[Closed] Ex's... To call or not to call?

don't do it.

If there's filth on the cards, call. If not, don't call. Easy. You'll regret calling either way, but at least if there's a bit of action in the offing you won't feel quite so bad.

what have you got to lose mate? Give her a call - wish her happy christmas

If she's fit and you want her, call. Otherwise post pics and we'll tell you she's not worth it.

Delete number and move on. Theres a reason she(?) is an Ex!

Right came as soon as i could is there some chance of proper full on filth and/or do you want to get back with her, if there is the chance of fun no string and your not getting any at the mo make the call have some dirty fun and leave it at that,if on the other hand you think you might want to get back with her DON'T DO IT HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR YOUSELF!!! 👿

Don't do it. If you want to call he its because you are still hanging onto something about the relationship, there is a good risk you'll end up feeling worse than you do now.

Hmmm, there's a good chance of filth, but if it turned into her just wanting sex, that would be hardfor me, we triedthatafter the break up. I'mnotgetting any ATM though:(

This is going to sound wierd, but I keep ondreaming about her. Does mean I'm going to turn into a psycho?

Also, i don't actually have her number, deleted it ages ago, so If I do, how should I contact her?

Oh, And she is a hottie, I'll try to find a pic, but I,m only on an I phone...

[i]Hmmm, there's a good chance of filth, but if it turned into her just wanting sex, that would be hardfor me, we triedthatafter the break up. I'mnotgetting any ATM though:(

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call her.

I'mnotgetting any ATM though:(

arse to mouth? 😯 😯 [img] [/img]

You don't have her number, it's a sign fella..

This is going to sound wierd, but I keep ondreaming about her. Does mean I'm going to turn into a psycho?

Yes.

Also, i don't actually have her number, deleted it ages ago, so If I do, how should I contact her?

Drunk, in your pants, her house, 1am.

Works every time.

The best pics live on phones 😉

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lol @ barry bethel

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I'd like to suggest you get a life - but if you ask advice about ex-girlfriends on stw, then perhaps that ship has sailed.

AndyP, thanks a million!

Are you both single?

If yes, then call, the most damage you can do is continue to **** each other up for a bit longer, literally by the sound of it. If either one has a "current" then don't call, go home, have a w**k, go to bed

but I keep ondreaming about her.

Hmmm....

Sticky duvet?

Too Tall Brutal but true.

Has she actually asked you to call or is it just that you fancy calling her?

i,ve called her for you, posting this from her wifi connection 😉

Pigface - I like to call it Tough Love.

Then again - if you can't kick a man when he is down, when can you kick him? 😈

Do you mean Kill or Call?

Call - no.

Kill........

[i]I'mnotgetting any ATM though:([/i]

Then get some.

Go forwards, not back.

get pissed and try remembering her number, if not there are a world of other ladies out there on christmas eve who deserve some lovin

Don't do it!!! She's an ex for a reason...you'll regret it if you call her.

Watch porn instead 😀

Call her and tell her you hate her.

Make Christmas interesting.

Find out her number, then post it here. We'll do some research and find out if you should call.

If you just want to **** her and you think she'll reciprocate do it.

My ex called me, I told her that if we met up I'd essentially be using her for just one thing, she said she'd be doing exactly the same, and some truly filthy uninhibited shenanigans have ensued.

I'd never ask of a current girlfriend what I asked of my ex (since she has been the ex), wouldn't want a GF who was that dirty!

What have you got to lose?

NOT IN TIS LIFE TIME ! not that I am bitter and twisted you understand, more the fact she is satans daughter 😉

**** it, I'm going to go to her house after work this afternoon, and just say hi.

It's far too late for me to get a life by the way, and she's( sadly?) too prude for any arse to mouth.

Sadly!

Why wouldnt you want a girl friend that is filthy? I just dont understand that way of thinking.

I like to think my girlfriends are innocent respectable upstanding members of the community, ideally with their virginity intact.

If you want a filthy gf though, come for a night out down here, no word of a lie a mate pulled using the chat up line 'I want to lick your A hole clean out'. She wasn't even bad looking.

No don't do it.
It Christmas and New year , which really is the best time to meet new girlfriends. People are more approachable at this time of the year, friendlier and many a little bit piddled. So put your energy into finding someone that is right for you.

[i]People are more approachable at this time of the year, friendlier and many a little bit piddled. [/i]

that's not a defence that would work in court!

arse to mouth?

I broke up with a girl years ago for what felt like good reasons but regretted it. Stayed friends and discovered later that if I'd got in touch and talked a month or so after we could have sorted out the issues and got back together. Regretted that ever since, she's a lovely girl. C'est la vie.

Could you handle it if she doesn't want you?

ive found over the years that delteting the number is the best solution,so i dont call them when im hammered wanting a bit, 🙂

go out for a bike ride..

Someone had to say it.

Right, I walked up to her door, but bottled it earlier.

I think that's made up my mind really, she's not worth it. I think...

read the first post , scrolled to the end.............DON'T DO IT!!!

Right, I walked up to her door, but bottled it earlier.

I think that was about the time she knocked on your door but you were out 😕

Mine called me NYE 2000. Got back together, got married, 2 little twin girls. 🙂 so my advice - wait for her to call you 😉

As they say, faint heart never won fair lady, but to be honest you know in your own head which is the right choice for you, whichever way it goes. Which will you regret the most? - giving it a try or giving it a miss. Only you really know, not the people on here. Good luck either way.

Not read the full post but she's an Ex.
She's an Ex for very sound reasons.
Keep it that way. She's someone elses "problem" now.
Now please, Move on.
Mountain bike forum or Agony Column in a Red Top?
Good will to all men (but not Ex's).
Move on. Stay off the pop, don't get slushy and sentimental simply cause it's Xmas.

Go and ride your bike and tell us good it felt and not about pestering your Ex unnecessarily.

Life is too short to be spent not living. Hooking up and nailing her senseless is living. Going round and feeling the real pain of rejection is also living. Sitting at home geeking on forums and wondering about what ifs is most definitely not living.

eeee back in't'day we didn't have internerd forums

but the advice would still be "she's ex for a reason". Don't go there. I nearly did once, and I still wonder what [i]might[/i] have happened.

But shortly afterwards I met the woman who is now my wife 🙂
That was 20 years ago and probably wouldn't have happened if I had gone back with the ex

Now, where are the photos? No discussion is complete without them.

[i]but the advice would still be "she's ex for a reason". Don't go there. I nearly did once, and I still wonder what might have happened. [/i]

I actually did once, and I don't need to wonder what might have happened, because we've now been married for 10 years.

Post break up sex is great.
Clinging on instead of MTFU is not.

End of story.