten me up a bit some thoughts brands. I'd say I have a bit of a country look
Nice jeans (eg Boss in Black) plus polo shirts or other smart casual shirts is a cut above blue jeans and decathlon. I like Gant and Banana Republic too.
I have a couple of casual jackets from Boden
For summer/autumn a few pairs of chinos in different colours and weights
Some decent shoes smarten up everything inc jeans, eg short jodpur / riding boots or even smarter "work shoes" you would wear with your suit. I like Russell and Bromley
Work wise I work at home so its outdoor style trousers usually. Meetings it'll be a pair of lightweight chinos or similar, smart shoes. Even a pair of decent 501s (black) is probably just about OK depending on client.
Sports jacket maybe, or anonymous jacket of some kind. My boss gets away with outrageous Barbours, housecoats and the like but I couldn't carry that off.
Shirts - M&S or couple of better ones, YSL or Paul Smith (occasionally). Ties sometimes but not comedy ones.
Uniqlo, not expensive and not bad design.
There is no gap between casual and suit. If I can't 'get in' wearing shorts or combats with a t-shirt or the full suit & boot I don't want to be there.
That said, I do own one pair of narrow legged not-quite-chino type trousers (black of course) to wear with my patent DMs as I can't quite pull off the shorts and boots look any more.
45.
You wouldn't look like Alan Partridge in [url= http://www.bobparratt.co.uk/ ]this lot.[/url]
I like fat face stuff.
If it's not a jeans and t shirt do, then it's smart jeans and a polo top. I have quite a few fat face polo tops....
They are expensive but last aaaagggggeeeessssss.... So it appeals to a style free tightwad like myself.
41 (just) and even cooler.than Harry T spider....
Diesel for jeans (Costco), Ted Baker for anything else. Well made stuff that lasts well.
I'm a lanky 6'6" and their #5 shirts fit great, same with their pants. Try a Ted Baker waistcoat with a nice shirt and some decent jeans. Leather Vans or again Ted Baker shoes.
Glasses by Starck or Alain Mikli
Aged 43 and still getting the (V.K.'s)
Im 43 and my usual wares are jeans and either northface or superdry t-shirt with scruffy karrimor trainers or timberland boots.
Now and again if out in the evening with the mrs ill wear a short sleaved shirt but thats it Very rarly go any whhere that requires to be dressed beyond this.
When its cold ill add a fatface huddie it has to be bloody cold before i wear any sort of coat.
Universal Works for casual and reasonably smart t-shirts, trousers, suits, waistcoats
Agnés b for t-shirts, shirts, suits, jackets, trousers and jeans
Cos for shirts
Nicole Farhi for tailored trousers
I went through a period of the Kooples, but have come to the opinion that it's too expensive for what it is
I read your post and for a second I thought I had written that but not heard of Cos shirts so I wasn't me. Big fan of universal works especially the suits as they are unstructured so smart but not super-smart so can wear with anything, and if theirs and Farhi cuts fit you then have a look at whistles menswear, I have a slim waist and reasonably wide shoulders so a lot of stuff cut for the 21st century obese shape doesn't fit but those brands do.
I find mixing up expensive and cheap works for me, everyday shirts from muji and uniqlo (and their jumpers) with high quality shoes (trickers) and proper denim (raw selvage) and coats jackets (private white, Wolsey etc) If I want to treat myself then APC, Albam, Folk, Farhi Etc.
If you don't have the budget then then big stores own brands still offer good value and it's not difficult to stop looking like your mum dresses you or a middle aged man wearing teenagers clothes (why do they do that?)
I like the greyfoxblog mainly to find different brands
Ha ! at 48, I practice outcome independence ie (I don't give a ****)
Mix between tech outdoor apparel M/C gear and high vis 
On body:
Shorts and cotton tees or button-shirts in summer. Will roll sleeves of shirt up if too hot.
Long trousers/jeans/etc and tees with jackets in winter
Jumpers if freezing cold
Swimming shorts in the pool
On feet:
slip-ons indoors or camping holidays
Walking boots or cross trainers if navigating terrain or tarmac
On Head:
I wear hats with brims or peaks in bright sun or woolly ones in freezing winds etc
Workwear:
Painting - old clothes
Photography - outdoor clothes as above
Manual labour - old clothes
I'm 43 and don't own a pair of jeans, is there something wrong with me 😆
convert - Member
No - can't do that! Tucked in shirt and no tie and I think the look says 'accountant removing tie trying to fit in'. And that's worse than looking like a hamster
I hate tucked in shirts and hate ties. Even at work. I generally refuse to wear an office uniform when there isn't a uniform but all the blokes dress the same.
I'm also with Richard Branson on his opinion on ties. Though I don't go around with scissors cutting other people's ties off, but do feel like it sometimes 😀
Tucked in shirts and shorts are even worse.
Doesn't help when you have a bit of a belly though. Tucked in shirt makes you the office fat bloke.
Thankfully I'm at an age and working as a contractor and the software industry I'm in, where I can even get away with the casual look for getting work. I don't call it an interview as often it's informal chat with someone I probably know. Could even be at a coffee shop. And that's another hate of mine... interviews at coffee shops where the candidate wears a suit and tie!
What age is considered middle aged these days ??....I'm 43 and I don't feel like I've reached half way yet??
[quote=cheekyget ]What age is considered middle aged these days ??
It's complicated...
http://www.nhs.uk/news/2015/04April/Pages/60-the-new-40-claims-media.aspx
40 is definitely middle aged, mid 30's still young-ish in my opinion. I wouldn't say 60 is old but it's getting close.
(I forgot) evening wear:
A few drops of brown sauce/gravy/chilli/curry/grease that somehow missed being caught by mouth, beard and tits on its way south, only to land on shirt somewhere above where (if remember correctly) my navel resides.
I'm 43 and I don't feel like I've reached half way yet??
Well you are statistically unlikely to make it past 86 so you probably are!
However we (I'm the same age) have only had 25 years of adulthood so you might have a few years to go to get to the middle years of adult life.
Diesel for jeans (Costco)
The problem is that they only ever have size 22 leg, 56 waist.
Age 49 wears jeans Howie's or whatever does not look like it was designed for teenagers from tkmax , t shirt , casual shirt over top . fleece . craghoppers kiwis . trainers .north face rain jacket.
Smart is as above but clean .
Very smart is my dads old suit sort of field green with shirt and tie and brown trainers .
I am Dadcore.
On point of bitter principal I refuse to shop in m and s for clothes and won't even enter Next.
49.
Summer - Fat Face shorts and a variety of t-shirts, shirts etc. Vans almost exclusively as footwear unless really sunny then flip-flops etc.
Winter - Jeans (River Island, Next, Mek etc.) Variety of shirts, jumpers, hoodies etc. Vans almost exclusively as footwear unless really wet then boots.
#edit - 40 middle aged? Bollocks. I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up.
#edit2 - I have instructed several people that if I am seen in M&S clothes shopping for myself then I am to be shot. No questions, just shoot.
Middle age probably depends if you've got kids. Looking at people who have they seem ready for retirement by their mid 40s 😀
No kids and seems like there's a lifetime of fun to still be had.
How have you got to middle age without figuring out what to wear at different events?
I find shirts really restrictive, so only wear them for formal occasions / meetings with customers at work. Probably wear T-shirts for 340 days of the year with a fleece if its cold.
I'm 44. I wear suits during the week but non suit clothes come from Paul Costelloe, Fat Face, Timberland and Levis.
I find a decent pair of dark blue Levis with a smartish Paul Costelloe shirt topped with a Fat Face / Timberland jacket or coat gets me through most situations.
STW is basically the top-gear audience and all the style that goes with it, just that nobody has admitted to wearing a blouson rally jacket with small race team logo on the front (huge on the back) as their 'going out' outfit.
There must be some right weapon on here who wears one? 😕
STW is basically the top-gear audience and all the style that goes with it, just that nobody has admitted to wearing a blouson rally jacket with small race team logo on the front (huge on the back) as their 'going out' outfit.
that's more pistonheads isn't it? I'd characterize STW style as looking like a bargain bin raiding freerider with a pillow up his shirt
I think tucked in shirt and jeans is somewhat maligned. Yes, if it's an office shirt then you do look like the finance director on a day off, but with a decently colourful / patterned shirt and decent jeans (Edwin and Gustin for me plus a pair of black 501s for 'not obviously jeans') I reckon it's doable for a semi-formal occasion such as dinner at a decent place.
Otherwise, it's shorts and t-shirts for as long as I can stand the cold, and then older edwins and t-shirts for winter, with suit +/- tie for properly formal.
I think tucked in shirt and jeans is somewhat maligned.
I always thought an untucked shirt and jeans was chav dress style? It certainly used to be the case that on a Friday / Saturday night Cambridge City centre was invaded by the inbreds from the fens who all wore the uniform of untucked shirt and branded jeans and then got blind drunk by about 7.30 before kicking off....
Well cut jeans in dark blue, not black.
Slim cut shirt, one designed for casual wear and not a shirt that you'd wear with a suit. White is good if you can find a good shirt, blues and pinks are fine too. And tuck it in FFS, you're not a ruffian.
Jacket if needed. Not a suit jacket, likely a thicker weave, maybe tweed if you fancy it, if not navy blue is good. Pocket square optional.
Brown shoes or boots, I like brogues but others work as well. What they are not is your office shoes, they're also unlikely to be black.
Nice belt that matches your shoes.
Done. Not Top Gear style as your jeans won't be baggy, your shirt will fit and you won't be an insufferable fool.
Just think Ed Reardon for me.
Other than work / funerals / weddings, I don't go anywhere too posh for jeans. For gigs I wear black jeans, t-shirt, shirt, decent boots
Is it wrong that Morrissey is my style icon in that regard. I'm aiming for this
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Better brands bought used from EBay
e.g. Patagonia,Paul Smith,Boden,Ted Baker etc etc.
Another 43 year old. Not sure if I'm middle aged, probably...
Zara for me for that not-quite-formal-but-not-tshirt look, as it's pretty reasonably priced in Spain, and I'm slim enough to wear their stuff. Although right now I'm sitting here in Decathlon shorts and an H&M T-shirt...
I always thought an untucked shirt and jeans was chav dress style? It certainly used to be the case that on a Friday / Saturday night Cambridge City centre was invaded by the inbreds from the fens who all wore the uniform of untucked shirt and branded jeans and then got blind drunk by about 7.30 before kicking off....
And tuck it in FFS, you're not a ruffian.
This is not me (not sure that's my sort of jacket, I'd have socks on and converse or a smarter shoe if I wanted to tune it up a bit more) but not far off . Not sure that untucked shirt has to say chav/ruffian. Must stress, this is not I would wear out of choice - default is still jeans, t shirt and/or hoody if I can get away with it, but it's there to fill the gap for things like gallery openings and to put off going anywhere proper smart save funerals.
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If you've got past 30, and still haven't figured out what suits you and how to dress properly, then it's too late I'm afraid. If you're trying to look 'cool', then you'll fail, as that's something that can only come naturally. You could try to dress exactly the same way as someone who does look 'cool', and fail miserable. The best thing is to just wear what makes you feel comfortable. At least you'll feel comfortable, and not as awkward as a chav in a cheap suit up before the beak.
The best way to be, is to look like you don't give a ****. Be that in a 3-piece suit, or old work gear. And not to give a shit what others think of you.
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I got a mate who works in M& S....not in the shop ..but at the HQ...he is quite high up the ladder
Anyway I was talking to him saying how shit menswear at M& S is...
And he's reply to me
Was we don't cater for people who dress up as pop stars!!....were both 43.....but you would think the age between us was 10 years....
Maybe when I was younger and trying to get into pubs ...I should have just dressed in M&S clothes to make me look older...lol
And if you're over 30 anyway, why are you worried about how you look?|
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Summer casual is a plain tee, some pre wash jeans (nudie normally) and chucks. Smart (as I get) is something like an Oxford shirt, chinos and cleaner chucks.
Winter casual will be a sweater (reigning champ are good), patagonia coat, cuffed jeans and boots, smarter similar, raw lee 101s, plaid shirt and red wings with a reefer coat.
When buying clothes, timing is everything. Buy out of season. All of my redwings were half price or better.
I try to look like this gentleman.
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Cargo shorts trainers and t shirts nearly all the time .I am toying with the idea of shorts to my wedding .I hate getting ponced up .If its cold a cheap hoodie or a decent fleece top
How many of you think those awful boat shoes look good ? I have the urge to point and laugh everytime I see them worn.
Dear God.
Just go along to Boss and get a decent salesman/woman to dress you. Explain you want to look normal in everyday life and trust them that they'll dress you correctly. Pay your money, stand tall and walk out looking normal. I do have one caveat and that's don't buy the large obnoxious logo garments they sometimes sell. Other than that it'll cost you£1000 to kit you out.
Suck it up and pay it.
HTHs
£1000
...on clothes - are you mad!? 😀
£1000
...on clothes - are you mad!?
'Normal' - if I read correctly?
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£1000
...on clothes - are you mad!?
That's a lot of T shirts and shorts!
"Middleaged" is a state of mind, one that should be avoided if you want joy in your life.
Personally, jeans, a nice thick casual shirt untucked (if it's got a tail you can't do that) and a nice pair of casual tan leather shoes is me from very casual all the way up to wedding/interview/court.
Most of the time though it's t-shirt, jeans and trainers.
I wear everything without giving too much of a shit and it suits me. A lack of confidence sticks out far more than the wrong type of shirt or shoes.
that's CRAVAT, BB 😀I do have one caveat
Can't go wrong with walking trousers.
Can't go wrong with walking trousers.
as long as they're Hugo Boss
I've been wearing hoodies and skate shoes ( mostly Animal ) for years and I'm heading full pelt for 60 in November , thing is I don't give a flying you know what what other people think 🙂 There problem not mine ! Worn Animal gear for yonks for several reasons , mainly for supporting MTBing , reasonably priced and darn good quality 🙂 Recently revisited my skinhead past with a check and a two tone Ben Sherman and Levi's , what goes around etc . If new footwear is needed DMs might be on the list . Trouble is I'm old enough to remember when they were reasonably priced and made in this country 🙁 Now they are around 100 quid and made in China 🙁
Start at the bottom with very good shoes I reckon 200 quid is about the cheapest you'll pay for a decent pair although you can get something for less if you shop around the sales. I really like Loake as they are good value. Lots of choice for trousers but I avoid anything with prominent logos Hugo Boss are a good fit over cyclists thighs but Uniglo make some decent value trousers. Shirts again no logos I think they just look cheap and a bit silly TBH, I like Uniglo shirts for value they last and wash well. Good jackets/blazers are expensive but worth paying for or even better have one tailored or buy something expensive SH and have it altered.
Mostly I'm in combat shorts or jeans and tshirts but my job requires I dress smasual a lot of the time.
Just choose clothes that fit well, are made from good fabrics and you feel comfortable wearing, personally my main rules are no or very discrete branding and try not to be fashionable just timeless.
Currently shorts and a T-shirt which says "Rock the Vinyl". The Ramones one is in the wash. I'll put sandals on if I go out.
Clothes shopping?
Is that a thing?
Another one for not giving a stuff for what others think. I wear what I like, normally cheap stuff because clothes are a waste of money, compered to other stuff.
FP, clean Levi's and Geox pseudo trainers or Timberland boots. Coat? Dark navy Marc O'Polo jacket or Jaeger pea coat.
slowoldman - MemberClothes shopping?
Is that a thing?
My wife thinks it's a pastime, she buys all my clothes for me.
