[Closed] Just had a 'discussion' with the wife - 'Why do women go to Chipendales?'

You asked a woman.
She gave you an answer.
Why do you thing she was lying?

's about the size of it, I believe.

Blokes go to strip shows for a bit of a perv, women go to point and laugh.

Blokes go to strip shows for a bit of a perv, women go to point and laugh.

Balls!

There was a bit on TV about this years ago where two sets of audiences were watching shows and filmed.
The women were jumping around laughing and giggling, having a right good time. The blokes were taking a bit more seriously.

meh, why worry?

Cougar - Member

's about the size of it, I believe.

Blokes go to strip shows for a bit of a perv, women go to point and laugh.

Because it simply is not funny, is it? I don't find naked women dancing funny, not even the rolly pollies!

Like I said, if you want a laugh, go to a comedy show, where's the joke in seeing oily beefcakes wearing fireman's outfits and covering women in shaving foam? If they do find it funny, then I despair for all these women.

's about the size of it, I believe.

I heard thats what women said.....

It's about size. End off.

You asked a woman...

...Why do you thing she was lying?

Her mouth was open..??

Because it simply is not funny, is it? I don't find naked women dancing funny, not even the rolly pollies!

Yes, but, at the risk of being presumptuous, you're a bloke.

I hate to break this to you, but women are a bit different to men. Those distracting bumps aside, their brains (and hormones) work in different ways to ours. That said...

where's the joke in seeing oily beefcakes wearing fireman's outfits and covering women in shaving foam?

... that sounds absolutely ludicrous to me, and about as erotic as a hole in the head.

chewkw - Member

It's about size. End off.

So, they go to see C0ck? Are big todgers funny, or something more sinister? I just can not believe that they go 'for a giggle' seems rather childish. If she'd just fess up that women find it a) a turn on b) exciting to see massive willies etc I'd be happy, but she won't admit it.

My argument was that the human race would probably not have survived if women just found penis's amusing, rather than actually seeing another use for them. I think that the 'finding it funny' excuse is pathetic, in more ways than one, they just want to see big d1cks, (I want to write 'end of' then, but won't).

If you're using 'survival of the species' as an argument, that only holds up if big willies are more potent.

people go and watch all sorts of stuff-- for different reasons possibly- i wouldnt go and see Michael Macintyre even if you paid me, but seems many people do-- as long as they're not bothering you , what is your beef ?
exploitation ?/ --of who? --

shoefiti - Member
chewkw - Member
It's about size. End off.
So, they go to see C0ck? Are big todgers funny, or something more sinister? I just can not believe that they go 'for a giggle' seems rather childish. If she'd just fess up that women find it a) a turn on b) exciting to see massive willies etc I'd be happy, but she won't admit it.

May I suggest you are over thinking this a little.
If a man goes he's a disgusting exploitative pervert up to no good.
If a woman goes it's just a bit of harmless fun
Who says women don't rule the world

Cougar - Member

Because it simply is not funny, is it? I don't find naked women dancing funny, not even the rolly pollies!

Yes, but, at the risk of being presumptuous, you're a bloke.

I hate to break this to you, but women are a bit different to men.

Sounds like you are only deluding yourself also.

I suppose all those millions of women spent countless millions of pounds reading '50 shades of grey' for a 'good laugh' too. What a crok. If women didn't find what they saw a turn on, then fat ugly guys like me would clean up when out on the town, but they don't do they! Women should own up to what they are - humans (maybe)

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Next you will expect them to say what they really mean.....

what is your beef ?

No real beef, I wouldn't care who went, or why, I'd just like an honest response that women [i]may[/i] go because they like it, visually, sexually - but not the reasoning that it's 'funny' is just doesn't wash.

Next you will expect them to say what they really mean.....

😀

I wouldn't care who went, or why, I'd just like an honest response that women may go because they like it, visually, sexually - but not the reasoning that it's 'funny' is just doesn't wash.

So an honest reply is the one you want to hear.

and I bet she still said no you can't go to the Strip Club after the works party even if you buy her tickets to the Chippendales

paying to watch people undressing seems odd whatever way you frame it-- if it was free might have more meaning 😉

Sounds like you are only deluding yourself also.

Well, no. I'm not the one getting bent out of shape about it.

Look at it another way; say they are going to get off on it. Who cares? Really, does it matter? If my OH went to watch some filth and came back randy as a badger, ultimately I'm only going to benefit from that.

So you can see the double standards thing going on here right? As propagated by Cougar.

Cougar - Member

Sounds like you are only deluding yourself also.

Well, no. I'm not the one getting bent out of shape about it.

Look at it another way; say they are going to get off on it. Who cares? Really, does it matter? If my OH went to watch some filth and came back randy as a badger, ultimately I'm only going to benefit from that.

Ha, ha so it's true! I'm taking a screen shot of that before you edit it. I knew it.

It must be feel like a weight off.

shoefiti - Member
So you can see the double standards thing going on here right? As propagated by Cougar.

So i'm guessing you lost the "Discussion" with the wife then.....

Look at it another way; say they are going to get off on it. Who cares? Really, does it matter? If my OH went to watch some filth and came back with a randy [/s] badger, ultimately I'm only going to benefit from that.

not sure about that

Basically she said they went "for a laugh",not because it was a comedy experience.I go out on the lash with my friends "for a laugh",not because that's a comedy experience either,but because it amuses me,if you don't understand the difference,you're lucky she talks to you.
Ian

watch some filth

And I see what you did there. For men to see half naked women dancing around is 'flith' for women to see half naked men it's 'a laugh'

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because it amuses me

Like entertainment? Like in 'Gladiator'? Some perverse display for your titillation perhaps? In the context of the chippendales shows of course.

its only in repressed societies that this shit flourishes

No,because it's an excuse to get together with your mates in a non-threatening situation and drink too much.I used to work in an area where women outnumbered men 3:1,and they often did this sort of thing.Why do you feel so threatened?

I used to work in an area where women outnumbered men 3:1,and they often did this sort of thing.Why do you feel so threatened?

what club was that ?

rudebwoy - Member

its only in repressed societies that this shit flourishes

Exactly my point. I guess it's an outlet. Excitement (sexual or otherwise) in the context of a 'safe environment'.

You're getting there.

Why do you feel so threatened?

Not threatened at all. I just would like some honesty. I wouldn't mind it if my wife said that she had spent the day watching hard core pornography, as long as she didn't tell me that she watched it 'for a giggle'. I feel threatened only by the lack of honesty from the female camp. It must be tough not either accepting to yourself that you enjoy it, especially when you've paid so much for the tickets 🙄

in the old days when there were 'strippers' on in pubs at lunch time, it always struck me as very strange,it weren't 'sexual' , more like 'wrong'----then the women would walk round with a pint pot collecting money, they didn't look very happy-- the blokes too were often edgy-- strange ...

I always found that strange too. I've bee to a few strip clubs in my time. A good friend thought it would be hilarious to pay for a lap dance for me when we went to the club to pick up his sister in law who was working behind the bar. I found the experience unpleasant. I don't know why, she was very attractive, but I didn't enjoy it at all. I think that my friend knew this would be the case, as he thought it hilarious. I certainly wouldn't go back, or go there with mates. Unlike the women that go back time and time again to these shows! They must get more out of it that I did!

Echo posts above - why can't women be curious about men and their bodies - if it means safety in numbers then let them - sex is not the same as love - its easy for a women to perve over a mans body, and then come home to the one they love - as can a man at a strip club - albeit it seems women's enthusiasm seems "bawdy" rather than "intense" and they can enjoy it as a group rather than as a single person. - OP is over-thinking it all - just accept society doesn't accept women as entirely even or equal in 2012, and celibrate that sexuality and what turns us on, even mildly, isn't the same. There's hormones, and learned behaviour behind it - but ultimately if your threatened by the chippendales, you have bigger issues than believing your partner is leaving you for an oily fireman.

or a randy badger 😉

but ultimately if your threatened by the chippendales, you have bigger issues than believing your partner is leaving you for an oily fireman.

As said earlier not threatened, as my wife would not feel threatened by a leggy stripper as a stag do in Prague. I am just curious as to why some women feel the need to repress their own feelings of sexuality to the extent of self delusion.

Why do women go to chipendales?

Why do men go to Stringfellows?

Someone mentioned 50 shades of grey up there. That is a LOOONG way from Chippendales.

Strippers are a bit ridiculous - naughty, outrageous, like a hardcore carry-on film or 50s seaside postcard.

50SOG on the other hand plays to many women's secret fantasies, and they can read it in the dark on their own.

Much the same way as if you showed a daft porno at a beery house party it'd get laughed at, but if you watch one on your own in your bedroom it wouldn't be funny.

I went round a friends (an on/off girl friend at Uni) and she was sat there, on a bed, seriously engaged in watching some hardcore, with her flatmate (also a girl). Now this girl was pretty open minded. She just sat there with it on, watching. She seemed to be taking it quite seriously, grading the performances etc and commenting on which things they liked and didn't. Quite the eye opener.

Not sure what category of Molgrips theory that behavior falls into? She was quite a handful in the sack thou. 😀

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Without the pressure to either perform or be performed upon.

That's what these shows are all about.

They go to look at good looking, well built lads and indulge a few fantasys, simple as that.

The reason it's a 'laugh' is because women can actually communicate in a group and let their guard down unlike men who tend to either get embarrassed and repressed or all Alpha around naked women in a group situation.